2007-11-12 19:38:27 · 14 answers · asked by ILOVEHIM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should've dumped his *** the first time.
2007-11-12 19:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by chriswalsh575 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
funny enough, i've been in a similar situation. Its easy for everyone to tell u to let it go.. but it just isnt that simply.
Love doesn't just go away, its there through all the hurt..
you feel disappointed, angry upset and let down.. but the love is still there. You oversee all their flaws, just like you did in the beginning, and you believe that all the good times you've had will out way the mistakes made.
Do what you feel is right whether it be to stay or leave, and if you get hurt again then you can only say you tried your best to make it work but it just wasn't meant to be. OR you realise that you can't be with someone else despite all the hurt. Follow your heart, and mend the bruises as you go.. good luck
2007-11-13 00:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by j.d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's ur definition of love? do u still trust him? do u still respect him? is there anger, hatred, resentment there? i'm sorry but i believe that love is a 2 way street & is acquired from really knowing someone & if u didn't know that he's a cheater then u didn't really know him, right? anyways to get back to validating what you already know u need to do, leave him. u knew in your heart u need to leave, but u wanted the validation, an outside source. of course u knew the majority of people would say leave, but are u going to use it or are u going to become more dependant on him & stay, let him make u more insecure. eventually his cheating is going to seep into your future relationships, you'll have a hard time trusting them too. HE should've had at least a little bit of respect & feelings for u to let u go b4 he desided to take a piece of u & ur future.
2007-11-12 20:52:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He keeps cheating because you have allowed him to. If you want to forgive him once that is your choice but never more than that. He will continue to cheat on you and you will continue to feel bad. Get out before he gives you something and ruins your self esteem along the way. Honey you deserve better than this.
2007-11-12 19:50:01 · answer #4 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard when you love,care and trust that person that keeps letting you down. That is something that would end a relationship for me. He would of been gone the first time he cheated.I would end it with him,even if i loved him.You deserve so much better.
2007-11-12 19:47:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's going to keep cheating on you. If you don't like it then you should break up with him. Breaking up isn't easy when you love someone, but wouldn't you rather be with someone that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated?
2007-11-12 19:46:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him. if you let him cheat on you, then you are telling him that you dont deserve some respect. If he is cheating on you, then he doesnt love you like you think he does.
2007-11-12 19:48:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let it happen again... one time is a mistake and a second is done!
Good luck
Love isn't hurting each other like that.
2007-11-12 19:56:01 · answer #8 · answered by Just Another One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave. you're torturing yourself. you have to love yourself first before you worry about loving him. if if you don't even love yourself and hold your dignity, he will never respect you let alone loves you back. get rid of him, he's bringing you down!
2007-11-12 19:49:30 · answer #9 · answered by gaile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they will keep cheating too my ex did and I kicked them out of my house
2007-11-12 19:43:10 · answer #10 · answered by jbmasterdragon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋