Family & Relationships - 13 November 2007

The person that I live with keeps having a row with ma mom about 10 times even at night!

what shall I do 'cos the my dad wacked my mom on da floor and massive bruses came on her arm that same hour,
I FEEL LIKE ITS MY FUALT.

HELP!

and to make things worse I through all my photos of my life away but one of them looked at the photos and just said "gosh!" and I thought OMG!!!!!

PLEASE I NEED HELP NOW,
SHALL I ASK MY MOM AND DAD FOR ME TO GO UP FOR ADOPTION?

HELP,
HELP,
HELP.

AND ANYWAYS DO YOU THINK THEY WOULD LOOK AT THE PHOTOS BEFORE I LEFT?

I THROUGH THE PHOTOS AWAY 'COS THEY WERE GROSS,
I HAVE NO CUTE,
SWEET OR NICE PHOTOS AT ALL.............

I CRY EVERY NIGHT ABOUT THAT.

PLEASE HELP ME.

PLEASE HELP ME.

2007-11-13 18:23:55 · 5 answers · asked by Maddie 2 in Family

My girlfriend of about 6 weeks was telling me that in her past relationships, when they get to about 5 months long, she pretty much ends them right there because she all of a sudden feels scared and like shes suffocating and doesn't want to feel committed. But she said she likes me a lot and wants to somehow end that problem with me, but is afraid that it's going to happen again. She basically hasnt been single in a few years because she starts dating after she breaks up w/ the other guy and is never really serious at all with them. Today she was thinking about the commitment issue for a long time and how she could maybe get over it and "grow up." All she thought of was maybe being single for awhile and then somehow realize something and be able to appreciate her relationships more. But I like her a lot and dont want her to be single! i know she doesnt either, and really wants to somehow find another way where she can get over that issue. theres gotta be some other way...PLEASE help!

2007-11-13 18:21:57 · 7 answers · asked by Zach N 1 in Singles & Dating

there are times when we have people who are attracted to us and are giving us attention and care.most times we are not into these people though we enjoy the attention and the love.How do you feel when these people finally get other people and are happy (assuming you didnt accept their love)
do you feel jealous of the people they are with?

2007-11-13 18:18:50 · 8 answers · asked by niko 1 in Singles & Dating

presented you with my credentials, a degree from Flinders University of South Australia, what would you think?

2007-11-13 18:18:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Men like that right??? Like a good boy gesture....how often to keep the relationship in good standing??

2007-11-13 18:17:12 · 9 answers · asked by mended.ticker 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

All of the women I've dated (all 2 of them) have been very caring and attractive. Problem is, eventually after we've been dating awhile she will escape to the bathroom only to leave it 10-15 minutes later with a very unattractive smell. Sometimes there are even poop stains in the toilet. I really want to marry a woman who doesn't do this. Advice?

2007-11-13 18:15:36 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 17 years old and my mother is addicted to cocaine. I have confronted her about it but she has totally denied it. I am 100% positive that she is because I have found 2 coke bags. She also pawn a lot of things, yet she never has any money.

2007-11-13 18:14:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We have been friends with my Ex lately. My Little brother was not feeling well he made an effort to call him visit him, and after that he bought some groceries for my mom. He has been telling me that he is still in love wth me but there somethings he wants to sort out first. We talk everyday and my phone is full of his messages.. We had a bad break up and i'm not sure if i should really trust him again. Last weekend we ended up having sex cos he had spent a night over my house.That was before my little brother got sick. And now he is coming on me even stronger. I love him but dont want to get hurt again.

2007-11-13 18:12:47 · 2 answers · asked by kadhimba 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been legally married since 1987. we separated in 1988. i haven't seen or talked to him in over 10 years, but i know where he is. i'm kinda torn cause i want to have a relationship, but then again it says in the bible that Jesus hates divorce. what should i do?? thanks

2007-11-13 18:08:56 · 20 answers · asked by ==cj== 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I've gotten to be pretty good friends with a guy, but I always wanted more from the beginning. We hang out a lot in groups and from my perspective, it seems like he flirts with me like crazy (eye contact, touching, compliments, stares, remembering conversations), and he has told me that he thinks I'm pretty. His actions don't really suggest that he wants to be more that friends though. He's had the opportunity to ask me out but hasn't, and doesn't ever try to get me alone with him or make a move or call me just to talk. He has several female friends and he's naturally a talkative, friendly, touchy person, so I can't tell if he is deliberately flirting or if he is just being friendly. He also complains about being single all the time around me, so I don't know if that is good or bad. I don't want to tell him how I feel because he could be oblivious to the signals I've been sending him and that could make our burgeoning friendship awkard. Could he really just want to be friends? Why?

2007-11-13 18:06:59 · 26 answers · asked by desertrose571 3 in Singles & Dating

i have liked countless guys because of how smart they are simply because intelligence attracts me. if he's good looking then all the better..just wanting to know how many others feel or have felt the same way at some point in their life?

2007-11-13 18:05:22 · 13 answers · asked by delicous 1 in Singles & Dating

I called this girl whom I hadn't seen in a two months. Anyways, she called me saying she misses me, and it got me thinking that I kind of miss her too. So I called her back a few days later asking if she wanted to do something in the afternoon. She said no, she couldn't that she was busy. But she asked me to call her later that night.

It felt like she was blowing me off, so I didn't bother calling her that night. She must've realize I was a little upset because she texted me saying "Lets go for dinner next week".

Was she really busy? Didn't want to see me at that time? Or just plain blowing me off?

2007-11-13 18:04:47 · 14 answers · asked by Visine 1 in Singles & Dating

She has been so mean to me since this happened. First she hid the remote control in the toilet and then she wrote me hateful, hurtful notes saying things like "you're a pig/i hate you," etc. What is her problem?

2007-11-13 18:01:17 · 76 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I try to hang out with both groups but it never seems enough for them, what do i do?

2007-11-13 17:56:30 · 18 answers · asked by Live-free13 1 in Friends

We have been together for over 5 years and have been married for a little of 2 years now. We have a 3 1/2 and a 1 1/2 year old daughters. He works full-time, and I was a stay at home mom for the past 4 years, until this past August. I am curently going back to school to finish my R.N. degree. I feel that I am completly stressed out- in EVERY way! He is really a good father and a good husband- he has his things he needs to work on, but we all do.. The thing is we have had sex only 3x sence this past January! Honestly. He want's it all of the time- and I have no thrive for it. This is obviously causing real termoil in our mariage. He had a vesectomy that I was not 100% on board about- I did support him- but I was not 100% sure that I NEVER wanted anymore children. I think this has alot to do with our "sexless" relationship..!!?? Does ANYONE have any suggestion (other than just saying sleep with him!)? I really ned help... My marriage depends on it. Thanks, Chellie

2007-11-13 17:52:08 · 12 answers · asked by chellie.alden 2 in Marriage & Divorce

(prolly asked a few billion times b4 hehehe)

2007-11-13 17:41:45 · 6 answers · asked by philliclay 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-13 17:40:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom is hellbent on finding someone who will take care of me and my kids. I am just fine being single and I don't want a relationship where I'm a stay at home mom, I enjoy working and being able to handle all my finances. My mom is quite old fashioned and is constantly trying to hook me up with men that will take care of me and my two kids. How do I put it to her gently and make her see my point in a nice way?

2007-11-13 17:38:46 · 16 answers · asked by lexichic66 3 in Singles & Dating

I've heard sex is different than it is in reality and its nothing like the real thing. but i would guess you use the same positions and movements? Whats it really like and how can i make sure i am atleast half decent, what are the do's and dont's etc, im expecting to with a girl ive been seeing for a while now.

2007-11-13 17:37:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my girlfriend are taking time from each other. its only been a day. When she said she wanted time, I didnt call her from that point, I just let her have her space. Well, this morning she called me and I said I though u wanted your space? she said yea but i still want u to call me. I was confused. today before i went to work, she called me and said do you miss the sex? i said its good but im not gonna sweat over it. then she said question, what if im pregnant? i said ill be happy. i said why did u ask that? she said no reason. then earlier tonight she called me feeling sad and crying, and she said im afraid your gonna find someone else and it will be too late. i said are you ready to get back with me? she said im almost ready to get back with you. she said tears come to her eyes when she thinks about me. If she feels that way then why doesnt she get back with me? P.S. we took time apart cuz we both had cheated on each other, and the relationship was kinda rocky.

2007-11-13 17:34:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-13 17:33:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i realy hate my family...
there always makin me clean and there always yellin at me
i want to move out but im only 14...
is there anything i can do?
please help

2007-11-13 17:33:23 · 5 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Family

i have a boyfriend but i am still a teenager and i don't want to have sex because i feel there are just too many risks

about our relationship-------

he is Black and i am Iranian (Persian)

and im 15 (almost 16!) and hes 16

he has actually helped me quite alot because i have just moved to the hood in nyc and he has helped me get comfortable there (i have never lived in a hood before)

now whenever my boyfriend comes or i go out with him i have to admit that i tend to dress pretty sexy and be flirty with him

i just love the attention he gives me

also i lie on top of him alot and we makeout while he's touching my *** usually and we play wrestle ALOT

hes always uhh complimenting me on my "assets"..........u kno like he says im "thick"

but i was wondering am i making it harder (no pun attended lol) for him to go without sex or would it be more like a better than nothing sort of thing for him

o and we've been together for around 2 1/2 months

2007-11-13 17:28:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was wearing lingerie and he turned me down and told me this. Now I'm kinda butt-hurt.

2007-11-13 17:28:20 · 26 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Singles & Dating

I recently found the man of my dreams, and I've never in my life felt as close to marriage and family as I do now. In fact I'm pretty sure my boyfriend is going to propose soon, and I'm ecstatic. I've never been so happy, and I feel like I've finally found the love I've been looking for.

Yet for some reason I've begun having dreams about all my ex-boyfriends. Every relationship that led me up to this point. I don't have anymore feelings for any of my exes and some I haven't seen or heard from in years. So why am I suddenly having dreams about them instead of my future husband? Any ideas?

2007-11-13 17:27:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother in law has never liked me or even wanted me for her daughter ( she said it herself) and despite me trying to get along with her over and over again she is always trying to get at me.
She has first threaten to call the police because she feels i am to strict with my stepchild. I got over that. She later tried to so behind our backs and took my stepchild (3years old) to a doctor cuz she thought maybe i was molesting her (even though she had no proof) I had to go to our doctor and clear any suspesitions. It took me a while but i sort of got over that too. (even though we could have lost our newborn child and my stepchild) Later she got a hold of my stepchild's father (after never being around) and got him to file child custody papers so she could have my stepchild taken away from my wife ordered to go back to her dad ( we won the case) I know i can be a real prick but that was crossing the line. My wife seems to forgive to easyly and wants me to do the same. Should I?

2007-11-13 17:26:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok so i am really popular at my school and have been since freshman year. the thing is that now im feeling stuck, i have tons of popular freinds who are actually nice and get invited to all the big parties but im not making progress. Like most of the popular girls who are my freinds hang out with the jocks who im not really freinds with cus i dont play sports ( i broke my neck 3 years ago) so its sometimes akward but everyone still likes me. If your popular please tell me wat u do to get noticed become more popular. I dont just want to be cool anymore i want to be the most popular guy in school. How do i get ther? And dont critizice me , i kno it sounds stupid to some people but i HAVE to be the center of attention...so keep your negative comments to your self

2007-11-13 17:25:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a professor chats with his former student online - do you think this is perfectly innocent?

2007-11-13 17:23:52 · 5 answers · asked by skykiss 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have an identical twin sister whom I am always comparing myself to. I never feel good enough or pretty enough...how can I separate myself from her to find my own identity? Its so hard because we share the same DNA and upbringing, which makes me think we should have the same capabilities. Any advice

2007-11-13 17:23:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm 22, he's 42. We've been friends for a couple of years. A few months ago he told me he's cared for me all this time. He's smart, successful. I'm a cashier who has no idea what she wants to do w/her life.When we've discussed life/family things he's always said how he feels we're equals. I don't see how.

He's supportive emotionally and has offered me assistance financially(I thanked him but declined). He asks me about his new house, decor tips, what kind of things I'd prefer.Has said he wants to spend his life with me, said he loves me. He's said and offered everything a girl could want.
My fear is if I accept his feelings, and get invested what if I lose him? He's in great shape, but if years down the road we're together and something happens to him I'd be left alone in the middle of my life.
Losing a grandmother or friend is 1 thing but fear of *possibly* losing a partner when in my 40s-I don't think I'm strong enough. Is this reason enough to not try the relationship?

2007-11-13 17:22:50 · 32 answers · asked by Seriously, Passionately 2 in Singles & Dating