Family & Relationships - 12 November 2007

My girlfriend has been spending alot of time with me lately. We have been spending night after night together, and we even had our children, mine and hers, have a slumber party together, and they all loved it.

Last night she was supposed to call and we were supposed to spend the night together. Needless to say that we did, but she came over around midnight, after not answering my calls, or responding to my text messages. Finally she texted me saying she was on her way out. We spent the night together up until 3:00pm this afternoon. Around 3:30pm, she had to go take care of her financial situation before the office closed, and she was supposed to call me back and we'd get together again.

Well, it's now 2:00am and I haven't heard from her. She hasn't responded to my calls (3) or text messages (2).

HOW SHOULD I HANDLE THIS SITUATION?

2007-11-12 18:05:48 · 14 answers · asked by shelbeth 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-12 18:05:42 · 2 answers · asked by holyone11 2 in Marriage & Divorce

that she likes me
. She said to me "aww. your so cute"
.She isnt afraid to touch me she sometimes touches or rubs agiasnt my arm
. Makes frequent eye contact "the eye contact were you feel like she is waiting for something"
. Sometimes says whats up but she generaly ignores me
. Seems nervous around me I was helping her with something once and she berly spoke a word
. She has tried to partner up with me before in science

It may seem obvious but she ignores me and doesnt really make an effort to get to know me. We have know each other for about a year but where not at the friends level.
I would talk to her but i just get so nervous i cant talk to her. oh ya were 18 shes 3 months older but i dont think she knows that



I really do care about her. when i look her in the eyes they just have this glow that really makes me think she feels the same way

2007-11-12 18:04:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so the other day the guy ive stopped having feelings for came round the other day. i hadnt seen him in ages but all my feelings came back..

-the thing is i had my mp3 on and then when i saw him he had
his aswell! it just fazed me..
- then i took his mp3 and he got angry and was gonna topple over me to get it, but stopped midway.
- he chucks my stuff around
- he hugged one of our guy friends and was lookin at me at the same time, to make me jealous? because he was.hmm
- he played one of the songs i sent him on his mp3.
- he tried to scare me.
- he avoids me and trys to get away from me.
- he acts differently around me.
- he scares me by givin me glaring eyes.
- his attitude was on and off

is this him still having feelings for me or not, because i am totally clueless. i dont like him anymore, but why do i keep dreaming of him and finding it hard to sleep. as well as feelings coming back??

what do i do about this???

2007-11-12 18:03:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE 3 KIDS,WE WERE ALL VERY CLOSE.I STOOD BY MY MOTHER IN LAWS SIDE.WITHIN 3 MONTHS SHE STARTED DATING SOMEONE.SHE IS STILL WITH HIM,SHE SPENDS NO TIME WITH THE GRANDKIDS AND NONE OF US TALK TO HER MUCH.I DONT LIKE HER BF,HE IS A NICE GUY,I DREAD XMAS AND THANKSGIVING CAUSE I DONT WANT TO BE ASKED TO GO THERE.SHE STILL HAS HER OWN PLACE BUT STAYS WITH HIM PRETTY MUCH FULLTIME.IS IT WRONG FOR ME TO NOT EXCEPT HIM AND FEEL HATE TOWARDS HIM.HONESTLY I DONT THINK I WILL EVER BE READY FOR HIM.IT MAKES ME MAD SHE SPENDS NO TIME WITH HER GRANDKIDS.I FEEL BAD FOR MY HUSBAND TO IT IS HIS MOTHER.HE SAYS ITS HER LOSS,HE DOESNT SAY MUCH.

2007-11-12 17:56:44 · 4 answers · asked by Michelle C 1 in Family

My boyfreind is constantly talking about him wanting to "get in my jeans" "put me to bed" If you now what i mean. He is always talking dirty around me and he wants to have it but im not ready and all my freinds want me to do it so i can be the first out of my freinds to lose their virginity. But im not ready yet but i wanna be cool and all but i now i can get pregant get herpies hiv and all the other diases help me please.

2007-11-12 17:55:45 · 18 answers · asked by Tweety Bird 2 in Singles & Dating

So any other time I've hooked up with a guy, his penis is hard before I even touch it...this time, however, I was touching it and ...nothing. No erection whatsoever. However, he continued as if nothing was wrong and seemed confused when I stopped..
What was going on here? Was he still turned on and could it just take extra time for him to get an erection?

2007-11-12 17:55:40 · 6 answers · asked by Jamie B 2 in Singles & Dating

...for the upcoming holiday season? And how old are you? I want to know what people of certain ages want as gifts. Thanks for answering!!!

2007-11-12 17:54:46 · 8 answers · asked by Daya81 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

six years? hmm is that a weird age gap to be in a relationship with a person?

2007-11-12 17:53:56 · 36 answers · asked by imurvillain 1 in Friends

I have tried going out with friends. I have tried having my time and watching movies at home. I even went on a date or two and then I just wasn't interested anymore. It's harder to get out of bed in the morning and I can't go to sleep until late..late! My smiles are harder to fake now. I just want to care about life again. I can't find it. You might think I am feeling sorry for myself, but believe me I have tried. I am just so tired... tired of everything...I want to feel happy.. I want to care.. What should I do?

2007-11-12 17:52:12 · 18 answers · asked by Gohappy 3 in Singles & Dating

I had a gf who is now in Canada. but I have met someone new here in Oz who im happy with but my gf here thinks im gunna change coz my ex in Canada keeps calling and texting me. and i think my gf here is a bit insecure. i wander why my ex is calling me after she left me here... can u suggest why? and how can i explain to my gf, also I have a problem that my gf that im with now says im not stable in financial, cos im supporting 2 of my younger brother (its a tradition that we both know) handded my generation to help with studies) but she doesnt agree, she says how can I support her needs? Im thinking im gunna lose her cos its gunna occur a conflict between family and my girl.. pls help... any suggestions... thanks alot everyone

2007-11-12 17:52:10 · 2 answers · asked by ehdays 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been together with my boyfriend for 1 month so far. Yet I found myself not too comfortable with some of his habits. For example, he drinks 20 beers and smoke weed several times per night. I tried to tell him to cut down the amount but he said I'm not his mother and he won't change even he drinks/smokes a lot. In fact, he doesn't change much even after he drinks/smokes alot (no strange act), but I'm very worry about his potential health problems in the future. He is a very sporty and active person. He's 30 yrs old now and seems to have good health so far...except some coughing in the morning. Everytime I ask him to drink/smoke less, we end up arguing and he seems not willing to change for anyone. Can someone tell me what I can do to make him drink/smoke less?

2007-11-12 17:52:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am not sure if this is the right place to be. Im 19 and mother left us a few years ago for some man. After she left, my dad has been in a deep depression, he would be drinking every night. I always have to take care of everything, i feel like his mother. All he does is work and go to the bar or come home drunk, i have to drive him home from the bar sometimes because he would be too drunk, sometimes my bf was nice enough to drive him home when i'm busy working. i am tired of taking care of him. He won't leave the past, he was doing poorly on his job and got fired a year ago, i've been working 2 jobs ever since. I cant stand it anymore! I am thinking of leaving him alone and moving in with my bf and i know for sure he will lose the house, instead maybe kick him out of the house. Grandparents are no longer living, i need to do something! please help!

2007-11-12 17:51:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

It's totally not convenient for us to have sex in the house as our parents room is just opposite ours. Worst still, we do not have any attached bathroom. My husband needs to wash up everytime after sex & my parents don't shut their bedroom door & they are very light sleeper. It's very costly to go to hotel twice a week to have sex & stays overnight (so obvious). Desparately need advise...

2007-11-12 17:49:55 · 3 answers · asked by juzgal 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend & I are pretty stable but for some reason deep down we both know we don't feel truly happy with each other. I just don't feel that chemistry/click with him. It's sad to say but i checked his email the other day and it said he bought a trial to a to a porn site and when i found out it hurt my feelings. I dont know i guess i'm insecure when it comes to other women. So knowing he was doing that made me upset & hurt at the same time. SO i confronted him about it because he knows how i felt about that stuff and he denied it at first till i said the trial then he knew he got caught and then said why am i prying around and snooping i honestly think he said that because he knew he got caught. now were on a break because i guess hes still mad about everything i dont know if its still worth it to wait around but right now i'm okay just hurt. i don't know what to do. i honestly don't think we will make it to the future. its just i still love him. what should i do? contact him? wait?

2007-11-12 17:47:59 · 14 answers · asked by Precious OnE 2 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy and we really are into each other.....then he tells me he's married. I didn't know. WHAT TO DO?

2007-11-12 17:46:38 · 13 answers · asked by Praisechild 2 in Singles & Dating

For a while now, My boyfriend and I have been having problems with me not being able to get "wet." I don't know why or what to do or if there is anything wrong with me. Even when I "AM" in the mood and want to be wet, I'm not. Is there something wrong with my body? I don't want to have to use lubricant. HELP?

2007-11-12 17:44:27 · 4 answers · asked by sealedwithakiss430 2 in Singles & Dating

Is It, Really A Relationship Jinx, To Get Your Other Half's Name Tattooed On You?

What If The Other Half Already Tattooed Your Name On Them?

2007-11-12 17:43:06 · 1 answers · asked by Infamous 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-12 17:41:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My mom's attitude is very annoying...(if u've seen mr.monk...you'll understand)...she's obessed with cleanliness....she really make me feel like a child..for example
EXAMPLE: i wanted to spread jam onto my biscuit...she's afraid that the crumbs will be all over the floor...so she said''OMG..pls...let me do it for you'' in an angry tone...
Not only that...there are more...she would sit and watch me when i eat so i wun dirty the table...
I dun think i can life like this anymore...i've tried talking to her...saying i wun grow up like this...but all she does is continue that attitude...What should i do??

2007-11-12 17:41:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

she said she loves me..does she really love me or is she to young??

2007-11-12 17:41:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has picked up drinking every night this past year and I'm tired of it... We have sex about 1-2 times a month and have 2 kids... Anytime i mention alcohol, he doesn't want to talk about it, I hate it and for that reason don't want sex with him, how do i get him to stop?

2007-11-12 17:41:07 · 14 answers · asked by Maxy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend used to play fight kinda rough. Now he just hits me really hard he even leaves bruises. Twice he back handed me on my face and knocked me to the ground. One time he grabbed me by the throat and slapped me hard a couple of time. First he blames me then he says he's just playing. Is that him really playing or abuse???

2007-11-12 17:40:12 · 19 answers · asked by Neicole B 1 in Singles & Dating

Will a girl in college make sexual statements(sexual innuendos) towards guys they like? Also, what else is common signs she is interested?

2007-11-12 17:38:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend made me go out with him. I sorta like him.

2007-11-12 17:38:15 · 47 answers · asked by Tseung 3 in Singles & Dating

If you had a daugther or son, from age 18-26, what rules would there stll be for them?

And also, would the rules change if they helped with rent and bought their own food?

Please be specific.

2007-11-12 17:37:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am wondering if I am getting sucker punched in child support. Can you give me an idea of the above? If you can tell me how much you make, that would be good too, but I understand if you are not comfortable disclosing that.
Thanks.

2007-11-12 17:37:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and he gets no cell phone service where he is, and im super sad we can't talk :[

what can i do to pass the time fast and get my mind off him?

2007-11-12 17:36:11 · 9 answers · asked by BrookeTay 3 in Singles & Dating

He went over to his baby's mom's house the other night, after she took out a restraining order four days earlier, the day of his release. It was 11:30 and she took him to her house for over two hours and tried to give him a Tarot reading. I trust him on this one, but I don't trust her and I know she won't go away. Tonight he called me, saying that the one and a half times we've gotten to have sex isn't cutting it for him, he was drunk as hell, I told him I would call him in an hour when I got off work, but he didn't answer. I feel like my paranoia is unfair because he trusted me while he was down. But I mean, if I hadn't had sex in four years, when I got out I would be having sex with other people if my boyfriend lived three hours away, why wouldn't he? I need adivce on whether he's cheating and how I can tell, OR how to get over this irrational paranoia that he's going to. The only reason I worry so is the last man I loved cheated like he was born for that purpose

2007-11-12 17:35:48 · 13 answers · asked by Lizz421 2 in Singles & Dating

how long does it take a good person to forgive someone about something that really hurt them and took advantage of their trust?

2007-11-12 17:35:11 · 7 answers · asked by joshuclark 2 in Marriage & Divorce