Family & Relationships - 13 November 2007

i cant stand them they are horrible especillay babies i dont like the way they squeel cry there obvious stupidity everything
i once saw a 2 day old baby and almost vomited i thought it looked like a frozen chicken!
the thing is people seem to expect me to like children maybe because i love animals i always have and always will.and children seem to like me i just dont feel the same way back does anyone else have similar feelings as me.

2007-11-13 23:55:52 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My soon to be ex-husband really irritates me, as many of you know... yesterday was one of those such days, and I got this idea in my head that I want to run by everyone...

would it be too completely unethical for me to (just for fun) create, print out, and frame a fake death certificate for my soon to be ex husband, then place it in my living room so that I have something sorta sick and funny to look at when he is on the phone, rambling incessantly down my ear about all his life's problems and how I am somehow responsible for them? i would never ever use the fake certificate for anything illegal, nor would I ever give it to him... I'd just look at it with a wistfull longing look on my face during those times when he does my head in...

what do you think? :) hehe

2007-11-13 23:55:06 · 27 answers · asked by Rhiannon L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

someone give me a answer

2007-11-13 23:54:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok so u split up with ur girlfriend after nearly 4yrs together because u cheated on her, ur seeing another girl and really like her but she is a completely different person from ur ex.
you see your ex girlfriend looking stunning in a club... how would u feel and wat things about her would you feel u want back? - if this makes sense?

2007-11-13 23:50:52 · 12 answers · asked by 99moo99 2 in Singles & Dating

OMG OMG OMG. I just found out my sister, who's only in grade 3 ((8 years old)) searched in "google images" the following:

nakid
naked
naked girls
girls with no clothes on

and stuff like that. I was so worried I thought this might be a mistake. But when I asked her, she said: "yeah oh my gosh there were girl's boobs and stuff ew!"
well if it was ew then y did she watch it?! and she said sorry, which I was kind of surprised because she never ever obeys me or says sorry....so does this mean she's not going to do it again?! well i told her not to or else ill tell mom or dad, but Im still panicked..i dunno y! plz plz plz help me...what should i do? i would appreciate advice..thnx!

2007-11-13 23:50:21 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

we see each other always at school campus, and i want to be close with them bcoz they seems like good and friendly..

2007-11-13 23:45:47 · 3 answers · asked by chielala 3 in Friends

Ok so my son has always been a little hyper and pushed me to my limits, but just recently he has gotten so much worse. He keeps getting into things that he knows he's not suppose to making messes everywhere and hurting his sister. Even his behavior at school has went down hill. I've punished him everyway i know how i just don't know what to do anymore. Please i need some advice i'm seriously thinking of calling a doctor for help it's just gotten that bad.

2007-11-13 23:42:15 · 12 answers · asked by The brat 4 in Family

2007-11-13 23:40:43 · 11 answers · asked by the gay bear 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband called a co worker as a "joke" and said I saw your name on the bathroom wall and it said for a good time call..., mind you this is someone he could barely stand , next thing I know she is bringing him breakfast and cookies and he is helping her with her job and is concerned how she will look to the company. When I confronted him . he laughed and said it was stupid and that it was just work. Need another perspective on this. Am I over reacting when I say this hurt my feelings?

2007-11-13 23:36:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ever since I found out 2 years ago that my husband of 20 years was cheating I have been in a state of turmoil. I think of nothing else. He recently went away for just over 2 weeks to see his mother and is back on Friday. During the past 2 years he has been away before, but this time it feels as if I haven’t seen him for years. I have spoken to him on the phone every few days, but it feels as if I could be speaking to anyone and can hardly relate to him.
I am confused as to why this has happened now. Do you think its because I have finished grieving for the husband I feel I lost 2 years ago as he now seems a different person in my eyes? I do still think about it everyday but it all seems so far away.
I have convinced myself that he only stays till our daughter leaves for Uni next year then he will instigate divorce. Perhaps I have been detaching myself from him over the past 2 years ready for this day? I have gone completely blank inside and can hardly feel anything anymore for anyone or anything.

2007-11-13 23:35:25 · 9 answers · asked by Angela O 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a 18yr old boy that split up with his gf because he cheated on her and a 19yr old girl broke up with her bf because her bf cheated on her, these people have only just met and get on really really well... would a relationship work if they was to get together???

2007-11-13 23:33:25 · 7 answers · asked by 99moo99 2 in Singles & Dating

she has been living alone and paying the morgage herself for 10 years. she says she earns enough to cover all the costs of living and doesnt want me to contribute. she says it doesnt cost any extra for me to stay there. her friend has told me that the reason is she doesn't want me having any "rights", or having a licence to mess the place up (i am quite untidy). she likes to feel she is in charge, which she wouldnt be if i was paying my half share. do you think this is controlling, selfish behaviour on her part? or should i just enjoy it?

2007-11-13 23:32:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the difference between a genuine good guy that all the girls want and the "Mr Nice Guy" who end up in the Friendzone?

2007-11-13 23:30:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is the sweetest most romantic thing anyone has done for you?

2007-11-13 23:27:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why do men compulsively flirt?i know this guy, married and everthing.loves women, but is constantly going from one woman to another, constanly obsessively flirting etcHe is very good looking ok.is it true that they are insecure or had bad relationships with their mothers?

2007-11-13 23:26:12 · 11 answers · asked by susieboo 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-13 23:25:18 · 21 answers · asked by amylthree 1 in Singles & Dating

ii had sex with my bf
and my mom doesnt know and she suspects
shes getting me a physical to test it out
and if she finds out ii will never be able to see my bf again
and ii love him
it was so worth it either way
ii wasnt horny or anything
ii trust him
ii need to get out of this
can ii lie and say ii finger or it was a tampon
will it work????

2007-11-13 23:23:53 · 13 answers · asked by Person I 1 in Singles & Dating

I have asked many questions on relationships between men and women. And have gotten various responses. If I pay attention to type of songs women listen to, and the type of movies women watch, and the types of books women read, then I could get a pretty good understanding of what is at the very core of a woman. At least to the degree of what she wants from a man, or what she wants her man to be.
Whether she waited for that type of man, or maybe settled is a different story. I know we get hurt, and we at times go into a protective mode.
But, Ladies, truly tell, is the type of man you read about, watch in movies you like, and hear them sing, the type of man you used to dream about?
The "I swear" song
"Must be doing something right"
Turn out the lights...
just to name a few...... comments ladies?
sorry for the lentgh
If you find this interesting please star me, so I will know if I am improving on my questions.... thank you

2007-11-13 23:14:18 · 12 answers · asked by Fugitive Peices 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-13 23:07:05 · 12 answers · asked by aster_kifle 1 in Friends

my friend is a she.

2007-11-13 23:06:02 · 22 answers · asked by iffah 2 in Friends

my boyfriend is 36 years old and im 21, he is a trustworthy men, really honest... sometimes too much, some months ago something was happening, relative often he was telling me stories about his exgirfriend .I though was normal but i didn`t like it so i told him, but the things just got worse, when we were talking about it he gave me more information that I really didn’t want to know. Actually i think i have to much information about her.for example she was virgin when she was 25, she has the same profession than him besides she is a chef, she is rational, smart, hard worker, mature and supposedly they have bad sex for the 5 years that they were together etc.... moreover he told me that she was his fantasy of a perfect relationship, the explanation that he gave for this was that he though was perfect but it wasn’t.. (I don’t know if really mean that) he told me that feel really proud of her in many ways... he said they are friends and his family love her, and her family love him and all of them keep in touch, i feel uncomfortable with the situation.

We have a good relationship for more than a year, great sex, also we are living together.
The real problem is He just told me that his family doesn’t know about me. He is still single for his family. Moreover some of his old good friends (the ones shared with ex girlfriend) have come to visit him, he went out with them alone and he didn’t tell to them that he has a relationship,
He’s a really nice guy who has made lots of good things for me but i hate feel like im not exist in the most important part of his life, good friend and family.
I don’t know if he doesn’t want that his ex girlfriend knows about us... of if it is me, I mean, I wasn’t virgin, im not a cheff and i don’t have any degree yet, in his words`` I don’t have a life yet`` .... Do i need that to he can share his life with me?.
Don’t get me wrong im smart, pretty and out going. The few of his friends that I know (the ones don’t shared with ex girlfriend) likes me a lot.
I’ve stopped my studies in my country just because i waned to travel abroad a bit...
I’ve also asked him how he feels about the different on ages, and he told me that he is ok with that... so I really don’t know what to think or what to do...maybe this relationship is not important enough?. Am I over reacting? What should I do?

2007-11-13 23:04:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok what gives!!!

I met this guy on myspace.. we hung out 4 times.. now I have this other girl emailing me telling me he is taken by her and she lives in conneticut (we are in FL).. i brought it up to him and he said he is "sorta" dating her but he is going to call her and tell her he is done with her.. He told me 3 days ago that he told her, and yesterday I got an email from her sayin that he never did call her and say any of it.. infact he calls he everyday and tells her how much he misses and loves her..

the other day he stopped by to drop my cellphone off and before he came over.. the girl was talkin to me on here.. she told me its illegal for me to see him.. i said.. "uhhh why???" and he said.. "well he is 17, and you are 22".. my jaw dropped. his myspace says 19 and turning 20 december 26th.. I brought it up with him and he told me he is really 18! and promises up and down that he is..

I asked to see his license lastnight, and he told me that he doesn't carry it on him

2007-11-13 23:04:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is a sweet and caring guy, and he really does make me happy. But he also can lie really well, and hasn't always been known to tell the truth. He used to talk bad about me, and was always confusing. But seems to be still really sweet and caring, and funny like when we went out in the beginning. And I truly care about him. It's been 6 months since we ended our relationship, and I have yet to get over him

2007-11-13 23:02:22 · 16 answers · asked by missginrummy 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like this girl.I dont know how to ask her out tho.I usually sk face to face but this girl is like different.I am kinda scared to ask her out.So i was thinking if i asked her friend to ask her if she would go out with me.Is this a god idea?Is there a better way?

2007-11-13 23:01:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have always had bad luck i am in a small business making a product,it wont sell.every time i do something it turns out wrong

2007-11-13 23:00:09 · 2 answers · asked by big D 1 in Friends

I see the lads once a week on a Saturday night, we go out drinking and then to a night club.
Now I love my girlfriend like mad, she’s one of the best things that’s ever happened to me….BUT she gets so moody and off when I tell her I’m seeing the lads. She has even called me and tried to cause a fight to ruin my night when I have been out.

I don’t see what the big deal is…..I go out on a sat night, drinking and clubbing but I spend a lot of the rest of my free time with her!!! I’m not cheating I just wana see my mates and have a laugh…how can I get her to understand this and not freak out at me all the time….
also the thing is the lads wana a lads night...sometimes we bring the girls but we like a girl free night once a week!! some space to recharge as it where! Why can she see its not such big deal??
I need her to understand im not gunna give this up no matter how much she strops out…..
Can any of you shed light on why shes behaving like this??

2007-11-13 22:58:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I always feel I can tell anybody my deepest thoughts and feelings that otherwise I would not be able to say, and same here with my friend.

I told someone how I felt about something that happened to them over two years ago just in the last couple of days and it still feels as raw and painful as it did when it happened so long ago.

I was in tears pouring my heart out and even though I was drunk I meant every word and can remember it, I really opened up and told that person and that person actually opened up to me for the first time and they had never told anyone about how they felt.

If someone tells you something so deep and so lovely when they are drunk, do they really mean it and feel that way.

I was drunk and was able to tell someone how I felt from the bottom of my heart and I can remember it and I meant it, do you think they remember what I said?

They said the next morning how good it was to open up and talk about what had happened two and a bit years ago.

2007-11-13 22:53:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

On Saturday night my boyfriend left me with his bestfriend (a guy) while he attended a funeral for another friend.
And I was talking to his bestfriend about what my boyfriend did for his B'Day last year (I didnt know him then) & his bestfriend started telling me that my boyfriend "expected" him to organise something for him & when he didnt then my boyfriend got angry at him.
Later on when my boyfriend & I went home...I told my boyfriend what his bestfriend said about him and he was angry and said his bestfriend always trys to put him down. Then he sms-ed his bestfriend to say he knows what he said to me and is hurt to which his bestfriend said I must have MISUNDERSTOOD him & denied saying that at all and would never want to hurt my boyfriend... so my boyfriend excepted this but when he told me I got angry at him as I felt im being called a liar cause i know what i heard his bestfriend say. So he sms-ed him again demanding truth & his bestfriend is still denying it... what can we do?

2007-11-13 22:49:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-13 22:48:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

she has said from the age of 4 she is 8 and stills says the same he had a lie tst done is said he not lieing

2007-11-13 22:38:30 · 9 answers · asked by horn3 1 in Family