Family & Relationships - 17 November 2007

This is what I wrote and read before she passes.

Dear Mother,
I just want to thank you, for some of the things I inherited and learned from you.

Because I was born to you…
I am artistic!
I am out-going and gregarious
I am warm and compassionate.
I am creative!
I am also “hooked” on jewelry!
I’ve learned to appreciate the finer things in life.
I have learned about my Hungarian roots and what a czardas is.
I know how to be organized.
I have a sense of style and design. (Of course!)
I know that the secret to a successful marriage depends on mutual respect, trust, and being considerate of the other’s feelings.
These are the things you taught me that helped me grow.
These are the things I’ve taught your grandchildren, S---- & M---.
For these things, I thank you. I love you. N--.

Did you write your goodbyes? Did you read them aloud to your dyining relative?

I'm glad I did. I can accept her death because I had a chance to tell her how I feel.

Did you?

2007-11-17 19:14:03 · 6 answers · asked by ThisIsIt! 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I just moved in with my moms bf and

well its hard because iI don't have my room(me or my sisters don't have rooms)

we sleep on the fat sack thing and the floor


my parents are saying that there saving there money but they are going to take a trip some were that I really don't care about and now my mom and I don't tallk any more because my mom's bf's kids are always the senter of attion


I HAVE HAD IT!!!!

2007-11-17 19:12:49 · 3 answers · asked by Paige~Renee~ 2 in Family

It's been like 3 weeks at my new job and it's been hard for me to open up and be myself. It's not that I don't talk or I'm shy but I find myself talking in a tone completely out of my style. I don't know if it's just me or if it's my co-workers' faults for being so damn quiet and showing no sense of humor. Any ideas on how to get people laughing and having fun at work?

2007-11-17 19:09:28 · 11 answers · asked by ReelTru 4 in Friends

He treats me like crap...says I'm too heavy and that he could get better. I'm a size 8, dress nicely and get hit on all the time. He never has sex with me and tells me he wants "the perfect woman"... I take care of our kids, work hard and just want to spend quality time with him. I took him out to dinner and he just goes to his room. I ask why we dont make love and he says because I'm too ugly. I'm sick of it. He said girls hit on him all the time and that I'm not good enough. Is he as hot as he says he is? Women, your opinion?

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2007-11-17 19:08:37 · 20 answers · asked by Lynn A 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-17 19:06:39 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, I have this fetish...I want to eat the feces of white teenage girls. I have never done it, but I want to. Does this make me a horrible person?

2007-11-17 19:05:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-17 19:02:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

step

2007-11-17 18:59:35 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

does it make sense...ever said it to someone...ever felt that way about someoen?

2007-11-17 18:58:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-17 18:56:12 · 18 answers · asked by bricktop1000 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean it becomes more difficult for a female to get a choice of boys once they cross 25, It really shakes them up so much then they start getting frustrated and end up making a compromise, what you all think ?

2007-11-17 18:50:46 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

OK, me and my ex-girlfriend still try to be friends...but her friend keeps interfering, for some reason she thinks I am an ***. She thinks this because she only considers one side of everything...the side of my ex-girlfriend. But anyway it gets really annoying, she tries to act like her body guard, and sometimes my ex-girlfriend even gets annoyed with it.

This probably seems like a very stupid, childish question...but I want to try and deal with it diplomatically without blowing my top off like I would usually do.

2007-11-17 18:48:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I get upset when my bf goes on and on about other girls with his guy friends in front of me when they look at pics or see women out in public. It makes me feel oblivious to him when it comes to other women. I don't do that to him when I see an attractive man, which is hardly ever. But he acts like this shouldn't bother me or if he wants to flirt with another girl then it's ok. The thing is that I'm not a big flirt especially when I'm in a relationship. I really see no point in it. Of course it can be fun, but it's not fun when you see your man surrounded by gorgeous girls and a mile wide grin on his face while you stand by yourself. I put a pic of a hot guy on my desktop and it bothered him despite him having a girl on his desktop. His excuse was that he's a guy, but it's no different for girls. Guy think it's not big deal to flirt with girls even though they aren't going to hook up. But they get defensive when the girls starts that ****. I just wish he wouldn't do that in front of me.

2007-11-17 18:45:46 · 18 answers · asked by Mel 3 in Singles & Dating

does anyone have something to cheer me up... 2day is me and my bf's anniversary and he was making out with a random girl at a party, and then he dumped me...OVER DA FONE! w/e
if u have something dat would cheer me up it would be great!

2007-11-17 18:44:12 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

i know that its wrong what im doing but i love him, he doesnt want to leave his wife because of everything they have(financially wise) when i got pregnant i told him i was gonna have an abortion but he didnt let me have one,his wife knows about us and i wont leave him,how long can i wait for him to resolve his problems with her or can i even expect something else from him? i dont know what to do anymore please help

2007-11-17 18:42:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why do nice guys finish last and women would rather date someone that they "can try and change" opposed to someone they don't have to change?

2007-11-17 18:40:12 · 6 answers · asked by Charlie 5 in Singles & Dating

How long does it take to get over someone? I never even had a relationship, i was just rejected but i was their friend for many months before the rejection. It's been 6 months and I still think about it, when will it finally end?

2007-11-17 18:38:41 · 5 answers · asked by Vick K. 4 in Singles & Dating

he wants to get back wit her ,,i heard it by my best friend n like wat im i suppose 2 do ..N im wit her so ..

2007-11-17 18:37:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would you date a Elvis impersonator?

2007-11-17 18:37:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hate how my family is falling apart. Mainly, my younger sister is the big problem. My mom had been so blind about her in the past and now that she claims she "opened" her eyes when my sister hit her and cursed her out. We found pot in her purse and she is constantly trying to sneak out the house. She has an EXTREMELY bad temper. She is very violent. It looks like my mom doesn't know how to educate her at all. The worst part is that my mom blames me for everything and when my sister does something to me she always takes her side. Sometimes I wish I was dead but the only one that gives me hope is God. My dad has never really been there for us. While I was growing up he really mistreated me i.e. left me stranded somewhere when I was 5, put gum all over my hair, told me horrible stuff etc. I really don't know why. I don't really have a relationship with him now. I guess I get to pay for my parents mistakes since I am the oldest. One day things will change for me. I have hope.

2007-11-17 18:35:18 · 24 answers · asked by Ebony 2 in Family

I've been with him for about 3 months. He broke up with her for me. They were together for 3 weeks. They only knew each other for a month total and saw each other 3, maybe 4 times bc she lives further away. She's at that age where she thinks every bf she has, is her soul mate at the time. She still messages him and whines about her still loving him. It's getting rather old if you ask me. What's sad is that she cheated on him within the 1st week of their fling. But what I don't understand is why he said "Just do what you gotta do for your relationship or whatever.. Just try not ****** with my emotions... Cuz it sux seein u walk away." in one of the messages I found. She was trying to tell him that she's going to take a break from talking to him so that she could get over him cuz he's with me and she has a new "man" herself. And about the age difference, I have already cleared that up with him.

2007-11-17 18:34:59 · 4 answers · asked by Heather 1 in Singles & Dating

I am living in Hyderabad from the past 2 years and 6 months. My marriage was solemnised in Delhi 2 years ago. Can I obtain marriage certificate in Hyderabad? My marriage is not yet registered. Note that both my husband and I are native of Delhi.

2007-11-17 18:33:50 · 5 answers · asked by Maggi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-17 18:33:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my x told me 2 call him back at a certain time. when i called him back, his phone was off the hook. he told me he was going through a lot. should i call him back?

2007-11-17 18:32:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what size of sandals do you wear? did you stop or kept on driving? one time my ex was wearing size 6 sandals and ran over a roadkill,flat animal.

2007-11-17 18:31:22 · 9 answers · asked by Sagittarus 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-17 18:29:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love my wife very much never relized how much i do married 10 years have to boys i made some mistakes but i have changed but she says its to late she is divorcing me i think for some one else she says she really cares about me and she says she loves me but not in love with me she cant do it anymore she says never cheated she kicked me out of my house i never seen her be so cold to me or anybody in my life she says i abouse my kids i abouse her never did i only stayed in my room so we dont fight and i had other problems in my head and i told her this but she never told me there was a problem in are marrage only told other people and never me she also said i was controling i never was i get mad when she goes out and never calls to say she will be home or to drunk to drive what should i do

2007-11-17 18:25:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How can you tell the difference between a guy who is interested in you or a guy who is just being nice? A guy I work with seems to be really shy. When walking towards one another he will look at me but when I look at him he will quickly look somewhere else or down at the floor. He always says hi and smiles kind of awkwardly but then runs off again.

2007-11-17 18:24:06 · 4 answers · asked by Madeline Rae 3 in Singles & Dating

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=281854897

thats the url I hope I sound ok! Love you guys btw tell me the truth how u rly think it is...
and also if u have myspace add me lol!

2007-11-17 18:24:00 · 5 answers · asked by fufu16 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm only 13 but theres a girl in my grade who ive liked sinced 2 years ago. i told her i liked her about a year ago just before she started dating some kid who i hate. she told me not yet, but weve been best friends since. i dont know if my social status has to do with it. im kinda a nerd, and shes really popular. id like some advice on what i should do. i really like her, and she wont let me give up since i wouldnt want to be her friend much after that. can anyone help?

2007-11-17 18:22:30 · 6 answers · asked by That One Kid 1 in Singles & Dating