My mom's attitude is very annoying...(if u've seen mr.monk...you'll understand)...she's obessed with cleanliness....she really make me feel like a child..for example
EXAMPLE: i wanted to spread jam onto my biscuit...she's afraid that the crumbs will be all over the floor...so she said''OMG..pls...let me do it for you'' in an angry tone...
Not only that...there are more...she would sit and watch me when i eat so i wun dirty the table...
I dun think i can life like this anymore...i've tried talking to her...saying i wun grow up like this...but all she does is continue that attitude...What should i do??
2007-11-12 17:41:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She may be annoying but I am sure that is one thing you're gonna miss when she's gone. Try harder talk to her. Be patient. Tell her exactly how you feel and constantly remind her that you love her. Tell her you wanted to grow and be independent and it is ok to mess up things sometimes. Show her that you can do things for yourself and if ever you mess up, you will be responsible enough to clean every thing. It may take awhile for her to see that but be patient. She will get understand and tired eventuallly.
2007-11-12 18:43:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just how mothers are. They aren't ready to let you go and to accept the fact that your growing up. I think that the solution is that you talk to her and tell her how you feel and that you want to be treated like the adult that you are. Sounds corny, I know but trust me, it gets the message across. Have a list ready of things that need work in your relationship and be confident.
2007-11-12 17:53:35 · answer #2 · answered by James 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well 1) You will always be your mothers baby. 2) You are still very young (I know you're almost old enough to drive - but the difference between 15 and 18 is huge)
I suggest that getting a job and keeping it would be your best step toward getting her to treat you like an adult.
2007-11-12 17:47:48 · answer #3 · answered by ☆andi☆ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's got an obsessive-compulsive disorder.
Are her hands raw from washing them too often?
If so, she needs professional psychiatric help to take the pressure off.
Where is your dad in all of this? Have you spoken to him about it? Are her parents (your grandparents) still in the picture? Somehow, there must be an intervention.
2007-11-12 18:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother sounds obsessive compulsive.
It really must be annoying for you.
Does anyone else live with you? Do they feel the way you do? If so, you need to band together and have a talk with her. Don't be mean or anything, just try to get her to listen to your frustrations but also listen to her frustrations.
2007-11-12 17:47:38 · answer #5 · answered by Mikey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't change her, so you may just have to fake it until you are 18. Tell your mom that you understand she is very sensitive about mess in the kitchen, and you realize that she is providing you with food, so you will be extra careful not to drop any crumbs.
2007-11-12 18:07:49 · answer #6 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her that you are perfectly capable of making yourself a jam sandwich. If it doesn't work, talk to your dad about this. Maybe he can talk to her instead.
2007-11-12 17:52:31 · answer #7 · answered by terliuke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a damn plate, stop drinking right out of the milk carton and other things along those lines.
2007-11-12 17:45:46 · answer #8 · answered by zanthus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clean up after yourself so she doesn't have to, and she will likely back off
2007-11-12 17:48:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
your mom is a perfectionist you just need to acept her the way she is.
2007-11-12 18:20:18 · answer #10 · answered by doctor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋