does my husband really need sex 6 or 7 times a week?

Question

He claims it's painful if he doesn't?

Answer 1

i never understand why couples need sex everyday or more than 2 days a week

Answer 2

Unlike the horndog men answering here not all men want sex 6 to 7 time's a week , I dont see the problem , girl you got a man who loves your body and what you do with it and what you do to his genital's whats the problem?

I read the other answer's from women and all I can think of is the word "prude" , come on ladies ffs dont make the 1 answer'er correct stating once that ring pops onto your finger we're all paralyzed from the waist down. Grow up wive's you dont marry for financial you marry for physical and emotional so stop whinging.

99% of women wish their husband's wanted it 6 to 7 time's a week , the other 1% have answered above me.

Answer 3

I agree with momentary997 on this. Just because you are his wife, doesn't mean that you are his blow up doll that he can just have sex with anytime he wants to. If you give it to him everyday like he wants you to when you really don't want to, you will end up resenting him and hating sex. My husband is a horn ball as well and he don't get it everyday and I have never heard him say that going a day without sex is painful. Anyways like a few other people on here have said, there are other ways for him to relieve himself if going without sex is so painful. If it really does hurt him, maybe you should take him to a doctor and have him checked out to make sure that there is nothing wrong with him.

Answer 4

It's not unusual for men to "need" sex 6 or 7 times a week. And it is very possible for it to get painful (also known as blue balls) which is very painful. The testicles build up with semen and expand. If he's having this much of a problem then he needs to see a urologist.

Answer 5

YES. Some men want and need it. It can not only be painful regarding the physical aspect, but the mental one. Men are wired to desire women. He will reasonable see other women every day. He wants and needs sex from you. If he isn't getting it, he will feel the "need" to seek it out, even though he may be perfectly faithful and never act on these impulses. On the flip side, even if he's having the most mindblowing sex of his life with you, he will still remain wired to desire women, in general. Having regular and satisfying sex with him will be not only damage control but will keep him from being uncomfortable physically.

Answer 6

how long have you been married? seems like at that rate you may have not been married that long or less than 5 years. I would oblige him if I were you but if you are uncomfortable or not as into it as he is maybe you could find a common ground with him as far as how much sex you have during the week. as far as not having sex being painful for him-i wouldn' t know-sounds like maybe he is a horndog

Answer 7

Most men would love sex 2 or 3 times a day. That is what they are thinking about all the time.

Answer 8

Need maybe not. But if he;s telling youi this it means he wants it that frequently with YOU!! It can be uncomfortable. Most men will experience involuntary ejaculation after thrre or four days. How often do you want to, and are you guys BOTH contributing to the romance?

Answer 9

Its not need, its want. All men like sex, some may even want it many more times than ur husband would like. I guess he finds abstinence from sex too much to bear..it cant be painful otherwise!

Answer 10

LOTS OF LOVING never hurt anyone. Trouble is he is your husband not your boyfriend. It's too bad that disease of women getting paralysed below the waist is caused by marriage.
I'm attched but not marride. I never have to ask for sex. To hurry up sometimes I have to ask, "Lets get naked!"

Hey some women and some men never have sex.

Answer 11

i am presuming you are unable to accommodate your husband.

if you don't give it, he will find it somewhere out there.

sweet suzy 777! is right men think about sex a lot. like if a car drives by it could heighten sensitivity quicker than a new york minute.

you are lucky you are not married to a man from the south seas. many men in the south seas hit it three times per night. that's 21 times per week minimum.

many american women are taking vacation in the south seas to take advantage of the availability. i bet you will never go to the south seas for any reason..