2007-11-12 19:42:16 · 37 answers · asked by ILOVEHIM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
would you want to stay with someone whom you can't trust? what if 5 months became 5 years of him cheating and you had a child to think about? Get out of there while it's easier to start over
2007-11-12 19:46:00 · answer #1 · answered by mlvue 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I think that it just depends. No one can really answer this but you. I am not sure if you guys are in love, although it takes time to fall in love, but I am sure that in your heart you can tell how you feel about him.
Sometimes people do things without thinking. If he does cheat on you maybe he doesn't completly realize what he wants in life. You need to let him know straight up, that you don't want to be hurt. If he wants someone else then break up with you first.
You have to remember everyone makes mistakes! So good luck on things, I hope things are fine for you guys!
Also, people can change. I had a best friend that I liked so much and he didn't mess around with other girls only me.. and I told him I didn't care about anything he did.. and he kissed another girl, and he knew that right then it hurt me when I found out... and after that he never did anything with another girl again, now we are married and so happy with a three month old daughter. People can change you just have to show them the reason to change for the better!!
2007-11-12 19:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by Just Another One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the one to take decision but these questions may help you analyze the situation:
1. Why you shifted with him?
2. Do you still feel the passion you had for him?
3. Why haven't you married him yet?
4. Has he been considerated and good to you during the time you lived together?
5. Is he understanding and respectful towards you?
6. Is only the thrill of a live-in relationship or the habit to have each other arround, keeping you together?
7. Do you really think you are happy with the situation?
And the biggest question of all:
8. What do you want?
If you are looking for security and stability, I think you should marry him as soon as possible or tell him subtly that you are uncomfortable in living like this. If he really loves you, he will understand.
2007-11-12 19:48:21 · answer #3 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Obviously you want to hear "stay and work it out" but if you have any self worth you'd know the answer in a heartbeat. Either way, only you know what will make you happy. You might leave and know it's the wrong thing-who knows, he might truly feel disgusted by his behavior. Or he could be an arrogant womanizer that feels entitled to cheat. Decide his fate by his actions. If he shows you he loves you then maybe you could try couples therapy. If it's not that serious then leave asap!!!
2007-11-12 19:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by Daya81 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...what do you want?...living with a cheater or living without being cheated?... it really hurts to know that someone you love cheated you...but life must go on...we should move on... there are a lot more boys waiting for your love...5months is still short...what is the sense of staying with a cheater?...iut is just the same with staying with a demon...sorry for the word...we are here in this word not to be cheated but to be loved...but see to it that you're not cheating him...love faithfully and they will love you faithfully too...
2007-11-12 19:50:24 · answer #5 · answered by Xenamarie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You leave silly. You cannot stay with a man that cheats on you. They will not stop because they think that you will forgive them because you have. This is a new relationship and he has cheated already. You really don't want to go any further with him. It will not get any better.
2007-11-12 19:47:49 · answer #6 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE!!!! He WILL do it again. My daughter is going through the same thing and it also due to give birth ANY DAY now. But where is she at????? With that sorry S.O.B.!!!
Even though she knows he's cheating!!
Please don't be a fool, as I was with my 1st husband and as my daughter is now.
Leave before you get pregnant by the @$$ OR contract a disease from him.
Honey it's NOT worth it and neither is HE!!!!
Good Luck
2007-11-12 19:48:23 · answer #7 · answered by †..Jetta..† 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is totally up to you...the question is will you be able to trust him? Has he cheated on you and you are trying to reaffirm your decision?
I have children with a man, he cheated on me numerous times. We have tried to work on our relationship for the kids and ourselves and considered counseling, but I am unsure this is what I want...you have to ask yourself some questions.
Is this truly what you want or are there other reasons you are staying? Does being with him make you happy? Can you trust him? What happens when he cheats again? How much are you willing to but up with?
2007-11-12 19:56:03 · answer #8 · answered by fattychic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats completely as much as you. truly if it have been me i'd destroy up with him . once you date somebody you're dedicating your self to THAT man or woman. Obviouslly in the event that they cheat they werent as severe approximately you as they claimed. Theres no "oh i snapped out of it" And seeing it replaced into his ex i'd look on the possibilty tthat even although they dated 2 years in the past...they'd desire to nonetheless have thoughts for one yet another. If a man or woman truly cares approximately somebody they does no longer enable somthing like that take place interior the 1st place. additionally long distance relationships tend to be an invitation to get cheated on. desire this helps. goodluck.
2016-10-02 06:19:57 · answer #9 · answered by herne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends on how you would both still feel about eachother afterwards, and if you would even be able to move on and forgive him for it. If there isn't a chance in hell you could forgive, then it wouldn't work out in the long run and you might never be able to get that trust for him back. Or you might love him so much that you can get past it and learn to trust him again.
2007-11-12 19:45:10 · answer #10 · answered by bean 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋