how to be a good daughter to your parents and a good sister with your brothers and sisters?

Question

i am the eldest daughter of my mom but can be considered as a blackship because i'm fighting over them all and not listening to their advise. Sometimes i realized that its not right considering that i should be the model to my siblings, but i felt shy to show to them that i care about them and love them. I always say bad words just to get what i want. I can't understand my attitude, what's the problem with me?

Answer 1

If you don't know what's the matter, how should we?
You may need to talk to somebody like a school counselor outside of the family to help you get perspective.
As for the bad words, set up a Bad Word Jar and put a dollar in it every time you say a bad word, and give the money to your favorite charity. That way you will be doing something good if you don't swear or if you do swear!
Get a sense of humor, and that will help.
I wish you success.

Answer 2

I am the first daughter in my family.When I was in High school I was a blackship too because I did not listen to them until I got pregnant and became unwed mother.This changed my personality totally.You could not change maybe unless you will not feel difficulty and realize that your family are right.When you would be in trouble ,only your family can save you.since the problem happened,I was so good and everybody were happy.I have been a bread winner ,supporter and became a good model and provider.Now,because of me they are living happilly and I myself feel happy because I feel great happiness having with them.