Family & Relationships - 17 November 2007

I picked up kung fu, tae kwon do, kick boxing, grappling, and streetfighting. I want to know that i can win against him. I want her to feel safe with me. Hes not a bad guy, but he has tried to talk to her to get back with her, and I will not tollerate that again. No means no. So like... what would you recommend? I really love her and I would go the distance for her. I know she would too (she already has in a way).

2007-11-17 17:16:35 · 9 answers · asked by something crazy 4 in Singles & Dating

Im 15 and ive been told this guy at my saturday job likes me and wants to ask me out. Im a christian and i do not want to have sex with anyone until i am maried, but this boy isnt a christian. I dont care about him not being a christian, but if he did ever ask me out how do i tell him yes, but im not going to have sex or say something like that. How do i say this to him if he did ever ask me out? In the end he may never ask me out i dont really care but he is a really nice guy.

Also, if you do not like someone and they ask you out how do you decline polietly?

2007-11-17 17:15:56 · 39 answers · asked by Starfish 2 in Singles & Dating

what do u do if u like a boy and see him practiacally everyday.. but you have a boyfriend that u like more but u barely ever get to hang out with him? :( ohh and the other guy also has a girlfriend that he doesnt see much either.. do u flirt with the other guy,break up with ur boyfriend?(even if u relli like him) orr stay sincere to your boyfriend and only your friend! (tht was long:P)

2007-11-17 17:13:02 · 22 answers · asked by Kayy Bee 1 in Singles & Dating

A guy i used to be intimate with just sent me a message via myspace. I havent talked to him in years becuz my hubby despises him (long story). Should i tell hubby he sent me a message or just tell the guy not to contact me anymore and leave it at that....?

2007-11-17 17:10:22 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a single male, 27 years. Most of my life I have been single, and I really want a relationship. I know that most women are attracted to outgoing, confident men who take up space. When I feel confident, it is usually still not in this way. I feel like the "nice guy" that women confide in, but then go home to their boyfriends. I don't mind being supportive, and at the same time I want an actual relationship. I'm losing hope, even though people tell me that I don't have to worry and I'll find someone. I've also tried the "enjoy your life and then you'll find someone" route too, but on weekend evenings, I end up really wanting to be with someone. I think most women my age are attracted to the "bad boys," though for me I'm just not that way. I do my best to stay connected, but I'm a loner a lot of the time. Most people seem to have trouble staying single and find relationship after relationship. I want just one! But I want to be real in the relationship. What do I do?

2007-11-17 17:07:39 · 4 answers · asked by wonderboy 2 in Singles & Dating

and from want i have herd that is alll men are after these days. were can i meet decent men and be safe. i am 45 years old

2007-11-17 17:06:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Our baby girl is now 5 months old, two months ago we relocated and we both started new jobs. My husband is a manager at a restaurant. Lateley he is very disintrested in our lives. The restaurnt closes at 11 and he comes home at 1 every night. He is rude to me all the time, and he does not help at all with our baby. Every morning I wake up alone at 5 and look after her while trying to get ready for work, he refuses to get up as he says he is tired. But he is not tired to go out after work, he has every second weekend off and i work from monday to saturday i only have sundays off, he wont even take her for two hours so I can get some rest. I also found porn in his briefcase and cath him at nights watching it on tv, ive shouted cried and pleaded but he keeps going on as if he is the victim. He says he never goes out, but i have never been anywhere since our daugter was born. Does he have a girlfriend?

2007-11-17 17:01:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my husband is recently laid off from his job so i flip all the bills as well as cook,clean and tend to our kids . i went grocery shopping recently and got out the car with out any bags,once inside i told him he can get the bags out the car now he blew up at me and told me i think im queen sheba or something and i should had took a few bags out i told him since he is not working and bringing any money home he can at least bring in all the bags this was a very heated argument who is right me or him ?

2007-11-17 16:59:01 · 25 answers · asked by cocoa 4 3 in Marriage & Divorce

he wants to be with me but told my friends he wants it to go slow and we could possibly date.

2007-11-17 16:58:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is a player because he loves to go clubbing and go find girls.... when he is on a break with his gf.... but the question is why he always break up and go back to her again.... does he loves her?

2007-11-17 16:57:22 · 2 answers · asked by itsme 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my girlfriend broke up we dated for over a year and were truely in love... i know we both still have feelings for each other i might even have a little more than her... but shes telling people we are over for good and not just on a break.. should i answer her calls/text at night when she is out with her friends or should i just call her after we both get home and let her wonder what im doing and miss me..

2007-11-17 16:48:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would you accept a cheating partner again?
some do have relevant and reasonable explaination of their infidelity..really

would you shut your ears and tell them off, or accept their mistake and work things out together again..

do share your stories.. it'll help others too

2007-11-17 16:46:11 · 26 answers · asked by aemii 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating the same guy for years now and I love him. I ran into an ex boyfriend a couple weeks ago,my boyfriend knows about it, and now I can't stop thinking about him. I don't have feelings for him anymore,but he's having problems and I want to help him out. I don't want to cross the 'friends' line though because I'm happy with Andrew. Would it be okay to help Chris out or should I let him work out his own problems? (btw his problem is he just had a daughter, he left his wife because she was doing drugs and he really doesn't know what to do with the baby, not like he's stupid but he could use a babysitter now and then. I have a son the same age so I don't really know)

2007-11-17 16:40:42 · 4 answers · asked by Bxbabifinest 2 in Singles & Dating

So there's one guy who I'm sure that I'm in love with. I've never felt this way about a guy before. I'm crazy about him, but he's had feelings for a friend of mine for YEARS. She doesn't feel the same toward him, but he won't give up on her. It is really distressing since I'm not the most outgoing person in the world and I'm pretty sure he has no idea how I feel. But based on conversations we had over the summer, I think something is there. For now, we're just friends.
Then there's this new guy in my math class, and we talk a LOT. He's really cute, and I feel something toward him, definitely not love, but there's a connection. Anyway, he's single and I'm pretty sure he's not chasing any girls right now.
Should I just give up on the guy who's crazy about my friend and go for the new guy? Or should I keep trying, since I'm sure that my feelings are real?

2007-11-17 16:37:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is really one of the thing that bothers me,,,,, how can a girl agrees to have sexual relationship before marriage....... in my area,, girls avoid sexual relationship until marriage... atleast i can understand this,, because she doen't want to lose her virginity and she doesn't want any bastard to use her for period of time and then left her when she gets pregnant...???? i asked the question in polls and surveys, about when do girls need to have sex,, approx every woman said that they don't need that, but they want whenever they think the time is right....... so bottom line is how come girl agrees ?????

2007-11-17 16:34:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My new boyfriend and I (2 months) sometimes have sex two or three times in a day and he never waits for me to orgasm. I would understand if we only were having sex once...but two times or more and I get off none of them??? I feel like I have to rush to get off before he does. When I dont, I end up feeling upset or annoyed afterwards. Why does he act like its only about him? Im there too... Will he be offended if I tell him that it bothers me? Do guys understand that this is annoying...or is it just me that thinks this way GAH! what should I do?

2007-11-17 16:31:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Two surgeons to get married and live a nice life with kids and have time for each other?

2007-11-17 16:28:09 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have 2 kids together. I am a little worried about Christmas, should my kids give gifts to my in-laws or should my husband worry about that? How do other people in my situation share the kids during the holidays and other special situations? Thanks!

2007-11-17 16:25:29 · 15 answers · asked by ilovegreen 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my BESTfriend is flat as a board. and shes wearing a padded bra! and it irritates me because she makes fun of other people who are flat when cleaarly she is too shes just wearin a padded bra. AND she also makes fun of me by sayin im flat. But imm not because ive already started growing. so what should i say without making her get mad at me?

2007-11-17 16:25:29 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Recently a friend for whom I have very deep feelings suggested that we try a long distance relationship. The problem is he's been separated from his wife for1 yr and wants a divorce but cant afford it right now. They live apart and share a child. I will go so far as to say I may love this man and sometimes think he maybe my soulmate but I'm conflicted. How do I know if his feelings are real or he's just on the rebound and lonely? We live 4 hours apart in two different states and I'm in grad school and cant move right now. He has financial constraints and is working on getting his career together. He says he doesnt love his wife and they are over. He says he'll wait for me until I finish school but wants us to try a long distance relationship in the mean time. I have 2.5 yrs left in school. Is it worth it to purse this relationship with the separation, the child, the "baby mama" the distance. All I know is I've wanted to be with him for 6 yrs and this is my chance but should I chance it

2007-11-17 16:22:48 · 8 answers · asked by rosemont66 1 in Singles & Dating

whats the point in pursuing a realtionship with a person, even though you know you wont spend the rest of your life with them? i dont understand.

2007-11-17 16:21:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-17 16:20:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't want to hurt his feelings.

2007-11-17 16:18:06 · 28 answers · asked by Patrick the Carpathian, CaFO 7 in Friends

We've been friends since 8th grade, and I think he liked me even back then, but I was too stupid to pay attention and act on it, although once in 9th grade, I did get him a calendar for Christmas. (Wow, I can't believe I did that, looking back.) I'm REALLY interested in him now, and we are going to the movies for my 17th b-day on Friday. He's kind of shy, and I want to know if he's interested in me as a friend, or something more. I may bring a girl friend to the movies too.
He usually has one or two things to say to me as I enter the classroom, then that's it, and he leaves without looking back. He babbled on about how he'd have to be really sick and puking and bleeding for his mom to let him stay home, the one day his best friend (a dude) was absent, although he did walk with me out of the classroom that day. This past Fri. we had a fire drill, and I saw him with his friends, his friends sort of pointed me out to him, but he looked up, then back away very quickly. (I was far away.) ..

2007-11-17 16:17:32 · 20 answers · asked by Jess 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-17 16:16:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This kid on my college soccer team use to be a very angry kid and got yellow/red cards all the time. Well, over the summer he got saved (found Jesus). Now whenever some player gets pissed at him he responds with "love". Players get pissed at him and he will just go up and hug them sometimes or some other act of kindness. The players have a look of shock and confusion upon their face. Players don't know how to handle it. It's something I really don't understand when I think about it. These players are big strong guys, but a simple act of love renders them helpless. This is interesting and I just wanted to know what you all thought of this...

2007-11-17 16:16:16 · 16 answers · asked by Pedro! 2 in Family

i am not speaking about married men or such but just boyfriends. is this behaviour really that big of a problem? the persons involved arent that emotionally attached, they simply enjoy the sex quite much with one another!

2007-11-17 16:13:38 · 25 answers · asked by goldcharm 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-17 16:13:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-11-17 16:13:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been dating this guy for around a month. Tonight I was working and he went out with his friends. Around 3am I talked to him and they were headed to see if another bar was still open...he asked me to call back in an hour. When I did a girl answered and said "he was busy" and to call back in 2 hours...(she was super rude and made it sound like "they" were busy if you know what I mean) well I sent him a few nasty text messages, then got a call at 5:30 where he was all "confused". He said it must have been his friend's wife's sister who was out with them, cause he had left his phone on the table...and that she must have thought that would be funny. Am I am idiot to believe him? I had talked to him a couple times during the night and he was all "sweetie this" and "babe that" in front of everyone...so except for the one call where she answered nothing was out of the ordinary.

2007-11-17 16:11:54 · 12 answers · asked by Carolyn H 4 in Singles & Dating