Family & Relationships - 12 November 2007

i've just started recently going out with my ex again and the reason we broke up was cos i felt like he wasn't making an effort at least tht's what i think anyway...

how can i get him to act like he cares and get him to show a little affection to me???

anyway, he still isn't making an effort now that we're together again. he shows no affection towards me what so ever. i can snuggle right up next to him and he won't put his arm around me, or if i grab his hand and hold it, he won't hold mine back and he doesn't kiss me hello or hug me goodbye or anything.
but i know that he doesn't have a problem with physical contact cos we do kiss and fool around sometimes, but it just seems if there is nothing in it for him then he doesn't really care.

What should i do?

how can i get him to act like my boyfriend?
and not a brickwall?
any subtle hints i could give him or anything?

AND THANKYOU TO WHOEVER REPLIES!!!

2007-11-12 17:35:00 · 8 answers · asked by ? 7 in Singles & Dating

i know this guy likes me but he is making me mad he has not call me i gave him my number friday if a guy gave me his number i would have call him the next day, iam going to give him one shot. what do you guys think i should do i dont want to lose him i think there is something special but if he only see me as a friend i think he should let me know dont string me along just to see if i would give him sex,if thats the case it will never happen, maybe there is a logical reasons why he has not call i know in my heart he likes me, relationships are so hard why cant it be easy

2007-11-12 17:34:11 · 3 answers · asked by lisa 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I want to try some new things but are unclear on methods.

I don't want to purchase phyisical dvds or videos, but I will buy instant downloads or streams. Also free info is always great!


Thank you

2007-11-12 17:33:24 · 2 answers · asked by Brand new 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

why is it that everytime someone posts a question girls only or guys only, that somebody from the opposite sex always answers too?

2007-11-12 17:32:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex and I have been split for more than 7 years now. We split because I found him cheating on me. He married the woman I caught him with, incidentially he's cheating on her too (Karma). Obviously there's no love loss between me and this woman. We've had words for a while at the beginning until I realized that only boosted my ex's ego. It's been more than 5 years that I have not even spoken one word to her and today I recieved an e mail from Reunion.com that a woman her age from her town, incidentially the only people I from her town, had checked my profile. I can't stand being in the same room with my ex let alone talk to him about his wife's activities. He's pissed because I won't play his games. They're both PYSCHO and I want nothing to do with either one. What should I do? She used to do this a few years ago and it's just creepy.

2007-11-12 17:31:20 · 12 answers · asked by kimberleyelizabeth 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My hubby is cheating on me with a lot of girls. He has agreed to go to a shrink and he wants to change. He said that is family is all he has and he don't want to lose us. He had told me that he has not been with no one sine i had got pregnant. are baby is now 8 weeks old and he had told me hes been with no one. Do i beleave him and give him a another changes. I don't love him and i dont want to lose him but yet i cant deal with his cheating what should i do., and do i be leave him or not

2007-11-12 17:30:31 · 19 answers · asked by chainznwife69x2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife of 8 years has pretty much been fed up with my crap. I have not been a great husband for a while now. I haven't done anything to help. I emotionally cheated, so nothing physical. I've just been an ***. Over the past couple of months, after she told me she was on the verge of leaving, I have completely changed the way I do things, my priorities have changed, I'm motivated to make it work (maybe too much). It's sad that it took this, but I've realized she's the one I want forever. She's the greatest thing that's ever happened to me. I truly have changed in more ways than one. I tend to get over anxious to make things right. It's hard to love so much and get little in return. I know how she felt.

2007-11-12 17:29:27 · 21 answers · asked by friendofcheeba 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im just curious cause it seems like he notices it, even if im...you know...quiet...
i feel really retarded for asking cause im extreamly shy lol

2007-11-12 17:29:21 · 17 answers · asked by Angie <3 1 in Singles & Dating

Mann, I'm 19 years old. Althought I feel 50. I'm hurting been hurting for the longest. It's my feeling, my heart. I cry every nite and I'm tired. Advice on how to mend your own heart. How to become happy with life and not hope every second of a minute that you would die.

2007-11-12 17:28:44 · 7 answers · asked by quita b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I would probably end up downtown in a jell cell for trying to kill both of them. I am serious and I hope I never have to experience that. What about you?

2007-11-12 17:28:22 · 21 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-12 17:26:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My older brother said he was going to ground me from computer if I don't do good in school. But he didn't do well in school either. Is this a good reason for being grounded?

2007-11-12 17:23:48 · 13 answers · asked by William N 1 in Family

how can they read eyes better then guys, how do you do it?

2007-11-12 17:23:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a guy who is a really good guy at the start nice and caring, then you find out he is a maniac and totally mean and disrespectful with total disregard for your feelings, what happend to intuition? did you know deep down he was like that in the beggining?

2007-11-12 17:22:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Who knocked you so low that you can never forgive them?

2007-11-12 17:21:30 · 12 answers · asked by Dominus 5 in Friends

what can i do to make him understand my feeling?

2007-11-12 17:20:10 · 6 answers · asked by magict18 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, I am 4 months pregnant and I have a two year old step son that was cared for mostly by his grandfather and I feel was neglected. He is more than 25 % delayed in all areas and is just now trying to walk. I am sure all mothers know how difficult it is to keep up. He doesn't sleep but between 2 am and 8 am and I have to get back up at 3 or 4 to get my husband up and off for work and I am usually up an hour or more at this time so I get very little sleep. I feel bad because it is to the point where I am having trouble coping and I seem to cry all the time. I do not work I am just staying home with the baby. His progress has come very far he is finally gaining weight and in 5 months has gone from barely crawling and sitting in the floor staring into space to now he is toddling, jabering and is into EVERYTHING!!! I never have 5 minutes to catch my breath. My husband helps me on the weekends and he helps me watch the two year old at night so I can get some extra cleaning done.

2007-11-12 17:19:38 · 11 answers · asked by ems_lover 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A friend of mine does it, she has 5 clients( married), and her life is great, well, I was just wondering, if I was to be like her, how will that affect me and what are their effects.... and how do I even get clients for such things

2007-11-12 17:17:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think that she likes me but then she will do something that makes me unsure.
-she sometimes avoids eye contact with me.She says its because its makes her laugh when she looks at me (no there is nothing wrong with my face)
-she never initiates a convo between us or is the 1st one to say hi
-she says mean things to me often like calling me names
-her good friends sometimes act wierd like when something is said or when me and my crush disagree on something little they will smile at me and her. Also one time her friend said to us ‘your like a married couple’. And a couple of times when I’ve asked my crush for help with homework her friend has said ‘maybe you should go to (my crush’s name) house’.One time my crushes best friend was walking home alone ( they usually walk together) and I asked ‘Wheres ____?’ and her friend said she finished early and that she was heading over to her house now and then she added with a smile ‘you’d like to come, wouldn’t you Danno?’.I asked what made her say that and she said ‘nothing’.Also when we got back from holidays I told my crush that I was gonna visit her at her work but I didn’t coz I thought she wouldn’t want to see me.Then she said she probably would have only been doing a floor check so she wouldn’t have been doing much.
-She sometimes ignores me like i'll be waiting outside class by myself and when she comes instead of waiting with me she'll pretend she doesn't notice me and go wait somewhere else even though shes by herself.And one time during lunch a few of us were sitting and talking and then everyone besides us 2 leave to go do something and when we were alone she turned her back on me and watched other people in the yard muck around
and ignored me til her friends got back. When some got back they asked were everyone went then my crush said ‘they left me all by myself’ and then after a few seconds she said ‘oh, I mean they left us by ourselves’
-She smiles to herself when i do something nice for her or say something sweet to her
-But alot of the time she acts like shes not interested
-She stares at me when i say something even though i'm joking
-And whenever i try to talk to her she never puts any effort into the convo even though she does with everyone else and she doesn't seem interested
-i don't act any differently with her than what i do with other people. I mean i've done nice things for her and complimented her but i do the same for other people
-One time when we were walking 2 class I complimented her and she laughed a bit and when we got to a friend of ours they asked us whats up and then she looped her arm around mine and said that we were lovers.Shes only done this once though.We are at the end of 11th grade
-she says she is mean to me coz I’m annoying but even her friends don’t understand why she thinks I’m annoying coz I’m not
-she acts differently with me than with other friends
Do u think she likes me or do u think she knows i like her but doesn't feel the same?

2007-11-12 17:01:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've got a long term girlfriend - we've been dating for over a year. I love her, but I feel trapped in the relationship. I'm just a freshman in college, and I don't want to be held back. I also want the experience of falling in love again. I just don't think I'm ready for calling one girl the one i'll love for forever from this point on.

However, I'm also a complete panzy, and I don't want to break up with her. I've got a lot of crap going on in my life righ t now, and for some reason the guilt from breaking up with her would drive me crazy. What I want to do is get her to break up with me, which isn't as easy as it seems. I don't want to make it incredibly obvious, however, if you know what I mean. I know I should just suck it up and tell her, but I don't want to do that. Don't tell me that. Instead, help me with what I want help with: how can I make her break up with me, without making it obvious that I want her to?

2007-11-12 16:51:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have broken up with my boyfriend a week ago. Things are really hard for me atm and I honestly want to get back together. I don't know if he even wants to get back together but I want to. I am just really sad and I am trying to stay strong but it is so hard. I need some advice.

2007-11-12 16:50:00 · 5 answers · asked by Rose 1 in Singles & Dating

um... I have some pretty bad issues at home (which I'd rather not talk about) and I'm wondering if adoption would be a possibility... My mother would NEVER agree though... I'd rather not get anyone in trouble with the law but I can't stand living there.

2007-11-12 16:47:19 · 2 answers · asked by Demon 1 in Family

to catch cheating husband

2007-11-12 16:45:56 · 10 answers · asked by lay_lu2000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 35 and still live at home with my dad and sister. My dad is 70 and retired. Sister is 33 and mentally handicapped. She can't work. Mom passed away a little over 2 yrs ago. I work full time + overtime and pay my own bills. I don't pay rent to stay at home. ...but I do pay one of the utilities and half the groceries. I also provide transportation for them since dad doesn't have a running car. Right now I'm saddled with high payments to creditors trying to get out of the financial pickle I got into from helping my parents while they were in bankruptcy. Between that, my car note, and insurance I don't have enough money left over to pay rent at an apartment somewhere. I'm an administrative assistant so I don't make a whole lot of money.

2007-11-12 16:45:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Please someone help me out here. We are hardly having sex. Since I'm off the pill I feel soo much better, mood swings are subsiding and my humour is a lot more stable. However, he doesn't like the idea of using or doing anything that "interferes" with the moment. I don't want to go back on the pill because I like myself better this way, but this situation is not sustainable. Please readers, I need your sound advice

2007-11-12 16:44:56 · 16 answers · asked by sorradic 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is prom really that important?

2007-11-12 16:42:28 · 5 answers · asked by sniper88gt 1 in Singles & Dating

I been with my bf for 5 years and well he cheated on me and i also talked to the girl after that he stop taking to her i think but not sure and i want to trust him again what can i do? how can i forgive him? how can i trust him again?

2007-11-12 16:39:39 · 29 answers · asked by Moon_Rabbit 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so those of you that have read some of my other posts know that I am pregnant and I can't have sex because the doctors have put me on full pelvic rest. Ok so we have always agreed that either of us can be with other women as long as the other one knows what is going on. Neither of us has really done anything both due to a lack of want to and oppertunity. We have although played around with my sister and her husbands. The girls didn't touch and the guys didn't touch, and it was just oral. Since I have not been able to please him I have encouraged him to take advantage of this and there is one girl he talks to but that is all. I download porn for him to watch when he gets home from work and stuff like that.
My friend was horrified when she found out about this, she said that I was being stupid and asking for trouble. However i think it is a good idea to be open to new things. What do you think?

2007-11-12 16:36:02 · 32 answers · asked by Selena H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm 17 and i'm new at kfc i have 2 weeks working there well every monday employees get paid and today was my day off and i think i am suppose to get paid but i havent had a called saying to pick up my check am i suppose to go to my job and ask for it because i'm not sure if i do get paid but i'm pretty sure i do since its already been 2 weeks

2007-11-12 16:35:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

VERY long story condensed into VERY short version:
We have mutual friends.
I have had a crush on him for years (innocent crush, not obsessive i just think he's got something special)
I moved away from his city 2 years ago.
I am moving BACK to his city next month.
He knows this (i guess he heard it from our mutual friends?)
He's been texting me randomly ever since he found out (October).
I am going to be in his city at the end of the week for business.
He knows this as well. He texted me asking "where are you going to be staying?"
I will probably see him this weekend at some point.
Ugh....
He makes me SO nervous I forget how to speak when he's around.
I really like him. He may or may not know this (I don't know).
I might avoid seeing him simply because he makes me so nervous I'm afraid of looking stupid or worse.
what to do???

2007-11-12 16:35:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating