This 25 y/o guy invites a girl he went on 3 dates with to his housewarming party, and he asks her to crash over, but she chooses to leave. He has been pursuing her and impressing her for about 3 weeks and asked her to become his gf (too soon). His intention is just after sex (a lot of red flags) but she's not the type to sleep around. He thinks by making her his gf, she will more likely to give it up. The night before the party, he was so positive that she will crash over and sleep with him, that he already prepared an exit strategy after he has sex with her. He started telling her that he will soon be fired from his job and even asked her why she is still hanging out with him since he has nothing to offer her. At the housewarming, she only made out with him and his plan to sleep with her failed. Will he give up pursuing her or stick around to make her his gf? How long will he stick around for if she never gives it up to him.
2007-11-17 18:16:54 · 12 answers · asked by angelgirly444 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He'll probably stick around, but cheat now and then. Every guy does. It's part of a healthy relationship.
2007-11-17 18:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Heh, my suggested time frame was usually around 4 months, but the concept is the same. Make him wait a bit, if he does, he's worth it.
As for your whole story, how sure are you of what the guy was thinking? I could be wrong here, but I get the impression you're the girl and this is just what you felt he was doing/after.
Jumping to conclusions has ended a lot of relationships that could have gone on to be beautiful otherwise...
2007-11-17 18:22:52 · answer #2 · answered by Xeno 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 23:41:04 · answer #3 · answered by ahhee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming this is you, I would say that you have to raise your self esteem or you would dump this guy because of all the warning flags. There are still many guys willing to wait until after marriage for the sex because of love but you have to look for them and not settle for the sex before marriage and then divorce because the relationship is based upon sex and not love.
I will give you a site for the self esteem, and then lose this guy and look for the guy who is right for you. Good Luck!
2007-11-17 18:27:35 · answer #4 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the type of guy. If he has already been trying to sleep with her, more then likely he is only in on it for the sex and won't stick around very long without it.
2007-11-17 18:21:10 · answer #5 · answered by Casey Pieper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should not give it up to him for 6 months. If he's still around after 6 months with no sex, he's good to go!
2007-11-17 18:19:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this so called grl is u u aint gtta lie, now that thats out the way, here it is u gave it up u know what im tlkn bout n his brain is fu'c'ked both of um n their prolly wnt be nothn serious if u make it serious hes gna be hollar'n atcha girlfriend unless u have a fine sista thats single, tc hoochey!
2007-11-17 19:03:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys can wait 6 months... he could be getting some from elsewhere until then... try longer.
2007-11-17 18:20:52 · answer #8 · answered by Jurrassikk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont give in for at least 6months they will show you one way or another what he really truly wants, but hey thats obvious anyway, men love sex and good on them, as there are alot of woman who do too, wait and see
2007-11-17 18:23:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 25 year old guy??
Watch for his lies.
Do you know when he is lying??
When his lips move!
2007-11-17 18:22:17 · answer #10 · answered by sasha1641 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋