My boyfriend and i broke up just recently. but we still have communication. he said, he dont want me anymore and so is her mother. But he told me we will still be friends.. actually it also happen just last year. almost the same situation. But we still end up together. i wanna know, if you guys are in the situation, do you think we can still resolve this? by the way, before we dont have a communication. but now we do have a communication. And being friends means what? he's over you? or he still loves you but only needs time? im so confused pls i need your help thanks!
2007-11-12 18:15:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its hard to say. Alot of time us guys don't mean it when we say
"lets be friends". Usually we mean I want to go out with you but I think you'll reject me or you already have a boyfriend. Sometimes we say lets just be friends if we don't want to hurt someones feelings too. Maybe he misses the time and closeness you had together. Maybe he thought he ws going to hook up with another girl and it didn't work out so he realizes what hes now missing. You should ask him straight up why he broke up with you and if he wants to stay broke up or get back together. if hes being difficult and kind of mysterious about it he probably does like you. Boys play mind games with girls, not because we really like to but because most girls don't like "nice boys" they like "bad boys"
2007-11-12 20:02:39 · answer #1 · answered by Beznik 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not getting a good feeling regarding this relationship, either as a romance or as a friend. If I were you, I would stop communication and move on. You're not being kind to yourself to continue with this person. It's not working!
2007-11-12 18:19:51 · answer #2 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should quit wasting time on this boy, and start paying more attention in school. Once you become educated and make lots of money, men will be begging you to go out with them. Playing the I don't want you but I don't want anyone else to have you is sooooo old!
2007-11-12 18:23:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him friends are great that you need time to let men sow thier royal seed in you if he gets mad he still likes you. then pop the big ? ask him to marry you
2007-11-12 18:19:03 · answer #4 · answered by ricksrick 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
breaking up and trying to be friends is alot like your dog died and your parents said you can keep it
2007-11-12 18:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anthony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey im available, and we both have 1 thing in common...Purple....lol, nah things have a way of working themselves out, just sit back and enjoy the ride..... not literally...
2007-11-12 18:30:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
think about this... do you really love him?.. do you still care for him?... ask your heart... would still wanna exert effort for this guy?.. is he really worth it?... c'mon.. if you agree to all of this... then its gonna be plain stupid and suicide... good luck..
2007-11-12 18:21:21 · answer #7 · answered by condo_m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find someone else
2007-11-12 18:18:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋