Family & Relationships - 17 November 2007

About two years ago, I'd a quarrel with a girl and in my stupidity, I tore her pic infront of her mates.
Gradually my heart fell for her, n she came to know about my feelings too. Her best friend told me that if I'd not behaved in such a bad manner with her, she would have accepted my proposal. Well recently I called her and she talked to me in a nice way. But she is very reseved type,She doesn't talk much.yesterday i sms her in her sis mobile n as her sis was not at home she couldn't reply n as such i thougt that she was not intersted in me and send her another sms giving her a final gud bye but 2 my surprise i got a reply where she told that she couldn't reply coz the cell was not hers and asked if i was angry. ialso came 2 know that She talks about me with her best friend. She doesn't have any boyfriend.Does she has any interested in me?Atleast she knows that i still love her.

2007-11-17 21:23:59 · 11 answers · asked by yahoo 1 in Singles & Dating

When i'm using my laptop he comes up from behind and kisses my cheek softly. i havent ever asked him if he's gay because i've seen him with women, but i have never had a guy be so sweet and tender with me. its adorable but i dont want to assume he has boyish feelings for me. what should i say to him?!?

2007-11-17 21:23:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my sister explained that her bf was really interested in doing it with her, but she isnt ready for it yet.

i explained to him when i first met him that if she told me anything that made him not look like an absolute angel, that id take him to the cleaners...and i did.

she came home crying and saying that she couldnt take it anymore, and that she wasnt ready. i asked where he was, she told me, i left and...lets keep it PG. ill just say that if you saw a before and after shot, you'd say, "is that REALLY the same guy?!"

im not sure how she would react, its been a couple of days and she doesnt know yet. i asked her if she was still going out with him, but she just said, "i deal with what's going on right now...i dont want to see him"

i just wondering if i sort of over did it. i know he had it coming, im very protective of my sister...just wondering if i went too far.

2007-11-17 21:18:32 · 14 answers · asked by Mr Giggity 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

And its hard because we have been friends for awhile.

2007-11-17 21:15:18 · 11 answers · asked by Kris L 1 in Singles & Dating

My BF is 34 years old.
He is lawyer with two advanced degrees.
His dad bought him his house and car. But his Dad's name is the ONLY 1 on 'his house'
Even though my bf is a lawyer he has zero savings and is in fact in debt he tells me.
Last year he had 19k in credit debt after he was fired and used credit to survive on (mind you he had no car or mortgage payments)
I do love him but he laments he is bad with money but acts immature if i tell him how i have saved.
Im in my 30s too and have a modest networth for my age (about 160k total)
I like to spend my money too and I should have 350k by now, but I SPENT aton over last 10 years.
But I also work like a maniac.
ANyway I do not understand how he has no savings.
He has promised me he will change and be an adult when we get married, he says having kids will make him work much harder.

SHould I believe him ?

2007-11-17 21:13:28 · 11 answers · asked by lUKE13422 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How old do you think I look ? Heres some photos

http://www.flickr.com/photo_zoom.gne?id=2042323479&size=o

http://www.flickr.com/photo_zoom.gne?id=2042485756&context=photostream&size=l

2007-11-17 21:11:37 · 17 answers · asked by Sammy G 1 in Singles & Dating

Well I'm guessing so as it's so hard to get her to comit some time to do stuff with me ie try dresses on look at florist thought it would be nice to do these things together think I'm gonna have to put the pressure on and say I'll get someone else to go with me but as she is my only bridesmaid you think she would enjoy it
Anybody else having problems with their friends?

2007-11-17 21:10:52 · 16 answers · asked by Tulip 2 in Weddings

2007-11-17 20:54:07 · 1 answers · asked by tragickingdom 1 in Singles & Dating

okay so my 8th month old cat will not stop scratching on the cabinets and doors to everyroom he has destroyed them and we have tried everything from the squirting with water to putting the scents cats dont like on the doors Nothing works and he has been VERY bad about it lately like hell do it for two straight hours and he has a scratching post but my question is was I being too cruel to him tonight
he wouldnt stop and its 3 am and hes been at it for two hours and I was frustrated and we always put his bed in the bathroom and put him in there when we eat and tonight since he wouldnt stop I put him in the bathroom and its a small bathroom and I went to lay down planning on getting him out in 10 minutes well I fell asleep and woke up 50 minutes later and ran to get him out and the heat was on and it was VERY hot in there and he was hot to the touch
was that CRUEL of me too do that I LOVE Him and feel so bad about it

2007-11-17 20:51:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

from prudence

2007-11-17 20:32:20 · 21 answers · asked by prudence 2 in Singles & Dating

When you get an escort, is it illegal if you just put money in an envelope and dont actually give it to her and dont talk about it? and some physcial activity proceeds.

2007-11-17 20:32:00 · 3 answers · asked by jack a 1 in Singles & Dating

I’m dating my colleague 2 months ago, everything happens so fast, were just normal friends and co-worker before and we are not that close…. & then he started to call me and ask me out, at first I always turn him down coz I’m not attracted w/ him…But then I realize why don’t give it a try as I’m single and getting bored with my life.. Were going out every weekend and enjoys each others company. We are not officially on and nobody from the company knows about us so we are really formal in the office as if nothing is going on between us. Suddenly everything change, were not going out anymore…I ask him at least a reason why is this happening and he told me that he’s very busy with his masteral class and at the same time working in the office. I know I cannot demand anything to him because we are not committed. I decided to just leave him alone for him to concentrate with his priorities.…but of course I cannot deny the fact that I will still see him everyday at work …I slowly fall in love with this guy and this is killing me… Now I’m starting to move on and sent him an e-mail for the last time just to have a closure on what we have, I want piece of mind & at least be friends like we are before, but he replied to me and telling me to still hold on until he finishes his masteral. I’m really desperate, shall I continue this or just let him go, I didn’t see any effort from him to work things out. Please advise me..

2007-11-17 20:30:25 · 7 answers · asked by Freelancer 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-17 20:24:22 · 23 answers · asked by Kat 5 in Singles & Dating

1. what are the signs that you love someone at first sight? the first time i saw my girlfriend i fell in love with her, i thought she was beautiful.

is that love at first sight?

how can you tell if you're ready to get back with you're ex? my heart is telling me yes and my head is telliing me no cause i don't trust and believe in her

2007-11-17 20:22:58 · 15 answers · asked by flirtywordy 1 in Singles & Dating

ok this guy is in my math and science class. he talks to all the girls, all the girls like him and hes went out with a lot of people.
in math class he starts playing with my stuff like my workbook and paper, and moves my desk. he makes jokes asks me questions like about my nvida shirt and he complements my earrings but he also forgot my name one time and said i was a friend whe nthe teacher asked how he got a question. he gives me air fives. when i go up to the smart board after being called hes like you can do it! We like green day and we have alot in commin so answer the question.

2007-11-17 20:21:33 · 8 answers · asked by I LIKE TURTLES 1 in Singles & Dating

He is my bartender at the bar I'm a regular at. He is a stubborn standoffish man without a doubt. (His ex-girlfriend, another bartender I befriended AFTER I met him swears to the challange that he is.)

Anyway.... instances I have to offer:

Last night: caught him staring at me. Not the first time- we at least always catch eyes but he was STARING.

Left my cell phone there one night earlier this year- my friend called him @ the bar, he said he had it and offered to take my phone home with him for me to pick up at his house. I was drunk, didn't take him up on that...

About a month ago a group of us were all at his bar hanging out watching some college football, he wasn't working and he made a list about me in front of everyone, something like, "Let's see- you don't get drunk, you are always well behaved and you're smart." He's old-fashioned mind you- oh and 30, 7 years my senior.

There's other stuff but there's no, "Let's meet somewhere besides this bar." Ugh- help!

2007-11-17 20:17:16 · 3 answers · asked by TERESA 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-17 20:02:58 · 11 answers · asked by mpiskjh 1 in Marriage & Divorce

lack of absence of knowledge regarding his prior marriage or absence of criminal intent .do you think this is valid reason for annulment toward my husband.or do i need more ground just to get the annulment.need idea pls?

2007-11-17 20:02:56 · 3 answers · asked by curimao 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We are dating long distance and he will be flying down soon, but when I asked for the airfare and even suggested that I would like to pay half of it, he said no, and never told me how much he paid! Is this good, bad, and what does this tell about him? Don't I hv the right to know the fare?

2007-11-17 19:55:21 · 5 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

....of things he/she likes in bed? Of romantic things he/she likes out of bed? Of anything big or little that makes him/her love you more? If you woke up and found a letter with a list like that in, what would you think about that?

2007-11-17 19:51:59 · 21 answers · asked by ms_moonlight1977 2 in Marriage & Divorce

that she likes me
. She said to me "aww. your so cute"
.She isnt afraid to touch me she sometimes touches or rubs agiasnt my arm
. Makes frequent eye contact "the eye contact were you feel like she is waiting for something"
. Sometimes says whats up but she generaly ignores me
. Seems nervous around me I was helping her with something once and she berly spoke a word
. She has tried to partner up with me before in science

It may seem obvious but she ignores me and doesnt really make an effort to get to know me. We have know each other for about a year but where not at the friends level.
I would talk to her but i just get so nervous i cant talk to her. oh ya were 18 shes 3 months older but i dont think she knows that



I really do care about her. when i look her in the eyes they just have this glow that really makes me think she feels the same way


she is not shy at all. like she talks around me just not to me

2007-11-17 19:51:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A friend of mine (a guy) got me really disappointed when I saw his girlfriend!!
I mean this friend is soo great and he's smart and handsome and gentle and stylish..he has a good taste in everything..and I used to hear from other people that his girlfriend is really hot..but when I saw her, I got really disappointed in his taste..I mean it seemed to me she has no sense of style..she's not even cute and she wasn't really nice when I met her.

I'm still not sure that this girl is his girlfriend, I haven't asked him. I don't want to ask him..I mean we're friends but he never talks about his personal life. I really got disappointed and I wish I could tell him she's not the one for him, coz he's very dear to my heart. What can I do? I don't wanna ruin our friendship..

2007-11-17 19:49:46 · 3 answers · asked by what goes around comes around 3 in Singles & Dating

A few minutes ago my computer was doing a virus scan and identified a 'Trojan' (not too sure what they are but I know they are supposed to be bad for the PC?) and it was scanning through all this porno stuff on my youger brothers user. Should I tell him to clear his sh*t off the PC and not put it at risk or shall I just say nothing?

2007-11-17 19:49:36 · 10 answers · asked by LONDONER © 6 in Family

in midnight he is coming to my room and approaching me like he wans something from me.he is 14yrs... me a big sis for him.. we loves each other... due to this i told my parents and both of us met a counselor. she was a lady. she told me just accept that he is passing his teenage phase.. and consider him as a lover for a certain period..as he quiting his habits. if u block him, it;ll increase. so let him to do .and say no to penetration. take care of him as a big sis, and kiss him caress himetc. but iam confused... plz help me

2007-11-17 19:49:11 · 19 answers · asked by sri L 1 in Family

i catch my husband having numbers that he gets from other women and when i call him on it, he says he has no intention of calling them. He admits that as long as he can get a number that its proof enough that he still gots "game". is that stupid, should i get mad and do you think he is lieing and he probably does call these other women? what would you do???

2007-11-17 19:47:02 · 16 answers · asked by as9119 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hmm,lets see theres this girl in my cell group(is a group wher ppl come on saturday to worship God) and she came wif a bunch of p6 from children church and i think she is cute and the one for me but i always told myself to tell her how i feel about her on reallife casue i do not wanna do it on msn or phone casue if not it looks like i am a coward but the thing is everytime i want to confess to her i do not noe what to say can someone help me?by the way i am sec 2 next yr =) if you wanna say something like too young or anything pls click Back on the top left of ur screen

2007-11-17 19:44:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Although I have gone on maybe two dates in my entire life, I feel that it may be time to give it a try again now that I will have some more time. I haven't tried it since I was 23 years old about 5 years ago. It's pretty scary getting back into the "game" but it is kind of exciting as well. I still have a lot to look forward to: my first girlfriend, my first kiss etc. While some people tell me I have started much too late, I have so much more to look forward to than they do. I also have a lot to offer a woman! I am employed full time, I am educated, I am secure financially and I live at home with my parents and other adult siblings, which indicates that I am a family man :-) . The question I have though is this: Why do I encounter so much jealousy regarding my situation? More people actually mock it than respect it. I don't want praise but I don't understand the mockery, especially from girls my age. Clearly they are jealous for some reason or they wouldn't make the comments.

2007-11-17 19:42:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have heard that when one is intimate with one's partner, in women there are hormones that release, that calm her and also actually make her more attracted to her spouse/partner. My question is for men to reply to mainly: do you feel more emotionally attached/attracted to your spouse, the more intimacy you experience together? Or is it a much bigger deal, emotionally speaking, for women than for men?

2007-11-17 19:35:13 · 19 answers · asked by ms_moonlight1977 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and raise two small kids, look after the house.

My husband works fulltime then sits every night watching tv. Is this fair? If he does cook dinner on the weekend - meat and chips he is a hero?

2007-11-17 19:35:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Well I'm pretty fit, not fat or skinny (skinny as in bones or small muscles). I'm a freshman at college and I don't have a gf yet because I haven't pursued anyone yet. But what I have been noticing is that many girls don't always go for fit guys no more, thats not bad but I think its cool since they prefer personality and other traits. Unlike high school everyone was so shallow. I mean I see skinny or physically fit girls with guys who have bulging or round bellies, a lot of them too.

So a guy being physically fit is only a bonus right? Either way I'm still gonna try to build myself for my health.^^

Thanks for reading.

2007-11-17 19:21:42 · 21 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Singles & Dating