Family & Relationships - 12 November 2007

what do you think is too many people to sleep with?

2007-11-12 18:47:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-12 18:46:54 · 10 answers · asked by jealousy 3 in Family

Well this is how it started i lived with my mum and dad in a nice house.My mother divorced my dad years ago and then she abandoned me and my dad.My dad didn't have any savings and she sold my dad's house years ago.We don't have a car and i get teased a lot at school and i feel like im worth nothing because we own nothing.My dad has been very depressed and its hard for him to get a better job.He is working somewhere where it pays him crap money and it only just pays for food and rent after that we are just about broke.I have no idea where my mum is and my older brother ranaway a while back.He said he'd comeback oneday but he still hasn't.Whoa i didn't realise how much i was typing...please somebody ! i need advice,i mean we arent that poor but we have very little..... i feel bad and i hope i don't sound like im complaining,but i am greatful for what i have,but that doesn't make my life easier....i also feel like i have no future.

2007-11-12 18:45:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

that she likes me
. She said to me "aww. your so cute"
.She isnt afraid to touch me she sometimes touches or rubs agiasnt my arm
. Makes frequent eye contact "the eye contact were you feel like she is waiting for something"
. Sometimes says whats up but she generaly ignores me
. Seems nervous around me I was helping her with something once and she berly spoke a word
. She has tried to partner up with me before in science

It may seem obvious but she ignores me and doesnt really make an effort to get to know me. We have know each other for about a year but where not at the friends level.
I would talk to her but i just get so nervous i cant talk to her. oh ya were 18 shes 3 months older but i dont think she knows that



I really do care about her. when i look her in the eyes they just have this glow that really makes me think she feels the same way

2007-11-12 18:44:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My bf (7 months) adores me I know he does.
He has 1 of his mates moving into his house share who has a gf who I find attractive.
My man is always affectionate towards me in front of everyone including her. 1 night we were all partying hard doingsubstances & it looked from where I was standing he was flirting with her & talking 2 her heaps alone I went off about it, he had no clue what I was talking about & says where has this come from & she isnt his type anyway, he would never do that to a mate & never 2 me.
He has told me she is too skinny & looks like a ferrit.
Ever since this new guy is moving in my man wants to move out with me asap cos he has 2 move alot of stuff around with new guy coming in & cant be bothered.
He also had to fix last week the girls car im jealous of & he didnt go cos couldnt be bothered.
We had an argument about it the other night and he said when will you get over it & im not interested in her, he dreads seeing her car there when he gets home from work.

2007-11-12 18:44:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well... there's this guy Kyle, that i REALLY like... i mean i dont think i love him... but i could see that happening if we ever went out. and hes a really sweet guy. and i think i know a lot about him... cause we're in an outpatient program together... and we basically spill our hearts out in those groups... and we see each other everyday monday-friday. and we hung out last friday. and flirted the whole time... and my friends think he might like me back... but i'm really shy.. so i dont know how to tell him... exspecially because he still has feelings for one of his exes... but then again... so do i?

2007-11-12 18:44:26 · 3 answers · asked by Lolli 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-12 18:43:55 · 7 answers · asked by darcyaf1 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has been down lately and i am the problem, I know. We love each other and i feel like i should comfort him, not be angry at him. But how? How does he want me to act with him? Leave him alone, tell him it will be okay.......?

2007-11-12 18:41:22 · 9 answers · asked by OverTheRainbow 4 in Singles & Dating

I asked my Mum if i could move school because i didn't really like it that much , and she knew that the school was getting quite bad and she knew that lots of people where leaving from it. I had a calm and relaxed conversation with her, ( i had been dreading it in case she said no) and she said that she ould look at some school, and she was been serious, Then the next week i asked her if she was going to look at some school online today and i also gave her a small list of some schools, and she said no, she said "I dont want you to move you have a lovley school and it would be a shame to waste it" then asked "you said you would at least look at somme" and she denies the whole thing. She always breaks promises that why when i asked her i sort of reminded her what she said and she agread for the day but then she acted like nothing has happened

2007-11-12 18:39:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I just met a great, pretty and handsome boy on interracialfriends.com. He is so kind and love me .. But my parents reject this because he is black and i am white girl. What should i do? I am 20 years old, he is 25. Thank you for any answers.

2007-11-12 18:37:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Met a guy my friends knew while out with them. He flirted, said he wanted to hang out, he got my number, and I went to shake his hand instead of shake it he kissed it while looking right into my eyes. I went back to my group and ran into him later and asked if I could walk out with him and he escorted me out on his arm. I got a text from him 3 days later; more flirting. I called a couple days later and he didn't text me again for 3 days. He asked me to go to a movie. We went and he was really sweet. Hand on the knee and kissing the top of my head through the movie. Went for a drink afterward where he pulled the bar stool closer to him saying that I was too far away. He continued to give me little pecks on the lips and cheek. We wound up making out at his place and I put down my boundaries of how far he could go; he respected them with no fuss. He wound up masturbating in front of me and afterward was still affectionate. I left and haven't heard from him since. What's the deal?

2007-11-12 18:31:57 · 14 answers · asked by NDimes 2 in Singles & Dating

i am the eldest daughter of my mom but can be considered as a blackship because i'm fighting over them all and not listening to their advise. Sometimes i realized that its not right considering that i should be the model to my siblings, but i felt shy to show to them that i care about them and love them. I always say bad words just to get what i want. I can't understand my attitude, what's the problem with me?

2007-11-12 18:31:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I live in AZ and i have been bullied
my entire life but now it is starting to get
dangerous. this bully said he wanted to fight
me so i fought him and i got beat up but ive
always been told to stand up to your bullies.
But now every time he sees me he tries to pick
another fight with me and i try to be the bigger
person and walk away but he always folows me
and hits me from behind a stuff. And the other
night it happened again but he brought multiple
people and they all took turns beating me up.
I'm afraid to report him and his friends because
it will anger them more and im tired of getting
beat up. What should i do?

2007-11-12 18:30:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

may be my last note wasnt clear so i will try again. my dad just died in march, and i ended up with my mom she is bypolar and does things to upset me. she doesnt relize how she has put me in a money mess. she acts like a child. i dont know if she is worse now because my dad died but i need ways to cope with the stress she has caused me and my child so if you have any ways to make my life less stress please hit me back

2007-11-12 18:29:26 · 3 answers · asked by onix557 2 in Family

does sex on a first date mess up any chance for a relationship. if your both in the mood and you wind up sleeping together, would you move on b/c you got what you wanted or does it depend on how interested you are in the girl?

2007-11-12 18:29:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been married for 7 years with 2 great kids, 1 from a previous marriage and the other w/ my husband. We dont have much but enough to get by and keep the kids in sports. But . . . I aways feet something is missing. We never really spend any quality time together, we are both workers and taking care of kids. We dont usually talk about us, just whats going on in our own little worlds. I want that happy excited feeling again. I guess I just don't know how to get close again.

2007-11-12 18:26:49 · 10 answers · asked by there4u 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He claims it's painful if he doesn't?

2007-11-12 18:23:34 · 34 answers · asked by cowabunga 3 in Marriage & Divorce

cause i learned this song on piano that a girl likes (1000 miles, Vanessa Carlton), and im wondering if more girls would value pure talent or hard work on it?, i learned it in 2 days basically so im just gonna act like im struggling on it for a week if hard work is valued more

2007-11-12 18:23:05 · 5 answers · asked by clueless 2 in Singles & Dating

wondering cause i really like this girl, but im not sure if i have any chances being of Asian decent, she seems to like me and this is just a way to kinda gauge myself to see if its possible that she really likes me or is just playing with my head

2007-11-12 18:20:30 · 13 answers · asked by clueless 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't know what to tell my boyfriend... I'm 21 and he is a little bit older and we have been seeing eachother for about a month now and things are starting to heat up. I didn't really want to tell him I was raped (once people know everything chances) when I was 16 but I don't want him to think i got herpes from sleeping around either. What should I tell him?

2007-11-12 18:19:25 · 15 answers · asked by barngoddesstiffany 1 in Singles & Dating

I tryed convincing her that it is wrong and that she is setting up her self and investing up her time to only get hurt and used in the end , but she has been seeing him for two years now and will not end it.

2007-11-12 18:17:42 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Recently was in year relationship. We broke up a year ago but continued to talk daily, hang out, and spend nights over eachothers houses. Also slept together. In the beginning of this she asked to move in w/ me (btw I was the dumpee). I had said no eventhough wanted to say yes b/c was unsure why was being asked, But w/n this year we have gotten along great. I asked for her to move in and she said no did I ever give you that impression. She would say she missed me on various nights I did not stay over. We would hold hands, cuddle, etc. I just got many mixed signals. I don't kow if she was waiting for me to open up but she said once she was not in love w/ me but still loved me so made me hold back bc didn't want to push the good that was going on. \There were more mixed signals w/ texts all day to wanting me to stay over when I tried to stay strong eventhough my heart melted. Now she claims to have someone but don't know if it's a lie or truth, i still get calls.Do I say how i feel or

2007-11-12 18:17:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it ruins a healthy marriage. temptations for my husband have almost ruined our marriage. sex should be a personal, intimate thing between two people behind closed doors. when did it become so public? i hate how raunchy this world has become. it sickens me and its pathetic. i wish we could all ban together and make porn illegal. get a sex life in real life not cyber life, tv life, anywhere else. it really ruins a woman, such as myself currently im trying to get over this and tell myself that my husband loves me and finds me attractive but its hard when even a freaking girls gone wild commercial shows so much nudity you dont even have to buy it. am i the only one sickened by this sin?

2007-11-12 18:16:59 · 20 answers · asked by <3 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and i broke up just recently. but we still have communication. he said, he dont want me anymore and so is her mother. But he told me we will still be friends.. actually it also happen just last year. almost the same situation. But we still end up together. i wanna know, if you guys are in the situation, do you think we can still resolve this? by the way, before we dont have a communication. but now we do have a communication. And being friends means what? he's over you? or he still loves you but only needs time? im so confused pls i need your help thanks!

2007-11-12 18:15:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am only 10, but I have already started secondry school (in west sussex, secondry school starts at year 6) and I really want to ask someone out, but I have no idea how to, please help me?

2007-11-12 18:15:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when they know men and women are so different? when they know that they will NEVER change a person?

2007-11-12 18:13:17 · 13 answers · asked by Top Contributor 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-12 18:11:14 · 6 answers · asked by sanjar m 1 in Family

Well i have an ex that i love very much and i really do care about him, but he makes it seem like i don't care about him. He cuts himself and everrything. When he gets mad at me i ask why, all he say is cuz there's stupid and he never finishes.... I dont know what to do.. i reall dont want him to die thats my one and only love and i'd go crazy if i lost him weither we are together or not.

2007-11-12 18:09:39 · 12 answers · asked by Chewy 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that most women don't approach guys and they wait for guys to approach them instead? (to meet them)

2007-11-12 18:08:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please dont say get off and pull her and ****, genarly wat do u do, like wen ur m8s come round u play xbox wat do u with a girl?

thx

2007-11-12 18:07:46 · 3 answers · asked by Deception 3 in Singles & Dating