Family & Relationships - 12 November 2007

2007-11-12 21:59:38 · 15 answers · asked by Sonu 1 in Singles & Dating

i have known this boy since last couple of months ago.we texted each other everyday.both of us are in high school.but different school.sometimes,if a reply his message a lil bit late,he said i ignore him.sometimes it just take 15 minutes late!but when he replied my message late,i didnt think it is a big deal.
he is a bad boy.and i tried not to fall into him.because i thought he is just a player and treat every girl the same.so everytime he care with me,i just consider it nothing but good friend.so last weekend he asked me to accompany him to his church ,but i wont.so that afternoon he texted me that he got a headache,and i forgot to reply his message.in the next day,he post his personal message in MSN "i hate you for ignoring my message,sorry i really hate you"
i told him im sorry,and he said its okay.but he never texted me anymore.what should i do?

2007-11-12 21:57:29 · 12 answers · asked by msdigitalism 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-12 21:53:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A guy I was seeing has been very abusive emotionally to me to the point he says that he can control me and that I CANNOT live without him.My fault partly cos I should have left him long ago. I was so hurt and felt so helpless cos he has basically been manipulating me that I decided to tell the world how small his manhood was and logged on to his net account and spoke to his friends I never really did any harm I told him of it. Now I feel quite bad that I let him get to me like that. Now get this he now is angry t me after all the dirt he has done to me. Do you believe that wahat goes round comes round?? Cos I jsut feel like wicked people never seem to get their come uppence??

2007-11-12 21:53:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How long would you wait before having sex with your new boyfriend?

2007-11-12 21:34:41 · 33 answers · asked by TheGirl 2 in Singles & Dating

I have had no contact with either her or my child in 9 years, the child is turning 10 next month. Now I am being charged with a child support order that is also charging me with retroactive support as well as future payments. I am on the birth certificate as the father, but now I question that considering her actions. Do I have a legal right to end this order?

2007-11-12 21:32:08 · 26 answers · asked by J.R. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My huband of 15 years decided a couple of days ago to leave me and our 5 children,this is not the first time he has done this,it seemed right through the marraige whenever somthing serious happened he would walk,I kept forgiving him as you do. his behavior got worse and worse.I suggested marraige councelling and he told me it would not work yet he stayed and got more and more controlling.You know the type,you should do this and that and you dont know what you are talking about, all the typical controlling behaviors,including put downs and in the end threats ,Honestly guys I tried everything on this plannet to get through to this man .This time when he left I felt numb and exhausted and used and I do not wish to have him back in my life any longer ,even my teenagers are happy that he has left.I feel that he is a coward and only stayed in this marraige for his own selfish motives.I am ok ,just angry that a man could desert his family and wash his hands clean like he did not do anything

2007-11-12 21:24:59 · 23 answers · asked by Lightworker 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Who really needs friends? What's the point...Why is it important to have friends...? What benefit do they play on your life?

2007-11-12 21:22:31 · 8 answers · asked by icpropertysolutions 1 in Friends

i recently got married to a man who has a 21 year old daughter. shes a spoiled brat from hell. she lives alone no rent, no car payment , and he wants to help pay her bills. i don't agree. she has pictures of him and his ex [not her mother] that she just now put in her house that my husband is allowing her to live in for FREE and thinks im gonna walk in that house NO. i have NO use for this girl ,i cant stand her. she can come here all she wants but that doesn't mean i have to like her. her father knows how i feel,but he don't like it.and i really dont care. am i being selfish?

2007-11-12 21:07:54 · 16 answers · asked by babyblues 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and being more understanding . guys or gals .

2007-11-12 21:00:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is not a joke .my mother who is 88 is looking for a carer who she might invite to her bedroom at a later stage.surely this is not permited anyway.as i said this is no joke

2007-11-12 20:58:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I know this may sound weird but my daughter is 9 (10 in January) and all shes wanted for the past 6 months is a pair of dungarees they dont even have to be denim! but the only ones i have found in the shops only go up to age 7/8 its driving me mad!! Now shes said that she knows santa will bring her them coz santa knows where to get everything and shes been a good girl! AAAAHHHHHRRRRRGGGGHH HELP some1 please...if i dont find her some for xmas her belief will definatley go!!!

2007-11-12 20:57:45 · 6 answers · asked by roblou 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-12 20:54:38 · 5 answers · asked by tim j 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Many guys seem nice but they are not right for me. Should I wait for someone right for me or take Mr RIght now?

Is there any guy out there that would suit me. I am not snobbish by the way, just have morals.

2007-11-12 20:45:28 · 23 answers · asked by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm in a relationship with this amazing girl but sometimes i feel like i'm not the only one she is with-how would i know if she is lying or tellin the truth

2007-11-12 20:40:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was dating this guy that had an 8 year old daughter. I am convinced that she is his wife. In the begining of the relationship i witnessed her calling him stupid in his face and he said absolutely nothing. She called her dad her "man" to me an he acted as if he did not hear. The girl was left by her mom, but even so, this is no way for a kid to act. What got me was that he did not thing anything was wrong with her behavior until i started complaining. Long story short, towards the end i realzied that she was a brat to the 10th power, and i even told him that know woman will stick around long if he does not control her manipulating ways. Are most guys like this with their daughter. I sometimes use to wonder if he prferes the company of his daughter of a grown woman. Am i over-reacting. I just figured i found a really good guy, and the monkey wrench is his kid. I finally got sick of him and called him weak for letting his kid get over on him and mess up his realtionship.

2007-11-12 20:39:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Wow so ok this girl who works next door, is being a *****, i joke around with her sometimes but today i was teasing her alittle and she goes do u talk to people like this to you older than you??(im 20 shes 25) and said would u like it if i said it to your dad?? in a jokin way i said ya haha and she said get out.

...WHy she being a fooking *****.. im generally a nice person, i like making jokes, living life now i have tension with our next door workers.. -_-

2007-11-12 20:38:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love someone but he just ask me to be his bestfriend. But, I love him. And now I know he love the other girl older than him. What should I do? Left him and forget him but he is in one class with me?

2007-11-12 20:38:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was with a man who I knew to be verbally abusive to women,as well as a wall puncher.And I knew he had always bin a cheater. I found him advertising on here for 3-somes,proposing to a girl in Singapore,and sleepin with half the fraser valley. He goes by hootched69er,haywire.He started hitting me and I had him charged.He denies any accountability for his actions but was found guilty at trial and sent to jail. Within 2 months of being charged he was engaged to a "christian woman" who believes he never touched me. He has cheated on her since day one.I know some of the women.Is it possible that a man like him could change or is he just finding ways to become more devious?

2007-11-12 20:31:55 · 24 answers · asked by sweetsasspassion 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

this girl i liked rejected me last tuesday. i sent her this farewell message:
'if you read the last message forget it. i know you dont care and you'll probably laugh at me and think im some kind of f a g g ot. this is probably
my last message to you because i dont think youll reply to this and i will miss your company dearly. i really thought we could be friends. i hope you do well in your courses. I hope you make it in your your university placings and even your trip to japan. I also hope that you have peaceful and happy future where you could one day have a great family of your own. I wish you all the best'
I have not contacted her since. Those were my raw emotions at the time and i expressed it. what would she think of me? i need to move on because she obviously has no feelings, but i just like to go with no hard feelings. How would you perceive the message

2007-11-12 20:30:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-12 20:27:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When my wife and i first got together we spoke about threesomes. she said she was open to that idea. when the opportunity presented itself i made it happen for her with a friend that i've known for over 20 years. now almost a year later the same opportunity presented itself with her half sister whom she just met 5 years ago but have been very close , she (my wife) first accepted then then changed her mind in mid proposition. her sister was willing to go along but my wife didn't want to. Her sister first told my wife that she didn't want to cause she was ashamed of her own body. But while on the bed she let me touch her face and play with her hair. My wife told me was she was afraid that her sister was going to fall in love with me. a woman which i will probably never see again for years to come, you see this was in a different country and just before we came back. so i ask is this fair, am i being too demanding, or did i just end up on the short end of the stick please help

2007-11-12 20:22:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when talking to a girl? Haven't they secretly checked it out when we're not looking? Are they even aware that they're doing it....

2007-11-12 20:19:27 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf has serious trust issues and i wanna prove to him that i aint screwing around, and im serious! should i give him a key to my house? i mean he IS here everyday! but he is worried that i have other male company when he aint hurr!! whats ya opinion!!

2007-11-12 20:18:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1.) Do I have to have bridesmaids? Can I just have my maid of honor?

2.) Do I have to have a dress rehersal and rehersal dinner?

3.) Do I pay the clergyman? Or do I just "tip" them? I don't understand how this works. :(

2007-11-12 20:12:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Earlier I Asked A Question Whether Or Not It Was Wrong To Be Attracted To Nerdy Men , I Have Gotten Many Responses, Now I Need To Know Where Would I Find One? Im Only In My Late Teens, And Im Truly Stuck, My Ex Was A Smart Man, And I Found His Mind Amazing, He Fascinated Me With His Ideas And Theories On Things, I Really Want What I Had With Him Back, But Its Time To Move On And Find Another.

2007-11-12 20:09:25 · 16 answers · asked by * STAR * 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a very dear close aunt who has been an extra parent for me since I was a kid. Now that I am an adult, we are able to hang out together although I wouldnt say we are close as she is still more of an authoritative person to me. We are from different countries and recently her serious boyfriend came to the city I live to start work. She asked me to get in touch with him to make sure he's alright etc. So I did and we became friends. I felt a bit sorry for him to be in a strange place and he would ask me if i would have dinner with him a few times and I did.
One day he invited himself when i mentioned i was going clubbing with my friends and I welcomed him. His reason was that he'd like to see the club. So we went and everyone had fun although he trying to get a bit cosy with my girlfriend and I by dancing too close or hugging too tight when pictures were to be taken. It gave my friends and I uncomfortable vibes although i was still sticking up for him saying he's just drunk.
At about 4am we all started to leave and my girlfriend sarah and I had to work the next day so we were esp in a rush. But then my 'uncle' told me that he had to come back to my place because he had something really important to tell me and once he did,i might faint so he needed to tell me at my place. Straight away my friends and i thought it was weird and we refused but he still walked with us when we were walking so i was in two minds as he is still my aunt's bf and i didnt wanna offend him but also he was being really creepy. In the end my friend offered her place for us to talk. We went, and the 'news' he told me wasn't that big a deal and he was taking forever to finish a drink after that conversation was over and we still kept rushing him but he wouldnt leave. In the end sarah told me to go home and sleep and she would handle my 'uncle'. The next day sarah said he left an hour after i did, and talked so much and non stop. He even made too many compliments to her and asked her number but she refused. He told her he wanted to ask her out.
Now- he told my aunt that he went home after 5am but didnt say he was at my friend's place. He even had the knack of asking my aunty to ask me for sarah's number to which i refused too.
He's just received news that he will be transferring to another country. So a few days ago when my aunt was not with him, he called me and told me that he likes me and wishes he was 20 years younger and was sorry to leave the country because of me as he'd want to be close to me. He even asked me if i could meet him alone without her. I made it clear to him that I wasnt interested because -HELLO!- he's dating my aunty for god's sakes. He doesnt think that this is an important factor but i told him no anyways. Ever since then i have hardly answered his calls and only speak to him when i need to.
Before this whenever he did anything annoying or made jokes that were too much and if i were to complain about him embarassing me by telling other things private things about me she would firstly- tell him off, then tell me that he probably didnt mean it, and then she'd laugh about it. Even when I'm clearly upset about something. She seems to defend him.
My dilemma now is that I dont know whether I should brush this off,or should I tell her. My friends think I should just let it go because he's only flirting and hasn't physically tried anything. Plus since he's leaving the country anyway. If I told her I would be in their bad books plus make things very uncomfortable for everyone. Plus there is a chance he would say he was just joking and she would believe him thus making me look like a fool.

2007-11-12 20:07:10 · 3 answers · asked by suzi q 2 in Singles & Dating

ok.I like this guy which is tan,tall and handsome.But the plastics said they like him.But he's mine.ALL MINE!! I just really like him and I want him to like me and I wanna get rid of those no good plastics.I wanna kick them with my boots at those nasty plastic.They don't even know him cuz he came to my house not them for Eid.This guy is making my insane.Please help me....He's cute and tall and I cant stop thinking about him.I also wanna get rid of those insane creatures!!Help me!!

2007-11-12 20:07:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I get to know new ppl but get down coz of my expressions i guess etc. ... got many friends but love to have more & more . how can i improve myself to make everyone want to be a friend of me , books suggestions?

2007-11-12 20:05:29 · 4 answers · asked by Joe 4 in Friends

2007-11-12 20:04:51 · 2 answers · asked by I'm cute! 1 in Family