I have been in a relationship for around a year and half with my guy. He use to be very fun loving and have heaps of enegry and like to go sight-seeing and make the most of a lovely day.Maybe go for a country drive or brisk walk to the park.But I found in the last few months, his motivation to get out and do stuff has gone. I really have to push him to get motivated. He is 10 years older then me, (38). Do you think that he is just naturally slowing down as you progress with age or is there more to it? I have talkd with him but seems to get on edge when i suggest ideas.
2007-11-17 13:54:23 · 8 answers · asked by Honey 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
38 is crazy young!!! He's got many years before slowin down. Is it his job? Time for a move? His diet changed? Maybe you should get him to go out dancing, to make him remember what fun is;) Good luck, i have the same prob and my hubby's 22 and I'm 24, but he hates where we moved to and that's got him down, so we're gonna move closer to the city where there's more to do. So if you can find the problem, then you can think of a solution.:)
2007-11-17 14:03:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
point with him.. tell him which you will not try this on your gained. Make a cope with him. the 1st day he has off is his, he can sleep all he needs. the 2nd day is an afternoon to get issues completed, including restoration the pipe, or bypass residing house searching. The 0.33 day is kin day, for all 3 of you and the toddler to do something relaxing at the same time. desire it works out.
2016-09-29 10:56:11 · answer #2 · answered by lindholm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest having him take a mid-day nap before encouraging ideas for daily fun. Then he'll be well rested and ready to go.
2007-11-17 14:05:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down and ask what the problem is.
"Edgar, I am concerned as of late. You seem to have lost some zip in your life. Is anything troubling you?"
2007-11-17 14:01:57 · answer #4 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes getting to comfortable, its like hes married, he doesn't have to prove anything any more, he doesn't have to be fun, or take you anywhere, you better nip this in the bud, or he will never marry you, and take you for granted.....doesn't look good.......this should be taking place twenty years from now....you are both to young for this
2007-11-17 14:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Judy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may just like being home or he could be having depression.
Does he seem happy at home?
I am older and I don't want to go places, I like being home.
2007-11-17 13:59:22 · answer #6 · answered by shipwreck 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not the age.. its the age of the relationship.. it happens to us all. Maybe not so soon in the relationship, that could be from his age.
what was his motivation before?
2007-11-17 13:58:28 · answer #7 · answered by Veteranschoice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 38 he should have more energy and desire than ever!!! he needs to get a physical!
2007-11-17 13:57:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋