A guy I was seeing has been very abusive emotionally to me to the point he says that he can control me and that I CANNOT live without him.My fault partly cos I should have left him long ago. I was so hurt and felt so helpless cos he has basically been manipulating me that I decided to tell the world how small his manhood was and logged on to his net account and spoke to his friends I never really did any harm I told him of it. Now I feel quite bad that I let him get to me like that. Now get this he now is angry t me after all the dirt he has done to me. Do you believe that wahat goes round comes round?? Cos I jsut feel like wicked people never seem to get their come uppence??
2007-11-12 21:53:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Failing to "check" a "man" makes him bolder. You were not wrong. If anything, you should have kicked his butt, since the thing you are describing obviously isn't a man.
Leave him, so some girl who doesn't value her worth can call him lord and master and you can move on and find a real man.
Trust me, people will recognize this putz for what his is.
2007-11-12 22:01:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Hun,
What Goes around Comes around..Yes =]
He'll get what's coming to him eventually.
I know from experience,,And don't worry about the Net thing! People do silly things like that all the time and Definitely don't worry if you did no harm! You don't deserve a man like this,He needs to sort himself out, True you should have just walked away and not done anything, But Hey, Can't change that now, Just realise that it's not your problem =] Just find a new man that you love ,
Hope I Helped
2007-11-12 21:56:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
love you did the right thing! these blokes who think they are gods gift and that we should be so grateful to them because they are gracing us with their presence, b0ll0cks is what i say! he got exactly what he deserves.
i'll never forget the look on my ex's face when i ended it, he had been treating me like crap, and emotionally abusing me to the point where i thought no one else would love me, then i caught him in a bar with some tramp and i realised he dont love me at all!!! so i stepped back outside, slashed every tyre on his car, smashed the headlights and then returned his broken golf clubs to the boot, walked into the bar and gave him his car keys while he was mid kiss with this b!tch!!! LOL!!! funniest moment of my life!!!
2007-11-12 22:38:57 · answer #3 · answered by dom c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not have lowered yourself to his level. It was just one of those things that we do when we are angry. Let it go, and find a good man. You have gotten back at him, so you should feel better now. Time to move on.
2007-11-12 21:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things always come back.It is something like sending an mail after which you should be ready to get a reply.
Do not take it lying down,tell him your likings and dislikings
2007-11-12 22:05:02 · answer #5 · answered by ps g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you've done your part and that you had better stop thinking about him and focus on getting your life back on track.
Let life take care of him and try and get your self esteem and self confidence back.
good luck.
2007-11-12 22:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetie believe it or not he will pay for what he did to you trust me if he does not pay soon he will later when he least expected and i dont think you should feel bad for what you did. Trust me you try to do something and even if he says it did not bother him it did.
2007-11-12 21:56:05 · answer #7 · answered by only me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he will get what he deserves, but you might not be around to see it. And that's a good thing! get him out of your life! you don't need to think of him or be brought down by him anymore. time to move onward and upward!
2007-11-12 22:03:55 · answer #8 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a kick in the bollocks and get on with your life
2007-11-12 21:59:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
forget the past ...
n u kno u cn live without him..
2007-11-12 21:59:23 · answer #10 · answered by jovi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋