2007-11-17 18:08:36 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's got you under his control. He knows it so he will use it to his advantage.
2007-11-17 18:11:56 · answer #1 · answered by tanzer360 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What ever you do, DO NOT TAKE HIM BACK!!! Sure you may "love" him but do you think he really loves you? If he really loves you he would not have left you to begin with! Don't be that kind of girl! Don't let some fag take advantage of you like that! Think about it....he left you to be with someone else because you were not good enough for him, but now that they are broken up he wants to get back with you, why?...because in his mind, you will do..."for now". You are too good for him because here you are asking people what to do because despite him breaking up with you, you still love him, which shows either a lot of commitment or a lot of foolishness. But in the end its all up to you, so im just telling you, do what will make you happy; not what will make him happy.
2007-11-17 18:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by grod13@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't take him back. He's an idiot for letting a good thing go and doesn't deserve you. Even if you luv him, you have to cope with it and move on. Someone who does that to you obviously doesn't respect you enough to treat you well. There are better people out there who will love you unconditionally and wouldn't leave you, then come back when things are bad for him.
2007-11-17 18:11:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on why you broke up in the first place. I know he broke up with you to be with someone else, but why was he attracted to her in the first place? Were there issues in your relationship that made him feel someone else was more attractive? Are those issues lilkely to come up again? On the other hand, maybe he just made a mistake. One thing's for sure--if you get back together with him take it slowly, at least at first. Stick to casual dating until you're sure he's not going to hurt you again. Good luck!
2007-11-17 18:14:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pull yourself away from him as best as you can. No matter how good your future is, you will always have doubts about how he could have left you/why he treated you this way/if he truly respects and loves you. Take the heartache now and save yourself the indecision for years to come. Good luck!
2007-11-17 18:12:02 · answer #5 · answered by dlb_blair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my experience of going through the same thing for a year now. Don't do it. Mine did the same thing. I mean think about it... Do you really wanna go through that kind of pain again? if your answer is no .. then stick with no
2007-11-17 18:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by sunnydays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT go back! You are the fall girl---he will fish for a better deal again, and you should love yourself enough not to allow that to happen again.
2007-11-17 18:11:17 · answer #7 · answered by Marina 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait, how old are you? you're writing like you're 12.
but anyways, i don't think it really matters what advice you get, because no matter what anyone says, you're going to do what you want.
but, just in case, my advice is to forget him. he left you for another girl, and now that he's alone, he wants to use you until he finds someone else. don't let him do that to you. find someone better than him.
2007-11-17 18:12:58 · answer #8 · answered by Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this exactly what is happenin to me.....me & my x bf/husband have been together for almost 2yrs....i love him to death & he loves me but what he says is "its not cheatin if u brake up" i dnt believe that crap but i love him & cant see myself with no one else & i knw he's not havin sex with neone else.....he says he still love me & i knw that we will b together again soon......u just have to let him b a boy and continue to b the person that u r....the person that he fell in love with & he will realize that he cant see himself wit no one else but u......cant nobody love him like u love him.....he will see that his life isnt the same without u. If u love him & knw what u want then be with him....dnt worry bout what others think or u will regret it in the end
2007-11-17 18:15:29 · answer #9 · answered by MrS. B. Wo0dS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he finally realized what he still loves you?? You need to ask him why they broke up..start from there. Just don't let him take you for granted...he'll think he can do that to you and you'll take him back every time...Don't do that..be careful.
2007-11-17 18:14:39 · answer #10 · answered by Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go back with him he will break up with you again, you will continue to get walked on your entire life if you let guys treat you like this. He had his shot
2007-11-17 18:11:49 · answer #11 · answered by All Knowing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋