Move on or let my feelings shown, I'm still in love?

Question

Recently was in year relationship. We broke up a year ago but continued to talk daily, hang out, and spend nights over eachothers houses. Also slept together. In the beginning of this she asked to move in w/ me (btw I was the dumpee). I had said no eventhough wanted to say yes b/c was unsure why was being asked, But w/n this year we have gotten along great. I asked for her to move in and she said no did I ever give you that impression. She would say she missed me on various nights I did not stay over. We would hold hands, cuddle, etc. I just got many mixed signals. I don't kow if she was waiting for me to open up but she said once she was not in love w/ me but still loved me so made me hold back bc didn't want to push the good that was going on. \There were more mixed signals w/ texts all day to wanting me to stay over when I tried to stay strong eventhough my heart melted. Now she claims to have someone but don't know if it's a lie or truth, i still get calls.Do I say how i feel or

Do I say how I feel in my heart? Since she supposedly says she has someone else which she did once before during the year period of being friends it makes me supsicious. Does she really have someone or wants me to say something, but when confronting about this new person she dodged my questions like where did you meet, nothing too deep of questions. When asked how long they were talking she said I haven't kept track. I just felt like she was hiding it and said if we're friends you don't need to hide it. And she just kept saying she is hurting me, Then when I say something deep she says maybe we shouldn't be friends. But when I said a little bit about my feelings she would say I didnt notice you had feelings. She told me to move on which part of me thinks that's what she wants from me but another is just confused. Btw theday after she asked me to go look at houses with her which confused me a bit more. We have been meeting up at the gym 3x a week and when i don't show up she seems

to get mad that I can't make it. Before she mentioned about this other someone the night before I was pretty quiet the week before so don't know if she was feeling that something was going on with me, Basically do I just let my love shown eventhough she said to move on or just continue the friendship eventhough it maybe hard, I hate not knowing also if she is making this someone else thing up. In my eyes if I have someone else I don't continue to contact my ex at least whiletrying to get to know this new person. Any advice would be appreciated. There is more but don't want to blow up this thing )

Answer 1

Better both of you sit down, talk it over once and for all sincerely. We can never tell if she's just making you jealous or something so that she would out how you really feel. There are times we can't really tell even though you said that you don't love that person anymore but still it can be shown through your actions even you don't tell it. Maybe she's just waiting for you to finally open topic first since you are the guy. Be a man enough to talk with her so both you can clear up things finally. Both of you must be honest with yourselves because if you keep doing and doing those things over and over again nothing will happen. One or both of you will suffer in the end because you feel like either or both of you have unsettled business. If either or both of you still treasures whatever you feel right now better fix it now than doing it later because you feel you don't have the guts to do it. You might regret it later for not telling it to her. If this is the only thing you can fix it do it who knows maybe waiting for you to do the first move.

Answer 2

Move on

Maybe you can be friends later, but right now would be too hurtful. You need to spend a bit of self-time and lick your wounds. Then find someone deserving of your love, time and attention.

Answer 3

i don't know but if you think she's just merely having fun with that kind of situation, you'd better move on!

it's not worth keeping.

Answer 4

be wise follow what your heart tells you if u love her tell her dont think what if she says no. belive me have guts act cool
gd luck

Answer 5

yes tell her you love her then pop the ? will u marry me!