what do u do if u like a boy and see him practiacally everyday.. but you have a boyfriend that u like more but u barely ever get to hang out with him? :( ohh and the other guy also has a girlfriend that he doesnt see much either.. do u flirt with the other guy,break up with ur boyfriend?(even if u relli like him) orr stay sincere to your boyfriend and only your friend! (tht was long:P)
2007-11-17 17:13:02 · 22 answers · asked by Kayy Bee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get to know the guy
if you like the guy the most
forget your boyfriend
but only if the guy likes you
compare the both
but i recommended you stay with your boyfriend because soon, one day, you two will see each other every day, and plus is a good idea to not see each other that much because if you do, you might get tired of him and you don't want that. Or ended up making love and he leaves you. So, choose wisley grasshoper :]
2007-11-17 17:17:00 · answer #1 · answered by Wee POOP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just lonely right now which means that a the new relationship would be just a fling, so BE CAREFUL of what you do. But I think you should either break up with your boyfriend or stop ALL(and i mean absolutely ALL) communication with the new guy. Because it sounds like your headed towards trouble whether you like it or not. So, break it off NOW with one of them or you'll have to live with even more guilt and regret later; when everyone gets hurt.
2007-11-17 17:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by Hotti Tamale 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The right thing to do is to make a decision and stick to it. You have to take into account that you're dealing with people's feelings here. It's OK to leave someone if you feel it's not right, but you should be 100% sure that you actually want to do it first.
In some cultures it's OK to have polygamous relationships (For example, "cheating" is not bad) because they think that the constraints of a non-polygamous relationship are unrealistic. In our culture, it tends to be looked down upon. If you want to stay with your boyfriend but you really want to get with this guy and cannot give it up, try to be honest with people...it's always better than hurting people. But if you want to stay with your boyfriend and don't want to cheat, keep it to yourself.
2007-11-17 17:20:20 · answer #3 · answered by hockeyragazzo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most women just dump the one they have for a new one if he is around more. Loyalty is rare.
Makes you wonder why women are offended when guys just use them for sex and don't want to hang around. After all, if women do like you are thinking of doing why should the guy put any effort into a relationship for your benefit?
2007-11-17 17:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen if you like your boyfriend do not do that to him.
Cheating is flirting, you shouldn't treat him like that, and imagine what your friend's girlfriend must be feeling to have competition with someone her boyfried sees everyday. Break up with your boyfriend if you want to pursue your friend but don't expect your friend to drop everything for you....
2007-11-17 17:17:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should go on a date with this new guy only after asking your bf that you are wanting to date other people.
2007-11-17 17:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by Casey Pieper 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no you just keep your bf because the dude that has the gf, has a gf right? so if he has a gf then that means that he would still be daiting her when you just broke it off with your x. then you wouldnt have anything. unless you want to wait untill the boy that you like breaks up with his gf and then you could break it off with your bf.
2007-11-17 17:16:47 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Justean♥ luv's ya! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, it be safe to keep things just rolling along.
because if you make a move as breaking up to go wit the boy u like then that wuould create BIG drama.
2007-11-17 17:16:35 · answer #8 · answered by Andizzle Foshizzle 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first, get close with the guy you like
then when its time and you think hes into you,
tell him you going to breakup with your boyfriend
and give indirect hints your breaking up with
your bf because you like him
then he can see your dedication
and he might get with you !
2007-11-17 17:17:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
that's a hard one...I would say if you don't see your boyfriend that you should dump him, since if he loved you that much he would run to you..i would make my boyfriend beg for forgiveness if he didn't see me once at all or come to see me..that's what it means to have a boyfriend...^^..I would say to go with what your heart tells you, but if i were you i would go with the boy you see everyday.he already sees you,a nd notices you...
2007-11-17 17:19:16 · answer #10 · answered by dreamhighabove 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋