My friend wears a padded bra and she is flat chested what should i tell her?

Question

my BESTfriend is flat as a board. and shes wearing a padded bra! and it irritates me because she makes fun of other people who are flat when cleaarly she is too shes just wearin a padded bra. AND she also makes fun of me by sayin im flat. But imm not because ive already started growing. so what should i say without making her get mad at me?

Answer 1

Point out that you are not friends with people because of their chest sizes and ask her if she is. If she says yes, ask her why she thinks it is so important and tell her that you don't agree.

Answer 2

You'd be much better off if you cared about you, more than what other people "thought" about you. When you grow up, you'll realize how completely insignificant others opinions are. Because nine times out of ten, they are uninformed and ignorant. Don't worry about her making fun of you. That's just what people do when they are insecure of themselves. I'd just not even humor her remarks with any kind of statement, or make her feel stupid by blowing it off and maybe a little sarcasm, that always helped me. Meaning if she brings it up, get her to shut up with a quick.... "Like you're one to talk, you got so much padding in there you could be a football player." I bet she doesnt' make fun of anyone anymore on that subject. Your Welcome.

Answer 3

First off, you should mind your own business. Who cares, if she wants to wear a padded bra, let it be.
But if its really making you mad, then next time she says something just remark like, "Look who's talking?" Say it in a jokingly friendly voice like you were being sarcastic and she will probably get the picture!

Answer 4

maybe u should tell her to stop all this nonsense.
seriously! how could she say such a thing wen she doesnt even have boobs!
also, you should go to her house, dump all her padded bras in the trash and tell her that she's just being stupid. seriously, there are other girls and women out there who are flat chested!

Answer 5

Being flat really sucks and it seems like she is putting her own insecurity off onto you! She needs to just wait it out and anyway, some guys really do think that more than a handful ( or cupful) is just a waste!

Answer 6

She is only saying that because she feels inferior, seeing that everyone is growing except her. Tell, her nothing, let her vent. You'll be a good friend for that. If you have to tell her something, just say that inferiority is a very sad thing to have when she lacks what she wants bad.

Peace out

Answer 7

Leave her alone. In fact, don't entertain her comments at all. She only keeps doing it because it gets her the attention she wants. If you do anything, just defend others by complimenting them whenever she insults them. If she says something about "Jane", then you say "Jane is sweet. I like her." That's about as far as you should go. Just be an honorable person as an example.

Answer 8

Just ignore her,
your friends shouldn't be judging you based on the size of your chest (your friend must be very shallow)
just laugh with her when she makes fun of you and tell her to get her mind off of your boobs (in a joking kind of a way)

Answer 9

just ignore he rchildish behaviour and learn not to take anything she says with offense she is obviously just jealous because she is flat chested and you need to swtch off, your both young this sort of things happen when you start to grow , you wilkl see in due time this wont be the end of it and dont let it bother you too much!

Answer 10

Why would you want such a person as a friend? Sounds to me as if she is very self-centered, and a very insecure young lady.

You would be well-advised to dis-engage from her, and try to connect with someone without a personality problem.

Wotan