okay this guy asked me to be his girlfriend yesterday and i said yes to him but then i told him it has to be a secret relationship because of my mom. we were okay at first but then we didnt really talk to eachother yesterday and it was really awkward and today he didnt really talk to me and he didnt wait for me after class like he always do and flirt like we used to he also didnt talk to me that much and he was online on yahoo messager he would always talk to me there but this time he stayed for like 5 minutes and he signed off and i dont know whats going on what do you think about this? and does he still counts as my"boyfriend"?
2007-11-17 17:57:31 · 9 answers · asked by bianca 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't worry about it, let it be...if he doesn't response to you, that means he doesn't mean it, if he doesn't mean it, why should you worry, let him come to you...
2007-11-17 18:04:44 · answer #1 · answered by Kev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's having second thoughts, and being a jerk. But the only way to find out is to ask him about it. Maybe it's time to also find out what his motive for asking you was... did he just want to be able to say you were his girlfriend, so the secrecy means he no longer wants it?
2007-11-18 02:01:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to tell your friends that he is your boyfriend? Well, maybe he fells the same and you saying that it has to be secret makes him feel that you think he's not worth it that much.. nobody wants to be in the closet, and that's where you put him.
2007-11-18 02:09:54 · answer #3 · answered by The G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. Maybe he's keeping it a secret like you asked him to.
2007-11-18 02:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by :/ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you said it had to be secret. Looks like he did what you said.
2007-11-18 02:00:51 · answer #5 · answered by Whynot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to let it bother you honey, let him come to you. If he doesn't then you'll know what type of person he really is.
2007-11-18 02:02:00 · answer #6 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could have lost interest. OR, he could just be nervous. How old is this "guy"? This is the time when you say, "WHAT UP FOO?"
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2007-11-18 02:02:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah....you're still his gf, but if he acting like that talk to him face to face....clear everything up....you could....talk it out...if you want to make the relationship work then you gotta talk it out...no matter how he's acting
2007-11-18 02:02:30 · answer #8 · answered by Alex c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is nervous.... call him.
2007-11-18 02:00:59 · answer #9 · answered by Jurrassikk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋