He treats me like crap...says I'm too heavy and that he could get better. I'm a size 8, dress nicely and get hit on all the time. He never has sex with me and tells me he wants "the perfect woman"... I take care of our kids, work hard and just want to spend quality time with him. I took him out to dinner and he just goes to his room. I ask why we dont make love and he says because I'm too ugly. I'm sick of it. He said girls hit on him all the time and that I'm not good enough. Is he as hot as he says he is? Women, your opinion?
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2007-11-17 19:08:37 · 20 answers · asked by Lynn A 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Btw I know I'm not ugly because friends, family and strangers tell me all the time I'm very striking. I tell my man this and he says "you have a pretty face but you're too flabby." and that I sound like I'm out of breath when I walk. It just makes me sad.
2007-11-17 19:09:55 · update #1
I feel bad posting his pic but I honestly want to know. I told him he wants a loveless marriage, he sleeps on the couch every weekend. He tells my kids how I need to lose weight and "did you hear that earthquake" when I walk in the room.
I've started taking Slimquick and lost 7 lbs. I bought new clothes and he said "you can put a pig in a prom dress but it's still a pig." Cheating on him doesnt help, I have before and he swore he would change.
I dont work right now and am reliant on him..I just want to get along and not fight. I just want a kiss in the morning or a hug..he says I'm an attention whore and shouldnt need to be told I'm loved. What do I do? Just up and leave? Won't the kids suffer?
2007-11-17 19:18:05 · update #2
Regarding the dude who said do you think your friends and family would call you ugly? It's a non-issue. I'm a pretty woman. I get hit on constantly. I believe in monogamy.. When I go out without my husband, men stare, give their numbers, etc. It's not a question of if I'm ugly or not..I know I'm not. But he says he's too gorgeous for me. I want to know if that's true.
2007-11-17 19:22:00 · update #3
he doesnt look hot at all...sorry....i could say a lot more...but i dont want to be mean....
aside from that...i think this guy is very shallow...self-centered and inconsiderate...why are you still with him??? he treats you badly and it seems your relationship is practically non-existent....if you cant resolve your problems and cant make your marriage work anymore...then i think you should just separate from him....find a better man who deserves your love and will treat you and your kids right....
2007-11-17 19:17:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Omigosh! I am so sorry that he is treating you that way! Honestly, he is TOTALLY DELUSIONAL!!! He is UGLY! He is both ugly on the outside and the inside and there is no chance in hell that he is going to get "the perfect woman." There is no such thing! I think he has been looking at too much porn, that's what I think and now he thinks he can get one of those fake plastic girls. I don't blame you for being sick of it-that is not right. I think you guys should try counseling. Good luck
2007-11-17 19:22:45 · answer #2 · answered by Psychgirl35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a joke? Are you asking if the guy in the picture holding the dog is hot??
He is uglier than the dog! That picture made me feel sick. This guy is disgusting on the outside and on the inside. I would never, ever sleep with a guy who looked like that. The dog looks beautiful next to him
Why do you try so hard with this loser. He doesn't deserve you. Break up with him. Good luck to him finding another woman - in his dreams! Maybe this slob could get some action with a goat.
Am I being too harsh? Yuck, seriously yuck!
2007-11-17 19:15:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Omg!My kids were laughing to death when they saw the 'photo'...(so what do you think my answer would be liked??)From head to toe,nothing is hot at all...I don't understand why are you still with him.He insults you by calling you ugly..He doesn't even respect you at all...But you know what?he made my day though,..I haven't been laughing since last week.But, I just did today.With the help of his'hot' photo.ha!ha!ha!dont get mad pls....oh,don't feel bad showing it,He deserves it... You just want an honest opinion that's all,and you did the right thing...
2007-11-17 19:49:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
HELLO!!!!! he needs new glasses.......start spending time with yourself...do things you enjoy without him....dress up nicely and go out to dinner by yourself....have fun for you...you don't have to be looking to meet someone, just have fun for you....I'll bet he takes notice then....or if he doesn't, then you know he is not the husband for you.....
2007-11-17 19:20:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think he's just a control freak and I also think he is insecure as Hell so he picks on you. I would move on to someone who will treat you better! As for the Pic you posted, all I can say is .............well, I can't really say "vomit" now can I?
2007-11-17 19:15:18 · answer #6 · answered by SGT. D 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is one sculpted piece of man-meat. I am questioning my orientation after studying that photo. I think you should be content that this Adonis simply allows you in his presence. Make every moment last.
2007-11-17 19:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hahhahaa, that is one great blackmail photo.
And no, sorry, he is so not hot. Not even with clothes on.
Dont take the abuse! That's what he's doing-- he's belittling you and controlling you emotionally. Get out of that relationship.
2007-11-17 19:13:14 · answer #8 · answered by catwomanmeeeeow 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are being verbally abused by a man who is no longer committed. If you love him, it's counseling time. If you don't, file for divorce before he does.
2007-11-17 20:03:22 · answer #9 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Really he is not hot lol i bet you are looking nice
if he is not good with you than you see other guy :)
who respect you love you and honest with you
Ty
Bye
2007-11-17 19:35:07 · answer #10 · answered by Heaven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋