does sex on a first date mess up any chance for a relationship. if your both in the mood and you wind up sleeping together, would you move on b/c you got what you wanted or does it depend on how interested you are in the girl?
2007-11-12 18:29:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that all depends If I was looking for a relationship then NO it would not change what I think or feel. However, if I was not looking for a commitment than I would say pretty much he would like for it to continue but not for long term.
Just because a girl has sex on the first date does not make me feel she is anything but human like everyone else.
2007-11-12 18:33:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if a guy is willing to sleep with you on the first date then that means hes not ready for the serious relationship and is just trying to add another girl to his list. Unless you have known each other for a long time.
2007-11-13 02:34:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how things pan out.
If all I wanted was sex, then yeah - it'd be wham, bam, thank you ma'am.
However, my current relationship began with she and I meeting at a friend's birthday party. We both got blind drunk - found each other and liked each other and fell into bed together!
We arranged a meeting a week later (dinner) - to check out and make sure it wasn't just beer goggles! We are so in love with each other (now 5 weeks down the track) and it is so righteous!
2007-11-13 02:33:51 · answer #3 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats a good question... it really depends... there are some some guys get out with a girl coz they're just heading for something... but there's also some guys taking it seriously... i mean guys which is in to relationship after the sex...
2007-11-13 02:38:13 · answer #4 · answered by Big_O_10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've had sex with girls on the first date and have had sex with random girls at random parties. sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't. i would say be mature about it and ask the guy if he thinks it might work out. if he is willing to try and you are willing to try then go for it! if you want to move on, move on. if you don't and he does, well then i'm sorry, but that's the way life is sometimes. good luck!
2007-11-13 02:35:01 · answer #5 · answered by icabod crane 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whow.... now thats something that doesn't occur everyday.. ( at least i think so ) anyway... if your really that interested, go away first.. maybe its just infatuation... and if the feelings grow stronger... then i guess thats love... and if he feels the same way.. he'll find a way to look for you... then thats the time that both of you talk.. and if you feel comfortable to each other, then relationship comes in... k?.. happy luck to both of you..
2007-11-13 02:36:52 · answer #6 · answered by condo_m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex on the first date is always welcome, but for me I don't know if I'd be interested in a long-term relationship with her if she's that easy. Maybe short term.
2007-11-13 02:33:35 · answer #7 · answered by Psychotic Clown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, seems way too sketchy to have sex with on the first date. IMO, you should wait a bit if you do do it.
2007-11-13 02:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough question. in all honesty depends on the girl.
2007-11-13 02:33:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
50 50..... more than likely it messed it up but he might come back for more
2007-11-13 02:33:47 · answer #10 · answered by Tim s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋