He says he has been a gentleman i think he is just being a player?

Question

I have been dating this guy 3wks he has been a gentleman up until a few days ago he kissed my t!t i said i didnt wanna go there coz it can lead to sex. He says he was offended that i was offended,coz he had really felt like he was really trying put forth the effort to show me he liked me and not just get in my pants.He says i let you in my world, we spend time 2gether not just at night but all times of the day, he has let me come to his home on several occasions, and he says if you stay around you will meet my family. Now the only reason he has not come to my home is coz i have 2 kids at home and i am not quite ready for them to become a part of this yet.So it does work out a little better that we can go to his place. wat do you think

now one thing for sure he has no drama his cell or house phone are jumping off the hook

Answer 1

He sounds like a player to me!! If he was interested in more he would want to meet your kids, first of all , and secondly, if he liked you he would show you with flowers, candy, or perhaps take you to a special restaurant, or something social.
third, the fact that he said if you stay around sounds like he expects that you won't so that makes me think he is out to get what he wants and you have to either stick around and take that or leave. One good way to check a person is to analyze their handwriting at handwriting wizard.com and you may be able to tell more about him by that. You are smart to not let your kids get involved yet but sometimes a divorce or separation can lead to loss of self esteem so I will give you a site to look at. Good Luck to you!!

Answer 2

he is definetly trying to get up in your draws. Why would he be offended if you didnt like something, especially something like what you said. thats silly. He is definetly not a gentleman, a gentleman would not disrespect you in anyway. You know yourself deep down that he is not a gentleman, you just feel like you should give him the benefit of the doubt because he decided to stick around eventho you have kids. You can do better girl. there is more out there.

Answer 3

Regardless to weather or not he's a gentleman or player, of course he going to want sex. That's natural. The real issue, from your perspective, is what it is that you want. If you are not ready to go that route, then don't. Take all the time you need to feel comfortable with him. That is your right.
I commend you for not having him around your children to this point. Good girl. Three weeks is not a long time.
Trust your instincts...not your heart.

Answer 4

been there done that he is a player get away from him now.