I'm a single male, 27 years. Most of my life I have been single, and I really want a relationship. I know that most women are attracted to outgoing, confident men who take up space. When I feel confident, it is usually still not in this way. I feel like the "nice guy" that women confide in, but then go home to their boyfriends. I don't mind being supportive, and at the same time I want an actual relationship. I'm losing hope, even though people tell me that I don't have to worry and I'll find someone. I've also tried the "enjoy your life and then you'll find someone" route too, but on weekend evenings, I end up really wanting to be with someone. I think most women my age are attracted to the "bad boys," though for me I'm just not that way. I do my best to stay connected, but I'm a loner a lot of the time. Most people seem to have trouble staying single and find relationship after relationship. I want just one! But I want to be real in the relationship. What do I do?
2007-11-17 17:07:39 · 4 answers · asked by wonderboy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop feeling sorry for yourself is a good place to start. So you're not a bad boy, that's a good thing but you need to put yourself out there, don't be afraid to approach a woman and ask her out, you may get a few declines but you will get one yes if you keep trying. Even if a particular woman you're interested in turns you down, don't give up, ask again. Do you know how guys get the girls they want? Determination my brother, determination, you want something you go after it.
2007-11-17 17:17:17 · answer #1 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wish I could be in the same town to coach you.... but it's really quite simple. At times, you have to be bold, yes, in making your initial approach. You're not in high school anymore. You also have to be sincere and direct, as well as a good listener...
Write down the type of quality's that you want your woman to have, then have some dates and rule them out. That way, your desperation will not come thru... and desperation is the same as a fire alarm... it sends em runnin.
2007-11-18 01:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by Zipperhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel this way I just hope and pray the girl will come and take me out of this dark hole I've buried myself in.
2007-11-18 01:13:31 · answer #3 · answered by Old School 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u have to be bold and approach good girls who are single
2007-11-18 01:10:46 · answer #4 · answered by Sony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋