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I dress up when i go out, but in the home, dress casually and every day wash my hair and style it, but the best thing is being comfortable with each other and that's what a partnership is about,

2007-11-12 20:00:46 · answer #1 · answered by Blue eyes 6 · 1 1

I would think it depend's on which country you grew up in your social status , area you grew up , friend group and peer pressure of the dress status during dating before marriage.

If you grew up where I did the only dressing up we did was for the beach , we spent every weekend / holiday at the beach swimming , sunbaking , playing ball games and at night before the fire restriction's were brought into beach side suburbs and we werent allowed them anymore so had to resort to bbq's in our back yard's , we'd sit round huge bonfires in groups laughing and telling stories , no alcahol or drugs were needed for the fun back in the 80's not for our large group anyway that hit in the early 90's and explains why the tradition's passed on from our grand-parents and parents to us died.

Thing's didnt change after we married we still went to the beach and still bbq'ed at home with friend's.

As to the husband's losing interest or having less interest give me a break it take's 2 to make a marriage work not 1 and if the husband does lose interest , then he didnt have the interest amount needed to sustain an adult relationship and should never have married.

your question (theory) is based on internet chat site's and yahoo question's and answer's from spouse's who have actually lost interest , but there's a whole lot of people out in the real world who havent lost interest so generalizing on line being nothing new should not be done in my personal opinion.

So my answer is

FALSE.

2007-11-13 04:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 1 0

It is a half truth. When 2 people are dating, they are always trying to put their best foot forward and impress the other person. Once they get married, they are more comfortable with themselves and let their true selves show through.

This is a 2 way street and a man still has to make an effort to take her out and give her a reason to dress up. A woman might not feel the need to dress up anymore because they dont have to impress any and every man out there anymore.

I hope this makes sense.

2007-11-13 03:43:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

No way.

Just because your married doesn't mean you shouldn't make an effort and let yourself go.

I don't think you should dress in a way that will make the opposite sex pay you too much attention but you want your partner to look at you and go...heh I'm with her and to be proud to be with each other.

I lot of the time it's the guys who let themselves go not just women.

Have regular date nights keep it interesting and when she makes an effort tell her that shes hot..

Have Fun

2007-11-13 05:31:39 · answer #4 · answered by Thula1979 1 · 1 0

We dressed up because we were going out. When you are married you do not go out anymore like you used to. Also you are with each other everyday and see each other in the morning. When you were dating you only saw her after she had showered and dressed up to go out. We cannot always be dressed up. We have to clean and take care of the kids and some of us work also.

2007-11-13 03:38:59 · answer #5 · answered by kim h 7 · 1 0

nope.... no way my friend! Even though my husband and I are no longer together, i always wanted to look my best for him! I never wanted for him to come home from work even on my days off and see a frumpy looking wife waiting for him! Besides, I knew that if I felt like I looked good and saw me as looking good then the chances were always better to "meet up" later if ya catch my drift!!! Even though he always said I was beautiful no matter what, I felt the need to try to look like the girl that first turned his head.............. hope that helps clarify!

2007-11-13 06:18:09 · answer #6 · answered by happygirl 1 · 1 0

Wrong...Women loved to dress up and always look beautiful in the eyes of husband..But after marriage,The husband forbid!!Sounds selfish to me....But I still dress up nicely,When he wasn't around and less sexy when with him...It's the way he wants me too!But who cares!I'm not the only wife dress up tight.We have the right to dress up the way we want it.I don't forbid him,And I want him to be as fair as Iam to him.We fight on this sometimes.He will always ask me to change my dress,especially when we go for a dinner with his friends.And in the end...Will ended up fighting and I'd be pouting...It's such an unfair!...don't blame wife....

2007-11-13 04:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Nope. I love to dress in ways that please my hubby. I like seeing his admiration. I am just as comfortable in sweats and t-shirts, too. It's more of an attitude. If someone is getting "less attachment" to their spouse, likely because they are not communicating well. Good communication leads to meeting each other's needs better, both emotional and physical.

2007-11-13 03:46:47 · answer #8 · answered by Linni 6 · 0 1

Not true! Marriage is what you make it. My wife loves to get dressed up and go somewhere and I love every minute I spend with her. We've had our arguments, but the bottom line is we respect each other and strive to find common ground on every facet of our lives. It helps, too, to play jokes on each other. It keeps things lively.

2007-11-13 03:38:15 · answer #9 · answered by goaltender 4 · 0 1

Come on; it works both ways. All I know is there are times we dress up and times we are comfortable relaxing in our pjs together.

2007-11-13 10:00:44 · answer #10 · answered by pussycat 5 · 1 0

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