My Ex's wife is obsessed with me, what do you think?

Question

My ex and I have been split for more than 7 years now. We split because I found him cheating on me. He married the woman I caught him with, incidentially he's cheating on her too (Karma). Obviously there's no love loss between me and this woman. We've had words for a while at the beginning until I realized that only boosted my ex's ego. It's been more than 5 years that I have not even spoken one word to her and today I recieved an e mail from Reunion.com that a woman her age from her town, incidentially the only people I from her town, had checked my profile. I can't stand being in the same room with my ex let alone talk to him about his wife's activities. He's pissed because I won't play his games. They're both PYSCHO and I want nothing to do with either one. What should I do? She used to do this a few years ago and it's just creepy.

Answer 1

ignore it. and thats not obsessed either.......

Answer 2

I have blocked anyone not on my instant messenger list from contacting me deleted my xanga and set my myspace to private because 2 of my ex b/fs girlfriends were stalking me. One was getting kinda creepy cause she was asking me all these questions and trying to be like me. With the other one I put a tracker on my xanga and she visited my site more than 20 times a day for months. They would also call my house and things. This was after I was married and things had been over with my ex's for 4 years and 2 years. Some women get obsessed with what their ex's were doing before they were with them. I have not spoken to any of them and will not speak to them. I would rather move forward with my life without that drama!

Answer 3

Wow you think a lot of urself and no that is not obsessed and if you are the worried about it there are things like caller id so you can ignore the calls and restraining orders(but you have to prove harrassment and if all you got is what ur telling me the judge will just laugh in ur face) if it has been 5 years since u talked to him or her and the only thing is one silly online message just ignore it and move on sounds to me like ur still stuck on him and really bothered that their marriage although he is cheating on her is still lasting...Think about it get some therapy!

Answer 4

Oh just ignore it. Getting all fired up is exactly what fuels the non-stop drama with them. So what if she checks your profile...who does it hurt? It is just her time she is wasting obsessing over someone who couldn't give to craps about her--the key to this whole thing, of course...is to not give two craps about her.

Answer 5

you should be like her best friend....talk about what a lousy lay he always was right in front of him...try to sleep with her...hang at their house 24/7...then whenever he does something annoying say real loud "he always did that when he was with me too, some men never change"..leave condoms in his car with fake numbers...buy a tiny little pair of thongs and slip them into his coat pocket. then sit back and laugh laugh laugh

Answer 6

Ignore them from now on. You don't have to have anything to do with them if you don't want to. Don't take their gifts of drama.

Answer 7

She checks your old high school profile once in 5 years and you think she's obsessed? Get over yourself.

Answer 8

ignore the email.

she will assume you did not receive it.

cool out.

do not call them. if they are calling (caller id) , ignore the call.

Answer 9

do you have kids by your ex? because if not i would ignore any and everything from them

Answer 10

restraining order