So any other time I've hooked up with a guy, his penis is hard before I even touch it...this time, however, I was touching it and ...nothing. No erection whatsoever. However, he continued as if nothing was wrong and seemed confused when I stopped..
What was going on here? Was he still turned on and could it just take extra time for him to get an erection?
2007-11-12 17:55:40 · 6 answers · asked by Jamie B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmm, by the way, REALLY didn't ask the question so I could be talked down to but thanks for that, Janica. I wouldn't consider myself promiscuous but I'm far from a virgin. This is just new territory and I'm looking for some honest answers, here.
2007-11-12 18:11:57 · update #1
If you have to ask, you're too young to be doing it.
2007-11-12 17:59:04 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Stop seeing now. No, don't close your eyes; turn them off. Can you do it? Thought not. It's called an involuntary muscle. Same as getting an erection. Some guys can control it a little better than others. Cut the poor man some slack, that thing has a mind of it's own.
2007-11-13 02:01:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its possible that maybe he could be on any narcotic or medication some times cocaine does that or maybe he wasn't exited. Remember that not all men get exited by just a female touch sometimes there has to be more than just a touch to get an erection, i hope it help. Good luck
2007-11-13 02:03:05 · answer #3 · answered by Dan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may just take him longer to get an erection, or maybe he needs a certain amount of foreplay to get turned on.
If he was nervous or even stressed, that can also cause difficulty in getting and maintaining an erection.
2007-11-13 02:02:38 · answer #4 · answered by Nonny0928 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if he was on meth, speed, crystal, "ex", or what ever you call it in your area. if he done a large amount, this would make him very horney, but limp. he would need extra fore play, also possible kinky stuff to get it hard. this is due to the dopamine's in he brain stuck on stupid from the drug.
2007-11-13 02:10:06 · answer #5 · answered by Barbara L 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you could have helped him out to attain one. It really depends...sometimes it just takes time.
2007-11-13 02:02:12 · answer #6 · answered by Mav17 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋