i told her after i first kiss her that she was my first kiss and she told her friend whom stupidly told me when 3 of us was on the phone n i got really mad and felt stupid for telling her that ,because i wanted to make her feel special or something when i first told her so I'm thinking all the other stuff she could've told them which really annoys me because I've always kept everything thats suppose to be somewhat of a secret, a secret to everyone and I've shown her i trusted her completely by telling her other things and now it just bothers me whether she kept the other stuff a secret or not.
i love my gf a lot and i have proven that to her and every time we have a fight I'm always the first to apologize even if i was mad at her because she was mad at me or did something wrong and i just don't know what to do anymore i felt like i treated her better than anybody and i just want to get her back so badly but i know is gonna be stupid
2007-11-12 22:48:35 · 6 answers · asked by infusionair 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i mean would you count this like a secret thing or not? because i feel that is somewhat of a secret private thing right? or do girls just go and tells their friend ooo my bf grab my *** tonight n blah blah on or o i had sex with him and he enter me from the back etc etc
because i mean i know i do that with my friends sometimes but thats only when we tag the girl as a gold digger.
and soon after i heard that from her friend i made an excuse to get off the phone and since she is suspended the only way i can talk to her is by email
2007-11-12 23:07:21 · update #1
and shes the only girl that i treated this well with respect and trust too
2007-11-12 23:08:21 · update #2
she told her friend probably beforehand but i heard it from her friend while the three of us was on the phone and she was telling her friends not to tell it but her friend leaked out
2007-11-12 23:10:33 · update #3
She is a blabbermouth and she should learn to be a bit less chatty and being a radio station.
Most young teenaged girls have no brakes on their mouths when it comes to yakking with friends. This is a stage where they learn not to be a blabbermouth. (Personal experience)
She would have repeated it innocently without any thought that you would not be happy.
Tell her that talking to her is like talking over a microphone on a radio station and you really have to think what you can tell her and what you cannot tell her from now on.
Its true. Dont look angry or sound angry.
To be accused of not being trustworthy will be hurtful to her ego . It can make her less looseylips. But then again maybe not.
Give her a chance to change her verbal diarrheac ways.
2007-11-12 22:57:59 · answer #1 · answered by QuiteNewHere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She shouldn't have told her friend while you were on the phone. But you just said something about "every time we have a fight, I'm always the first to apologize." The relationship had too much drama in it, and you talk about feeling stupid. You need peace in your life and so does she. Let her go and move on.
2007-11-13 07:03:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not stupid for putting your trust into someone you love!
You need to tell her after you calm down.How she made you feel.And you would hope ,she respects the intimate details of your relationship.
And you shouldn't always be the one to patch things up after an agruement.And you really want her to respect you also,otherwise you wouldn't be upset.
She should understand how you feel about issues about your relationship also.Otherwise, the relationship is not growing and maturing!
Take care!
2007-11-13 06:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by need2know 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's going to tell her friends everything, so get over it. It's sounds like your more pissed that the world knows something about you that you wanted to keep private, even though it doesn't matter.
Just let it go, or get a sex change.
2007-11-13 06:55:11 · answer #4 · answered by Mark L 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dump her. I would not like it if a girl friend went out telling everyone what I had told her.
2007-11-13 07:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we girls considers it is special.i would tell my friend too. thoughif you wanted it to be a secret maybe you shouldve asked her OR you should tell her that you wanted it to keep it a secret.Ask her what you did... send a box of her favorite chocolates, wite and recite a pom to her that is about questions that people that in love ask about
2007-11-13 06:56:31 · answer #6 · answered by :D 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋