I tryed convincing her that it is wrong and that she is setting up her self and investing up her time to only get hurt and used in the end , but she has been seeing him for two years now and will not end it.
2007-11-12 18:17:42 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I hate to say it but let her get hurt, that's messed up that anybody would date a married person! just leave it alone, she will learn her lesson and hopefully realise that he's cheating on her too with his wife and he is a scum bag
2007-11-12 19:39:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a friend, you should support her. If she does not get the man in the end, she will need a comforting shoulder to cry on. A grown woman can't be told what to do, though. She has to decide her own worth! She's cheating herself out of happiness and taking it away from the wife, as well. If this guy really wanted her, he would not be married. And if he really wanted his wife, he would not be seeing your friend. This guy is about games and until she sees that for herself, there's not much you can do.
2007-11-12 18:40:12 · answer #2 · answered by monicastocker74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she is dating a married man and she knows he's married. There isn't much you can do but sit by and be there for her when the time comes.
Be a friend, and stand by her.
2007-11-12 18:24:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know, i can well relate with you because a dear friend of mine once got involved with a married man...as a concerned friend, i tried to advised and warned her about the relationship...but then she didn't listen and continued her affair with the man... a year later, she came back to me like a real loser, crying out her bitterness and cursing the man... well, she has learned her lesson her way and i think that taught her best... just calm down... if she won't listen to you, you have said your piece...be ready and willing to back her up and catch her when that time comes that she'll need you....
2007-11-12 19:19:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Disaster... You tried... You really like her? You want to remain best friends? Butt out... She will come to you when she gets caught for solitude.. But even then dont say I told you so.... Just be patient... It will end abruply.... when he is tired of her... Good luck.. Seems though she needs a friend.. Be that friend... Grant M in Pennsylvania
2007-11-12 18:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't you have something better to do then worry about her situation after two years it must be working ok for her and him and seems like everyone but you. Its none of your business really so its like get a life of your own.
2007-11-12 18:26:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to your question is simple! YOU should do nothing because its not your business, All you can do is be a shoulder to cry on when the inevitable happens..
2007-11-12 18:30:35 · answer #7 · answered by robert x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Karma will get her, maybe one day she'll get married and her husband will screw around with someone else. its obvious she doesnt have respect or care for his wife, so this is her business and her problem, let her make the mistake and learn from it
2007-11-12 18:28:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What can you do or say? Nothing, she will do what she wishes and someone telling her its wrong make things more exciting...Just be there for her when this ends and it will.
2007-11-12 18:28:28 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to make that girl understand tell her parents tell them that she has no right to spoil another woman's marriage if nothing works tell the concerned man's wife about issue and then leave this matter to them
2007-11-12 18:34:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋