Two surgeons to get married and live a nice life with kids and have time for each other?
2007-11-17 16:28:09 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thank y'all. i'm just worried is all...
2007-11-17 16:34:35 · update #1
it's the part about always having to be on call that bothers me!
2007-11-17 16:36:27 · update #2
whatshername...i think you're exactly right. That's exactly what I'm worrying about. thanks for being honest...even though it's sad.
2007-11-17 16:48:31 · update #3
No.......atleast not while they are in practice. The job will demand more of their time than anything else. The kids will end up being raised by daycares and nannies and the husband and wife will rarely see each other. I know a couple who are both doctors and they do not even sleep in the same bedrrom anymore because the phone and the beepers are going off all night and they do not want to disturb each other. Financially things will be awesome, but why have all that money if you can't enjoy it together? Doctors practice to such an old age now a days that by the time you can retire and enjoy your spouse you are too old to do anything fun anymore. LOL! I just think that nice cars, nice houses, nice jewelry and clothes and all the finer things in life mean absolutely nothing if you are too tired and streesed to enjoy it. So.......my answer to your question, sad as it may be, is no! Just MY opinion, though! ;)
2007-11-17 16:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by whatshername 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I live very busy lives outside the home and we have 3 kids. In the morning when I leave he is still alseep and I take the two oldest to school then I go to work He takes the youngest to the day care and when I get out of work i get them all and he is at work sometimes I am asleep before he gets home and I hate it but I won't change it for nothing in the world. I look at it like I rather miss him because our relationship is great rather than some people who thank god that there husbands are not home because they don't get along.
2007-11-18 00:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by My Three 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live nice, Yes. If you try to make it work.... With kids... Well, kids will always break your B*ll's... :-) thats the beauty of them, somehow... and time will be hard to say... But if you are in love, and happy with each other then even little time that you spend with each other should be enough.. Knowing that you are married to a wonderful person who loves you and trusts you should be the best marriage even if you do see them 3 hours in a day!
2007-11-18 00:31:59 · answer #3 · answered by alice_nobleandkind 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are lots of people in a variety of careers that have heavy schedules and many responsibilities. I assume you are asking because you are in the situation. Only the two people involved know for sure if they want to spend their energy solely on a career or can make time for a family and a partner. It is a matter of compromise and prioritizing.
2007-11-18 00:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alot of surgeons work Mon-Fri business hours, depends what kind of surgeon. Alot of professionals get married and have wonderful relationships, compromise becomes the key.
2007-11-18 00:31:36 · answer #5 · answered by smart_ass_in_canada 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think thats possible... Just u see no matter what time ur love will come it will still come... Just u have to wait for it... There is a lot of people who thinks that omg my gf left me what im gonna do ? ... But u have to live ur life and say hey i dont need that biy or girl??? I can find better one and i am better so one day ull fnd one and ull be happy.... right nowpeople RELAX and live ur own lifes...
2007-11-18 00:31:37 · answer #6 · answered by -=Amn3z!A=- 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Financially, yes. They'll probably live a nice life, but expect to have very busy days since jobs are so high in demand.
2007-11-18 00:32:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure why not? just remember everyone has there ups and downs in marriage or relationship. It most of the time makes you closer to the other person kinda like to best friends
2007-11-18 00:32:24 · answer #8 · answered by sunnydays 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
and why not? if you are worried about spending enough time to be together, just remember - time is always there, 24 hours/ 7 days a week. It neither lengthens nor shortens. It is up to you to manage it.
2007-11-18 00:34:11 · answer #9 · answered by Ruel M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys sound smart enought to definitely manage your hectic schedules... with love - I am more thansure that you both will be A Okay!
Best of luck!
2007-11-18 00:31:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋