Family & Relationships - 17 November 2007

This 25 y/o guy invites a girl he went on 3 dates with to his housewarming party, and he asks her to crash over, but she chooses to leave. He has been pursuing her and impressing her for about 3 weeks and asked her to become his gf (too soon). His intention is just after sex (a lot of red flags) but she's not the type to sleep around. He thinks by making her his gf, she will more likely to give it up. The night before the party, he was so positive that she will crash over and sleep with him, that he already prepared an exit strategy after he has sex with her. He started telling her that he will soon be fired from his job and even asked her why she is still hanging out with him since he has nothing to offer her. At the housewarming, she only made out with him and his plan to sleep with her failed. Will he give up pursuing her or stick around to make her his gf? How long will he stick around for if she never gives it up to him.

2007-11-17 18:16:54 · 12 answers · asked by angelgirly444 1 in Singles & Dating

If an unwed father voluntarily relinquishes his rights to the unwed single mother who is not intending to marry, can a grandparent form the mother's side adopt the child as a stepparent?

2007-11-17 18:16:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-17 18:16:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im 15 and when i was going out with my boyfriend he said i was pretty but then when we broke up i began telling his friends that alot of my friends and i thought he was weird. even my mum thought he was weird! immediately once he knew that and that i also had a new boyfriend he began saying to my friends that im ugly and that all his friends think im ugly

it really upset me

why did he suddenly change his mind? do you think he was lying in the first place?

2007-11-17 18:13:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if he was travelling away for a period of time.
and told you that a girl is so emotionally attached to him,and in love with him,but this girl is about to have an open heart surgery in a month.
and they have been together as a dear friend for him,but as a lover for her.
and now he confessed to you,and told u that sometimes he really thought of engaging her,coz ohis powerful sensation of sympathy.and she's in deeeeep love with him.
he couldn't really tell her that he's in love with somebody else"you".
and this girl is fantastic and beautiful and funny,and she wouldn't bear if he told her the truth.

and he also doesn't know what to do for her?
he mistaked by makinh her attached to him,but without intend from him,but it already happenned.
what if he told her and then something bad happened to her?
and what about you yourself?
would you feel betrayed by him?
would u forgive him?
what to do

2007-11-17 18:10:14 · 22 answers · asked by passionate 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-17 18:08:36 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met my husband through his ex. They were engaged but she had a self discovery I guess and found out she was lesbian. She actually set us up for our first date. She's still close to my husband and they have a good friendship. anyway we got married and the whole thing and she was there throughout all of it very supportive. we're coming up on our 2nd year anniversary. My problem though is that recently this lesbian broke up with her partner and when that happened I started having sexual dreams about her. And these images stay with me and I can't get rid of them. She's never given me any reason to believe that she likes me or anything and I never had these kinds of thoughts about women before. I've been reading the bible again trying to keep my mind clear of these thoughts but they come back. I can't really discuss it with anyone since my husband is quite paranoid about gay things I think due to his break up. Help please!

2007-11-17 18:08:22 · 30 answers · asked by Terry P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is there really such thing as ugly people
or can anybody be good looking?

2007-11-17 18:06:42 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

http://i26.photobucket.com/albums/c112/Jeo123/Picture029.jpg

Scale of 1-10, how would you rate this picuture?

Heh, yeah, I'm bored but not quite ready to sleep just yet.

2007-11-17 18:06:33 · 11 answers · asked by Xeno 4 in Singles & Dating

her bf is a jerk how do i impress her so she can fall in love with me?

2007-11-17 18:06:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1. whats a region of negative electrical charge?
2. whats found in the nucleus of an atom?
3. what element has 3 energy shells with 6 in the las lvl?
4. what element has 6 nuetrons in the nucleus
5a. whats the symbol of Beryllium?
5b. What element has 81 nuetrons?
6. what is found in energy levels?
7. whats the electcial charge of a proton?
8. what element has the symbol Li?
9. whats the symbol for Silicon?
10. whats the smallest particle of matter that may exist and still have properties of the matter?
11. whats the simplest atom?
12. whats mass divided by volume?
13. what contains protons and neutrons?
14. what elements atomic mass equals 27?
15. what electrical charge is attracted to a postive charge?
16. what element has an atomic mass of 119?
17. what element has 20 protons in the nuclues?
18. what elemnt has the symbol Hg?
19. what is a positive particle found in an atom?
20. what element has 138 neutrons in its nucleus?
contiued in addition info

2007-11-17 18:00:49 · 3 answers · asked by Kristen 2 in Friends

okay this guy asked me to be his girlfriend yesterday and i said yes to him but then i told him it has to be a secret relationship because of my mom. we were okay at first but then we didnt really talk to eachother yesterday and it was really awkward and today he didnt really talk to me and he didnt wait for me after class like he always do and flirt like we used to he also didnt talk to me that much and he was online on yahoo messager he would always talk to me there but this time he stayed for like 5 minutes and he signed off and i dont know whats going on what do you think about this? and does he still counts as my"boyfriend"?

2007-11-17 17:57:31 · 9 answers · asked by bianca 2 in Singles & Dating

I am single, no longer working (plus the job I had there wasn't guys to date there), I don't have many friends, I haven't found the internet to be very useful for dating. I have been on many personal dating sites. I don't know how to really "pick-up" a guy at the bar or any store, I am not into bars anyway because I don't drink. I don't go to clubs.... Where do I go to meet a guy????????????

2007-11-17 17:55:26 · 11 answers · asked by Artist Wanna Be 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm in the process of divorcing now, I had posted here questions about my problem and finally I think I had the final talk with my wife about it and after two years of being separated after she left me, where getting divorced.

Recently (this has nothing to do with my desicion to let go of my wife) I met this incredible girl, she´s fun, she´s so great, and oh my God she is beautiful, I really like her. I might be fallin in love.

I don't know how interested in me she might be, but she´s shown a lot of symphaty for me, she went on a job trip and just got back, and she sent me a message right away, I mean of all her co-workers, she sent the message just to say hi! I called her, and she told me about her trip and asked me about mine (I came back a few days ago).

I don´t even know what to ask, but could she like me? She´s already acknowledged we have many things in common, and she has fun with me too.

2007-11-17 17:53:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should I dump her?

2007-11-17 17:50:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

during third period, there's this really nice guy. as an excuse to talk to him, i pretended i liked someone in my grade. this third period doode is really nice- when my music stand broke (3rd period is nusic for me) he offered to get a new one for me. he has a gf but i heard that he duzn't like her anymore and likes someone else. when i say hi to him he waves to me (not like wave wave, but he only duz it to me). he's azn (partcially like me!) and talks to me like friends do and since some of my friends know who he likes (i don't know who tho) and his gf is their best friend or somethin, they don't talk to me as much anymore. SO duz he like me?

2007-11-17 17:47:47 · 12 answers · asked by stephie <3 giraffes!!!1 jk 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-17 17:46:42 · 5 answers · asked by jassyjmp 2 in Friends

I have a climate change exam tomorrow and a marine biology exam the next day and I haven't studied for either of them. OH GOD, YOU'VE GOTTA HELP ME, WHAT DO I DO?

2007-11-17 17:42:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She doesn't want to talk to my wife, she just wants to observe her to "learn more about what I like in my women."

HELP ME, solve this dilemma. How can I cleverly arrange it so that the two are in the same place without my wife being aware of her?

2007-11-17 17:41:45 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating this guy 3wks he has been a gentleman up until a few days ago he kissed my t!t i said i didnt wanna go there coz it can lead to sex. He says he was offended that i was offended,coz he had really felt like he was really trying put forth the effort to show me he liked me and not just get in my pants.He says i let you in my world, we spend time 2gether not just at night but all times of the day, he has let me come to his home on several occasions, and he says if you stay around you will meet my family. Now the only reason he has not come to my home is coz i have 2 kids at home and i am not quite ready for them to become a part of this yet.So it does work out a little better that we can go to his place. wat do you think

2007-11-17 17:41:22 · 4 answers · asked by latora_king 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, so theres this guy and hes in my p.e. class. i like him, and i knowww he likes me too. the problem is, hes technically a complete stranger. he friend requested my best friend on myspace, and then was like, "don't you know kelsey?" so, my friend replied saying, "ya, why?" and he never answered her. he stares at me alllllll the time, but has never said a word to me. how do i get him to approach me, or how do i hint to him that i like him without directly saying it?
pleasssse dont tell me should talk to him first. that's the last thing i wanna do.
thankss
=]

2007-11-17 17:39:06 · 9 answers · asked by kelseyy. 1 in Singles & Dating

So this girl next door to me has been friends wit me for many many years and i'm starting to get some feeling for her. but i don't know how to tell her because if i try i get nervous. And i really get nervous though because she is 14 and 6'4. and i'm 16 and 5'0 and she is even stronger then me too. But i don't focus on that though cause i just enjoy her company.

but just thinking of dating, to me it will be weird and i don't know what 2 do.

if i decide to tell her i love her then how should i tell her?

2007-11-17 17:36:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he asked me out but my friend says he looks like a monkey be honest what do u think?

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewPicture&friendID=100511099&albumId=1323547

2007-11-17 17:31:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-17 17:29:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently founded my own rap music label known as Super King Reconds. To help with the promotion of my label, I legally changed my name to Super King since I needed a gangsta' sounding name for publicity purposes and my birth name, Ted Swanson, was too white-bread. My daughter's friend who is 17 found out about my new name and told me that that made me sound hot and that she now fantasizes about me! My wife got wind of this and is now insisting that I change my name back to Ted Swanson! I can't do this because I need my new name for my image! Also, my son who is going to be the star of my rap label legally changed his name to Cash-Money God and my wife is insisting that he change his name back. I need him to have a gangsta' sounding name also and his original name, Earl Swanson, is even more white bread than mine! I need him to have a gangsta' sounding name since he will be star of my record label. What should I do to convince my wife to see things my way?

2007-11-17 17:26:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So much has happen during our marriage and yet I still cant let go, This probably makes no sense. But my heart loves my husband 4 life. He was just remanded thursday for a criminal case (theft). The history of us goes like this in 94 we met we fell in love, he started doing drugs was a drug dealer, had a gf that he told me he had broke up with and of course I believed it because she was gone for months and I went to his moms house and he stayed with me so I had no reason to believe otherwise. He got caught slippin and was getting really weird his drug use got worse he was livin to lives plus the drugs I was pregnant it was hard he would like and lie and I knew it ws guilt that made him so ugly I watched him go down the hill, its hard to watch someone you love loose themselves. Biut he didnt get rid of one of us he tried to manage it, of course he could not. the ***!!! Instead he steals a car goes to prison fo r 6 years. We are married I have the baby 2 days after his bday.

2007-11-17 17:26:34 · 9 answers · asked by cjurluv 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What if you really care about someone, and feel really attracted to them, but they're just all over you 24/7??? I'm talking about someone who never seems to take their eyes off you, wants to kiss and hold you constantly, and is always touching and stroking you in a sexual way? Sure, it sounds like there are a lot of worse problems to have, but too much of even a good thing can wreck it. And how do you talk to someone like this, who is extremely sensitive to criticism, about the problem without crushing them or making them feel inhibited?

2007-11-17 17:26:09 · 14 answers · asked by joe friday's grrl 2 in Singles & Dating

What should I expect? What is the best way to deal with situations like these? I am so shocked! He wasn't suppose to leave until 2009, now he has to leave in 2 weeks! I am not prepared for this at all.

2007-11-17 17:23:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-17 17:21:01 · 5 answers · asked by superchick 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It caused problems with my mate, my wife and his daughter who came to see me. I've agreed reluctantly to let him spank me next week end so we can get back to how we were. I'm not looking forward to it. I know it'll hurt and be very embarrassing.

2007-11-17 17:17:15 · 11 answers · asked by Billy Hughes 1 in Marriage & Divorce