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I mean it becomes more difficult for a female to get a choice of boys once they cross 25, It really shakes them up so much then they start getting frustrated and end up making a compromise, what you all think ?

2007-11-17 18:50:46 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Weddings

41 answers

A girl of age +30 & a boy of age +18 if married will get maximum enjoyment of life.
I don't know why it is not common

2007-11-17 19:40:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Plenty of women. The problems for both women and men is that they increasingly leave previous relationships, marriages and have children.

As to men, there is some false belief tat a man remaining single might be gay. I don't understand where that comes from. I first noticed just how much I liked girls at 4. Never married, never a live in relationship and no kids. But I dated women, just didn't find the right one.............. till now! I'm 60 and found the love I always was looking for. Even better she has 3 boys so, that covers my late start in having sons.

With both sexes, the older the more likely that they will not fall as easily into the same mistakes as the past. You can also increase your chances by living and looking in the right places. For women it is Alaska. For men colleges. Far more women attend college than men. Sorry ladies, you probably thought different. Better hunting other places though.

2007-11-17 19:05:00 · answer #2 · answered by genghis1947 4 · 0 0

I think that waiting is a good thing. So many people get married at such a young age that they grow apart after a few years. When youre older....over 25, you have more of an idea of who you are and what you really want out of life.

Its not that hard to find men that feel the same way.

Just because youre over 30 doesnt mean youre ready for the nursing home or are destined to be the "crazy lady with all of the cats".

2007-11-17 23:03:38 · answer #3 · answered by snowbirdbabe 3 · 0 0

Perhaps in some cases, but not always. In fact, people who are highly educated tend to marry later. For example, the average age for men with a professional degree to marry at is around 35. Provided those men want a wife around the same age, this works out fine for women in this age range. This is one reason why professionals tend to marry other professionals. In addition, women are now realizing that most can safely have children at a later age.

So while I think in some cases this happens, it is not for all. Some people settle at age 20, others meet the love of their life at age 40 and are able to still have a family.

So yes, I DO think it is very possible for women to marry at 30 plus. Each person has their own timeline. I am trying to obtain a professional degree, and I am getting married next month at age 25. To me, this is much earlier than I ever wanted since I won't be done school yet, but I am now happy just the same.

2007-11-17 19:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by reginachick22 6 · 1 0

Uh?
Lam lame lame
The loosers are taken by 25 The best ones are the ones that are not the hotties in school. The ones that are really caring and sweet often a bit nerdy. The ones that are taken are the ones that look good at 20 and are a total beerbelly baldy by 35
Girls should wait until they are over 30 First make sure they are independent and can look after themselves.
Besides no woman should hang themselves up on whether they are married or not? Marriage is a choice not an obligation.
Any woman should be able to look after themselves and provide for themmselves A man to look after you in so idiotic

2007-11-17 20:39:05 · answer #5 · answered by MissE 6 · 0 0

I come from India where it is pretty common to be married off as soon as its legally allowed in some cases before... but there is a high rise in the number of women like myself who have taken the time to make a career, explore and travel the world, in some cases have a relationship or 2 to realize the pitfalls of a wrong partner. I just got married and i am 28, if anything else i am more mature, finacially independent and so is my husband who is 35 ...

I do not think i compromised , if anything i got the best!

2007-11-17 21:19:15 · answer #6 · answered by Princess 2 · 0 0

I don't think so. Most women I know did marry between 25-30 but that was just when they happened to meet their guy and feel ready for marriage. But I know women who married older and didn't settle and ones who married younger.

Some women do end up making a compromise, but I think that isn't because of age... they are the same women who would make a compromise at 22 just to have that man.

2007-11-17 19:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

I spoke to a woman yesterday aged about 50 who told me she married three years ago and is really happy because she loves her husband dearly.

I believe that most people do make a compromise when they marry. If they are young they don't realize this, and may enter marriage thinking love will conquer all, or because of pregnancy. But the more experience people have, the more they are aware of the compromises they will need to make because they are more set in their ways, and have (perhaps) learned that they would do well to be guided less by lust and pheremones and more by common sense. Two sayings spring to mind - "every pot has its lid" and "I'tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all"

2007-11-17 22:07:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

THERE IS ALWAYS HOPE AND LOTS OF PRAYER:

The following are first time marriages, and I don´t think any of us compromised because we were getting older.

My friend got married two Septembers ago at the age of 40 to an physisist-I don´t know how to spell this word.

I got married this past May at the age of 43 to an Engineer.

My other friend is getting married next May and she´ll be 40 and will marry a successful businessman.

NEVER give up!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-19 01:14:56 · answer #9 · answered by Learning is fun! 4 · 0 0

Yes girls can marry at the age of 30, I know many of my cousins got married around that age. I dont think so the age matters whenever the lady feels she is prepared both financially as well as mentally for a marriage she will go ahead with it. In some cases yes, they have to compromise with whichever proposal she gets, but its not necessary everytime they have to accept it, its purely their choice afterall they are the one who has to lead their life with the partner....We shouldnt ignore the fact that there are some girls and her parents who have only marriage in their mind and nothing else.

2007-11-18 14:32:25 · answer #10 · answered by JB 3 · 0 0

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