Family & Relationships - 12 November 2007

I am in this relationship with my b'friend who I do love and would do anything for. He has encouraged me to have sex with his 3 friends who he has known for a while. They sit and talk about what they want to do to me and some of it scares me pretty much but I'll do anything to please my b'friend...you may think thats wrong?

These guys think its far bettter to do all this without condoms but what to have sex with me after each other. I feel messy how can they like this? and why do they refuse to use protection??

Its not so easy for me to end this cos my b'friend always talks me into it especially cos his mates are here every night and want sex my b'friend lets it happen and seems they all get off on watching

2007-11-12 20:03:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's 21 :)
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2007-11-12 20:02:02 · 5 answers · asked by Brutal Honesty! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-12 20:00:34 · 11 answers · asked by jealousy 3 in Family

My gf and I are 21 and have been dating 1 yr+ and have gotten serious: planning engagement. Lately, she will invite me over and watch tv, immerse herself on her computer, or do hw and kind of ignore me until we go to bed. In addition, shes in a sorority, and I feel like her sorority, work, and family all come before i do with anything and i seem to be there for when she wants me there. I have to,key word I, plan everything we do around those things..if we have plans and something comes up she will drop our plans. Plus sex doesn't just 'happen', I have to tell her I want sex so I feel like I'm begging. I've tried talking to her and she says everything is fine and then backfires questions on me making me feel like **** for asking. I just want her to respect my feelings and I feel like she doesnt care. I do everything for her and love her to death. I thought maybe I should give her space since we are together 24/7, but she said that she has plenty. Advice Please?

2007-11-12 19:54:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My roommate and I were just given the opportunity to receive a new table for our living room. When I initially informed him, he told me "I like our old table," obviously indicating he wanted to keep that one. I convinced him however to at least look at the other one in place, and we could compare which looked better.

Basically now, he's giving me an "No, it's cool. We can get rid of the old one. I know you're more into the new one than I am into the old one."

I personally would like to find a middle road somehow. Any ideas??

2007-11-12 19:52:15 · 6 answers · asked by PekinRezen 3 in Friends

Is anyone (girls) turned on by the trembling/shaking that your man has during moments of exsitement (before/during/after - anytime:))? It makes me go crazy when my man shakes! :)

Oh, and is he bothered by it? I know there are those who feel embarassed....it would be such a pitty to hide it ;)

Men can say too....if it happens to them and how their gf reacts :)

2007-11-12 19:49:25 · 7 answers · asked by it's_just_me 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-12 19:42:16 · 37 answers · asked by ILOVEHIM 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Teenagers need not reply. I was with this guy for 2 years, he moved to illinois and it got rocky. he ended up marrying another girl. Now he has contacted me that he is leaving his wife and coming home to california and that he still loves me. what should i do? I still love him

2007-11-12 19:38:54 · 24 answers · asked by chevy_lovin_girl18 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-12 19:38:27 · 14 answers · asked by ILOVEHIM 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a pretty messed up situation at the moment I do say myself. I have been with my bfriend for 6 months and he has encouraged a sexual relationship to develop between me and his 3 friends. I really like his friends and admit they are all pretty hot so it makes it easier for me to do what my b'friend wants me to do...i.e have sex with them (especially as I do crave attention from my childhood and when they are with me I am always been touched or made love to so it makes me feel special).

I asked one of them last night why they are with me when they are perfectly capable of getting a pretty woman of their own and he said he wanted me cos I look like sex?? How can a girl look like sex? I am not mega tall, probably average height blond hair and green eyes, how is this sex???

2007-11-12 19:37:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 13 and have a size 36D and all my friends are saying you have had them done when I haven't. I have to say they are pretty big is this normal I have tried to hold them in but this did not work what should I do?

2007-11-12 19:32:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have never really talked to people much in my life because I was always very shy. I was an only child and I didn't have much of a chance to communicate with other people. I can't seem to carry on a conversation very well and I know it goes back to my lack of interaction with others growing up. I would appreciate any advice on how to improve my overall social skills/communication skills. Thanks.

2007-11-12 19:31:49 · 12 answers · asked by mao ying 3 in Singles & Dating

my son father sence birth wants nothing to do with him. my son is now ten and wants me to find a boyfriend so he has that male figure in his life being that i never had a realionship more then two weeks i am scared. it wasnt my fault about not having soemone in my life i just excepted the cards life gave me. what do i tell him because i dont want to run out and get just any one but i also feel if it is ment to be i will find that special some one. right

2007-11-12 19:30:36 · 3 answers · asked by onix557 2 in Family

2007-11-12 19:29:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex boyfriend broke up with me over 3 years ago when I moved away from college and he couldnt handle the long distance. He is also seven years older and said "we're both living seperate lives." Ever since he broke it off, he hasnt been able to let go. He continuously calls me, says he misses me etc. I recently found out he has a new girl and was shocked, and kinda hurt. Why does he still tell me he loves me and misses me if he has a new girlfriend? GUYS: what do you think?

2007-11-12 19:29:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend isn't on good terms. Majority my fault. I need to find a way to have a wonderful bday for him. He never really celebrates it, he's never really been in a real relationship and i need to show some appreciation cause i love him and i have been acting non chalant towards him and our relationship. Thing is it's on a friday nov.30, He works driving trucks and i'm riding with him. Hours are 6am-7pm. what creative day can we come up with fellas and creative ladies?

2007-11-12 19:25:24 · 9 answers · asked by Dark Angel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How can I find out how he truely feels?
My ex boyfriend broke up with me over three years ago when I moved away for college...He is seven years older and was starting his career and said the long distance was hard etc. We stayed friends (w/benefits but only saw him every 4 months or so) for about 2 yearss until I found out he had another girl and told him I could just be friends. Last week I was visitng and we got together and he told me he was single. It had been about 4 months since I told him we could just be friends. He tried to get me to stay over..but I just kissed him and left. This weekend he was in my town (not visiting me but a friend) and we got together for an hour in the day and it was kinda awkard. I still like him a lot and cant figure out how he feels..why does he still contact me? do you think he still has feelings for me? guys..is it hard for you to open up? he knows now that i wont sleep with him but is still keepin in touch..?!?

2007-11-12 19:25:15 · 8 answers · asked by Janie 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy is a shady mean jerk, just a total a hole, is it normal to feel some kind of weird attraction towards him even though you know he is very toxic and bad

2007-11-12 19:24:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-12 19:23:54 · 3 answers · asked by Dan W 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was rapped one year, four months, and twelve days ago by my ex-boyfriend. Two weeks later I moved out, while he was at work with the help of my best friend. She is the only person who knows I was rapped. 3wks l8r I failed the pregnancy test. I had an abortion. I am less ashamed of the abortion than the rape. I needed help. My new roommate was an old friend and so I explained my situation. He asked one Q;R U sure? He went w/me to the clinic, drove me home, and held me when I cried. I fell hard for him in a short time. We've been dating 4 three months. We love each other. How can I tell him what I should have told him in the beginning? I am afraid of what he will do. He knew my X. I don't want to lose him. I don't think I will, but he knows something happened. I just can't bring myself to say it. I feel like I've been lying to him. I love him more than air. How do I explain why I didn't tell him in the beginning and why it has taken me so long now?

2007-11-12 19:23:20 · 8 answers · asked by Maynerd 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well to start off with,i don't live in an expensive place.Its a small crappy unit and im too young to have a proper job and my dad has a low paying job.We are about 2 months behind in rent,my landlord had been really nice to us saying he'd give us a couple of months to pay.We've been living very basic and we don't ever buy anything useless.I even say to my dad 'oh,im not hungry' when its dinner time in order to conserve food.I haven't always been this poor,its only ever since my mother abandoned us.Please help i need a lot of advice !
I dont know what to do and neither does my dad.

2007-11-12 19:18:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

all ny friends had had sex with their bf but i feel left out sometimes. How does it feel? What's it like? Is it fun or dumb? Please answer!

2007-11-12 19:17:44 · 18 answers · asked by princess_kitkat96 1 in Singles & Dating

Can any one can tell whether an Non Resident Indian can marry a Indian living girl without meeting each other with mutual consent of girl & boy and their famiies. I want to marry a girl living in India but I am working in abroad. I want to finish my marriage from abroad itself so that i will have a legal marriage certificate which is mandatory to bring wife to stay in the foreign country. Is our Indian consitution permits this to marry with mutual consent but without physical presence

2007-11-12 19:17:28 · 4 answers · asked by sweetguy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-12 19:16:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my mom has been having an emotional affair with a guy she met at church a long time ago. we've "caught her slippen" a few times before and she has since reassured us that there is NOTHING going on between them anymore. tonight, i find out that she's been lying to us this whole time! what i find most disgusting about this situation is that she talks to this guy on a daily basis and sees him behind our backs and STILL have the nerve to come home to us. my dad has obviously had enough of this drama and does not want to deal with it anymore. but it really bothers me and i feel that he doesn't deserve to be treated this way. i feel like confronting my mom about it for the millionth time and telling her to once and for all leave the family and never come back. am i wrong for wanting to do that? please advise......

2007-11-12 19:07:24 · 6 answers · asked by sassygirl 2 in Family

My husband is usually very sweet, but when his kids are around, he seems really stressed and takes it out on me by yelling and treating me like I don't matter. I have tried talking to him, but he doesn't see what he is doing. It is very stressful having the kids around because they don't disrespect him or me or our home. I have told my husband that taking out his stress on me is not helping. Any suggestions?

2007-11-12 19:07:11 · 1 answers · asked by socalgal 2 in Family

i just recently realized this but i think i might hate my brother, i sat down the other day and tired to list 10 things i like about him but i couldnt even come up with one. For as long as i could remember i never really liked anything about him and he has never stood up for me or anything like that, what should i do should i feel bad about all this

2007-11-12 19:04:10 · 13 answers · asked by Checks and Goats 5 in Family

I am 35 years old. No children. Before my husband and I started going to counseling, he would constantly put our marriage on the back burner... always pushing me away, working like crazy and basically ignoring our marriage. He has gotten much better over the course of our counseling. He is more communicative than ever and more sensitive, but we still are not physically involved. I know I am partly to blame for this because I still harbor some ill feelings toward him and he senses this. The fact that we are much better than we were 6 years ago is great, but the fact that I am getting older and still we have no intimacy let alone children, makes me angry and very resentful. Our counselor says that physical intimacy is the last thing to try and build once the emotional intimacy has improved. I believe this to be true, but lately I am not sure if I want to be with him the rest of my life. When does a person know for sure when the cutt-off point in a marriage is?

2007-11-12 19:01:15 · 10 answers · asked by lisa s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 23yrs old and have a younger sister that's a few years younger. We were both raised by our grandparents mostly, up until I was about 10yrs old, is when our mother lived with us as well. She then moved out with her boyfriend, we would see her on weekends (usually) but she also worked full time and had a life of her own. So most of the child raising was done by our grandmother. Neither my sister or I know our dads(yes we have different ones), nor have they ever been apart of our lives. Now that my sister and I are older, and have both left the nest, I find that we are both quite lost in the world. My mother is not financially stable, and no longer is with her long time bf, she hasn't work for years(those is now), and is now back living with her parents(my grandparents), to get back on her feet. She continues to date men however, which i do not enjoy that fact, but it's her life. (it seems her priorities are messed up sometimes) Anyway, my grandparents are now finally enjoying their

2007-11-12 18:48:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I sent my bf a text last night saying wanna come over thurs this week (as he visits once a week to my house with folks) he replied with I may *** thurs fri and stay sat and sun but ill let ya know, have a good sleep sweetie.
We do have a wedding together sat so do u think this is fine or as though he is leaving it open for something better to come up or im being really silly??

2007-11-12 18:47:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating