Should i report a bully?

Question

I live in AZ and i have been bullied
my entire life but now it is starting to get
dangerous. this bully said he wanted to fight
me so i fought him and i got beat up but ive
always been told to stand up to your bullies.
But now every time he sees me he tries to pick
another fight with me and i try to be the bigger
person and walk away but he always folows me
and hits me from behind a stuff. And the other
night it happened again but he brought multiple
people and they all took turns beating me up.
I'm afraid to report him and his friends because
it will anger them more and im tired of getting
beat up. What should i do?

Answer 1

Please report him. I'm so sorry this is going on. That's absolutely horrible. You're a very brave, admirable person. Tell someone you trust first, and then go to a principal or teacher you can trust. Explain the whole situation, and also tell them you're afraid to report them because all too often, nothing is done, but the bullies become enraged and the situation gets out of control. In today's culture, teachers and school administrators are taking these sort of things much more seriously. I have full faith that you'll be heard and taken care of. I wish you only the best.

Answer 2

Speaking from experience, I say that you should report him to whomever will listen to you, because even though he brought reinforecements with him to handle his affairs it might not stop there. it could lead to more serious matters life weapons and other dangerous matters. Have you told your parents about this or anyone that you think will listen? fighting this person will only make matters worse, but you do what you have to do to defend yourself. Try going to your local police authority and explain what ahs been going on. if they don't listen, go higher than that. it seems to me that this isn't gonna end unless you put a stop to it and let them know that you're not going to be a victim anymore and you have feelings as well as they do. I was picked from grade school all the way through my senior year of high school so I know what you're going through. Hope this helps and all the best to you. Those bullies need some serious help because they hurt you, themselves, or someone else!

Answer 3

you NEED to report this. if you don't, the situation will only get worse, and it looks like it is already. you're already in a dangerous position, because now they are ganging up on you. you don't know what they are capable of. one minute they are all ganging up on you, and before they know it, you might be gone. and once they realize what they've done, it'll be too late. please, do something about this. your life may/is in danger. don't worry about upsetting them. once you have told a principle, or some trustworthy adult, the situation should be taken care of, or at least they will be put in their place. then people will have a closer eye on those kids, so if it happens again, they can be either sent to jail, or juvenil school. DO SOMETHING. REPORT THIS. do not fight back, or get fighting lessons. it can all become a bloody mess. just REPORT IT. good luck, i hope they get in big trouble for this. it'll come back to them don't worry, it'll eventually catch up to them. be careful <3

Answer 4

Speaking from experience you have to do something to keep him and other ones who will follow him from constantly picking on you!!! They will think they can do it too!
No, because it could make it worse! Look bullying is a very serious mean cruel thing! And unless you and your parents or just you are prepared to carry it the entire length and press charges, I'd seriously take some fighting lessons and KICK HIS A S S!!!! You need to somehow gets his respect. I DON'T KNOW HOW, but that's what it's gonna take!
Actually you could probably outsmart him but not if you keep yourself in a scared mode!!!! Think this out and make him look bad, that's the last thing they want. If they think they might be embarrassed or look bad, they will never put themselves in that situation!! Don't you have a friend or someone who hates bullying or that kid that will stand behind you or maybe beat him up for you? I wish I was there!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'd have your back!!!!!

Answer 5

Report him. Sooner or later, they'll get worse. This bully beat you up, then he got his friends to come and help him beat you up even more? It's not going to stop until you get him expelled or arrested. That's assault and battery and illegal.

Also, try to take a martial arts class. You need to learn how to defend yourself before this escalates any further.

Good luck.

BTW, my daughter had trouble with bullies too. I reported them and THEY were expelled and never picked on her again. Just be careful that you can avoid these guys after once you report them until they forget about picking on you.

Answer 6

I would report them cuz if you think about it, your getting beat on anyway, why not have a reason to. Just be careful and tell the right person that will hopefully do something about it so you dont make matters worse. Good luck and if you have to kick some a$$

Answer 7

I am so sorry you have to go through this. This bully has NO right to touch you NO-ONE has i have been bullied myself when i was younger, i say report this monster dont let them have anymore power, also go to the police and press charges this has to stop now. you do not have to live in fear.
god bless you.

Answer 8

You should tell. I got bullied all my life. They are jealous of you. The have no respect for you. They are feeding off your fear and that makes them tease you more. You really should tell my dear. You dont want them to take a worse step in their actions. Your not doing anything wrong.

Answer 9

Report this guy. What he is doing is called harassment and assault and it's illegal. There is no reason you have to put up with it. Report him and charge him before he escalates things to a point where you're in the hospital or the morgue.

Answer 10

Definetely report it.

That is so scary, I feel sorry for you and wish you all the best of luck.

You sound like a nice person and you don't deserve this.

:)
I know it may be tough to tell but its better to tell now then when it gets worse.