PROBLEMS, Advices needed everyone?

Question

I had a gf who is now in Canada. but I have met someone new here in Oz who im happy with but my gf here thinks im gunna change coz my ex in Canada keeps calling and texting me. and i think my gf here is a bit insecure. i wander why my ex is calling me after she left me here... can u suggest why? and how can i explain to my gf, also I have a problem that my gf that im with now says im not stable in financial, cos im supporting 2 of my younger brother (its a tradition that we both know) handded my generation to help with studies) but she doesnt agree, she says how can I support her needs? Im thinking im gunna lose her cos its gunna occur a conflict between family and my girl.. pls help... any suggestions... thanks alot everyone

Answer 1

Your g/f in Canada is still in love with you that is why she is trying to keep contact. Your present g/f appears to be more in love with your money than yourself. She also appear to be controlling type.She is trying to take decisions on issues on which you are to decide yourself. I wonder ,how you are able to tolerate it. In India , we carry out family traditions at all cost.You are educating your younger brothers and that is really a divine thing you are doing. Keep up the tradition, g/fs come and go.

Answer 2

OK
right

your ex might be contacting you because maybe she likes you still.................

other wise maybe she doesn't want to lose your friendship

you gf right now is very selfish because she should understand that Ur life doesn't revolve around her

YOU HAVE A LIFE TOO
i can tel you love her dearly but is it really worth it being with someone who cares SO much about your financial status

plus if she really LOVED you then she would trust you

and know that you love her

GOOD LUCK

you will make it through the other end