whats the point in pursuing a realtionship with a person, even though you know you wont spend the rest of your life with them? i dont understand.
2007-11-17 16:21:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just have fun and at least not be lonely until you do find your life partner. Just because you probably won't wind up marrying them doesn't mean you don't care about them or want to completely shut them out of your life.
2007-11-17 18:01:59 · answer #1 · answered by Emily 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You never really know whether you will be spending the rest of your life with someone do you, unless you really don't like the person you are dating. We just can't foretell the future. By dating a variety of people we find out what type of person we can be happy with, the qualities and character traits that are important in someone we can make a committment too. We all have to explore possibilities, and most people date several different individuals before settling down for life.
2007-11-17 16:28:48 · answer #2 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In western society, dating is the only way u find ur sig other. And when u date, u don't know if they're the one. Depending on ur age, u might think they are the one, but don't know. Plus, u can know what u like and don't like, and how to deal with the opposite sex in this reguard as well(those who choose to learn from dating experiences), so then when u do meet ur special someone, u'll have a better idea of y u want to marry them as opposed to others u were with.
With other forms of marriage, ur family and friends do background checks on ur potential mates, they do one on u. But in dating, u guys figure each other out urselves. I think it's harder to hide ur true self when ur dating, but in an arrangement thing, it's easier. But in some ways , it makes it easier to date just to marry. For one, u don't end up all cynical and bitter when u do finally find that special someone. OFten, many have a lot of baggage to sort through before they marry their love as a result of dating. So it takes a while for the people to actually give themselves to each other.
2007-11-17 16:30:13 · answer #3 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You date to find the right one for life. that is what darting is all about. looking to find the right one for you. if the one you are with now, not what you want. try another, that is the name of the game. I know these days everyone has sex on their minds. do not fall into that category. that is just a waste of time. you need to find love not lust. the right one is out there for you. you just need to find him. when you do fall in love you will then understand, and realize you have found the one, that you will spend the rest of your life with.
So as most of the young female start to learn. that young males are only looking for one thing... Lust. they do not want to stay with anyone, they just want to have fun. but there are a few that do not act that way, for they understand what they are looking for, so they over look the sexy acts some use.they want a nice smart female to spend their life with.
2007-11-17 20:10:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called: your wasteing your time for your own amusement, why not just watch a movie instead of hurting someone?
2007-11-18 00:35:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no point. If you do, either you're being used or you're using them. Good luck
2007-11-17 16:24:56 · answer #6 · answered by marks3kids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't always know that in the beginning
2007-11-17 16:25:00 · answer #7 · answered by ஐ♥Vanessa♥ஐ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no point...a total waste of your time and energy...
2007-11-17 16:30:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's a bit of fun for both sides then why not
2007-11-17 16:26:58 · answer #9 · answered by cherub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to have fun
2007-11-17 16:25:03 · answer #10 · answered by /\/\@GG!3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋