Family & Relationships - 12 November 2007

(She does binge while shes out)

Is this even possible or do you think shes over-exaggerating her hangovers?

2007-11-12 23:57:00 · 8 answers · asked by liam r 1 in Family

he is 12yrs married and still living with his family..

2007-11-12 23:50:52 · 26 answers · asked by blog c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-12 23:49:39 · 9 answers · asked by mase kaku. 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

future daughter in law bridesmaid. This breaks my heart to even ask this question and stop a family fued she is having. For some reason she has decided after buying the dress which cost over 300.00, that 3 months before the wedding called her brother and said she doesn't care to be in the wedding and far worse will not even attend. She called me and said she wanted her money back she spent on the dress. I told her I had nothing to do with it, and she needed to call the bride to be...she did and asked for the money. My son told her she needs to sell it on ebay..because his fiancee is not responsible for giving her the money back. Pls let me know how something like this works. All I can say is this is breaking my heart, that my daughter would act so selfishly and not want to even attend her only brothers wedding.

2007-11-12 23:45:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am 17!!There is this cousin who had proposed me around 2 yrs back...My answer was if mom is ready...Coz he was my cousin..!!We were not that close during these two yrs..!!Now this guy has told his mom regarding me and now his mom is gonna speak to my mom..!!The problem is that during these two yrs i fell in love with another guy and we have plans for settling down in life..!!Now what to do??Plzzzz help..!!

2007-11-12 23:38:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-12 23:31:50 · 5 answers · asked by ewanzz 1 in Singles & Dating

Im havenig a short break from answers so wish me luck as you wave me good by. and we'll meet again dont no were dont no when but I no we'll meet again some sunny day. any good?

2007-11-12 23:26:16 · 1 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im a victim of his abuse. When I was young he used to beat me, kick me or slap me. There was this one time, i confronted him, he said he beat me for I have done a mistake. But I think its not proper. Now, that Im already 23. No more beatings, but we dont have this father-daughter bond. He said he doesn't like talking to me. He underestimates me, he would always say Im dumb. I am nonsense to talk to. Im good at nothing. My sister is better. I dont feel like talking to him too, his face reminds me of his beating. I always avoid him, does it make me a bad daughter?

2007-11-12 23:24:01 · 21 answers · asked by Scarlet 3 in Family

2007-11-12 23:23:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Tie a yellow ribon round the old oke tree its been three long years do you stiill want me if I dont see a yellow ribon round the old oke tree. any good my song?

2007-11-12 23:17:17 · 4 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My little sister is a very sweet girl and she doesn’t get angry easily. She has this new boyfriend that she has been with for little over a month now. Ever since she got with him, I had a gut feeling that he wasn’t right for her. Then last night my sister was talking to me and we came up to the subject of her boyfriend, and she told me that he wants to have sex with her and she doesn’t want to. He keeps trying to convince her to. It is really starting to piss me off. I know my sister isn’t the kind of person who can really stand up for herself properly. She has had many boyfriends beforehand. And I know she is young (16), and she wouldn’t be looking for a real serious relationship for a bit, but I don’t want her to be played. She told me not to do anything. But I want her not to be with him. I saw him this morning and he seems all nice, but still something doesn’t feel right. Should I do something or just leave it, because I think something should be done?

2007-11-12 23:15:26 · 17 answers · asked by Troy 1 in Singles & Dating

male or female, straight or gay, do you enjoy occasionally flinging a bit of porn into the bedroom situation.

If so why? and if not, why not?

2007-11-12 23:15:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am seeing someone I shouldn't be seeing. Their wife left them a year ago. I haven't met her. He's perfect for me but it seems he wasn't for her. He still loves her and wants her back and quite openly talks about this with me. I've know and been good friends with this man for 5 years. The changes occurred 8wks ago when he kissed me... after drinking too much! Then... it was going one for a while like that... but then last Wednesday... um, well, I may have experienced more of this man than I should have. I'm now so worried about my group of friends, because it's a secret- but I want more! Should I stop? I don't want to stop. Please don't tell me to! I have always been so good to everyone at the expense of myself. I have never been wild and crazy and said "stuff the concequences!!!!" Maybe if I spend some time with him he'll forget about his ex and fall in love with me. I'm a great catch (I'm told), but he's obsessing over her!! It's all a secret in case she wants him back!

2007-11-12 23:13:45 · 7 answers · asked by Ara 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 22 and dont have a single stand of hear on my body except my face and head....

2007-11-12 23:13:04 · 5 answers · asked by snoopy 4 in Singles & Dating

ive only heard bad things about them

2007-11-12 23:10:45 · 6 answers · asked by lucy6 2 in Singles & Dating

They are always abusive with ill manners.I have to apologise to put my mind at rest they have encouraged me to torment myself and behave as though I am at fault more.They are both boorish bullies although I might feel at better if I did.That said I am sick of their wingeing and abusive lies and don't want to meet them again.She said"there was nothing to apologise for" which shows me that my sister doesn't understand that she is in the wrong and won't listen either.Any advice?I will be grateful.

2007-11-12 23:07:39 · 22 answers · asked by godbar 2 in Family

When things are good, my boyfriend is brilliant, loving,caring..Although he talks too much, goes on and on and i still listen to him out of respect.But he does the opposite to me, he often shuts me up and doesn't have more than 5mins for me.He always takes control of any situation and doesn't admit when he's wrong.i most of the time don't say anything to avoid conflict but when i do he gets angry.what i hate most is when he tells me off in front of his kids who are not mine.i get annoyed and upset and don't talk to him for days.when i try to explain my feeling he's not prepared to listen so i e-mail him to get msg across about how i feel and how he would feel if it were me who shut him up all the time and talk to him like he does to me in front of his kids?consequently, yesterday his 9 year old daughter told me to shut up n go away because i asked her to tidy her desk up.I was furious about it.I felt to punish her but i couldn't do anything because am not her mum.it's her dad's fault.

2007-11-12 23:07:15 · 4 answers · asked by elma 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I were talking last night, ad he asked if I wanted to hnag out after school. I told him I couldn't, that I already told my guy friend I'd hang out with him. My boyfriend seemed to get really mad. I mean, he didn't say he was mad, but I could tell. He said somehting like "Why do you always have to hang out with that guy?" I was just kind of shocked, and I asked what he was talking about, and he was like "Forget it, I have to go, bye" and hung up! This was last night on the phone, so I haven't really had a chance to talk to him yet, but is he jealous? Just being a jerk? What? I hang out with my friend a lot, but I never thought it bothered him. It shouldn't.

2007-11-12 22:58:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is 65, his mother eventually died last year. She was held up as some kind of domestic ideal, I can't think why, she was a slovenly old bat.

But now that she's gone, my aged husband wants me to be more like her. Much more like her: he wants me to revert to her type.

He was an only child, but that still doesn't excuse or solve the situation. She didn't even seem to like him all that much, which is why I wonder: why he is obsessing about her and trying to resurrect her?

I am 58. I have my own business that I am very mellow with. I do not want this persona thrust on me.

2007-11-12 22:58:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

right i no this girl called amy and shes going out with this bloke called kev, however kev is seeing this over girl lucy behind her back. but lucys 7 months pregnant with her bf chris, who is secretly meeting up with ally.
should i tell amy whats going on or just leeve it

2007-11-12 22:55:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend really creeped me out the other day. Its nice to be complimented on being a good person don't get me wrong but a sincere thanks is good enough. I hadn't done anything to need complimenting on, they came from nowhere and went on for about 20mins I was feeling quite uncomfortable. Was It silly of me to feel like that or would anyone feel like that?

2007-11-12 22:50:38 · 8 answers · asked by truth_and_time_tells_all 6 in Friends

i told her after i first kiss her that she was my first kiss and she told her friend whom stupidly told me when 3 of us was on the phone n i got really mad and felt stupid for telling her that ,because i wanted to make her feel special or something when i first told her so I'm thinking all the other stuff she could've told them which really annoys me because I've always kept everything thats suppose to be somewhat of a secret, a secret to everyone and I've shown her i trusted her completely by telling her other things and now it just bothers me whether she kept the other stuff a secret or not.
i love my gf a lot and i have proven that to her and every time we have a fight I'm always the first to apologize even if i was mad at her because she was mad at me or did something wrong and i just don't know what to do anymore i felt like i treated her better than anybody and i just want to get her back so badly but i know is gonna be stupid

2007-11-12 22:48:35 · 6 answers · asked by infusionair 2 in Singles & Dating

I think I've been a really good boy

2007-11-12 22:29:41 · 15 answers · asked by onecowboyjake 4 in Friends

This girl and i dated for about 2 and a half months. when we first started talking she was talking bout how she liked being single cause she was going through a devorce with her ex. but a couple weeks into knowing eachother she told me that she would like to start dating me cause there was just sumthing about me. during our time togather i had the best relationship that i have ever experienced. but at the same time we moved a bit to fast. we ended up breaking up because she has alot going on in her life and says she doesnt need the stress of a relatiopnship along with all the other problems she has. right now she tells me she just needs a friend. but my feelings for her are still very strong. but she says that she feels on edge around me cause of the fact that i still act like were togather. how do i handle this situation? how do i get her back?

2007-11-12 22:24:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this girl and i are over. finished. no return. she wants me to add her as one of my friends on facebook. what do i do? do i send her a message and tell no and tell i cant think of her ever again and i dont want to see her face again and completely forget about her?

2007-11-12 22:22:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

likes me too but hes gone back to our country to get married and he says he aint commited and this girl is good for the family...plz help what shall i do hes comin back after 3 weeks and im so heartbroken plz be nice lol :)

2007-11-12 22:19:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am feeling very sad and pretty low about my ex-boyfriend (relationship of 3 years, both in our late twenties). He broke up with me a few months ago but the break up was pretty hard. He didn't want to let go, he felt always very upset if I told him I should stop all contact with him as it was the only choice for me of how to deal with this. I really loved him and I still do very much. I miss him terribly. I saw him about a month ago, he came to visit me and when he was leaving I was distraught. I felt pain in my stomach as I knew once he leaves, we are not in a relationship anyway and I could not deal with this situation, I told him that we need to go our separate ways. He said he will respect it. And I haven't heard from him since. He used to fight for me, for us to stay in contact but now he is silent. I keep thinking of him, I miss him and I am not interested in anyone else. I worry he met someone else and forgot all about me. Please help me? What should I do?

2007-11-12 22:17:22 · 11 answers · asked by Elisa N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i recently went out with this guy who i thought was really nice. he made me feel really special and treated me really well. then suddenly he texted me saying he cant carry on with me coz he's in trouble at home! I was gutted coz i really liked him. anyway i said i believed him and that i understood he had to sort his problem out first but i did some digging and found out that his real reason was his girlfriend from abroad was coming to visit him and it looked like they were together all the time he was persuing me! I was livid and hurt that he did this to me! So i pretended to be someone else (stupid i know i but i dident want to be me) anyway i told her that her so called boyfriend cheated on her and he's a liar and told her everything that he did with me. She responded saying they were steep accusations for someone she cares about she couldnt believe me straight off, i told her to ask him! He knew it was me and now i feel so stupid and bad! Was i wrong to do this? Am i a bad person?!

2007-11-12 22:15:40 · 20 answers · asked by Bluebell 1 in Singles & Dating

My partner is 25yrs old and he still occasionaly wets the bed. He has been to the doctors a while ago and they prescribed him some medication which worked for a while but then he threw them as decided they werent working(or did he know there was another reason he should be paying attention to). The thing is it makes him feel so bad and embarresed he then gets angry and upset and it leads to an argument that i always try to avoid. This has been a problem since childhood, and his father did punish him. Dont know what to do as just want to help him.

2007-11-12 22:12:16 · 24 answers · asked by Nichola c 2 in Family

Should I ask my girlfriend if it is okay to see other people? Or should I just do it without telling other people? The reason why I ask is because I feel she is doing the same and if she is going to do it..I want to do it too..but I still want to see her. I love her and I don't want to feel I am wasting my time with her if she is doing that. We have been together for 6 months now and we are in our late 20s. I don't want to confront her about my suspicions because she will think I don't trust her.

2007-11-12 22:09:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating