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Question

I sent my bf a text last night saying wanna come over thurs this week (as he visits once a week to my house with folks) he replied with I may *** thurs fri and stay sat and sun but ill let ya know, have a good sleep sweetie.
We do have a wedding together sat so do u think this is fine or as though he is leaving it open for something better to come up or im being really silly??

I dont mean our wedding I just mean a family wedding we are going too. My point is he will let me know when he is coming shouldnt it just be a yes not ill let ya know?

Answer 1

i think he is not sure whether he is available on thursday that is why he said he'll let you know. but the fact that he said he'll come thurs fri and stay sat and sun means that he do have plans to come and spend time with you. he is just not sure if his schedule will allow it. what kind of work does he do? does it require sudden changes in his schedule? or do things normally pop up every now and then in his life? if changes in his schedule normally happen then you need not worry. but if he leads a routine life and he says something like that then maybe you need to dig a little deeper as to why.

i usually have sudden changes in my work schedule because setting project presentations depends on the client's availability and so whenever i plan something with my bf, i ususally don't commit unless i'm sure that i can make it. but he understands my work and so there is really no problem.

Answer 2

To me you appear too hasty and impatient. Such attitude will harm you in a long run. Calm down and do not make out new meanings to things that are not there. God willing, everything will turn out as per your desire and aspirations.

Answer 3

I don't fully understand the message - but from the tone of it it sounds fine :-)

Answer 4

To me its obvious that he is not as excited with the idea as you are. I would re-text him and say "on second thought it will be more exciting to wait...love you.