My friend really creeped me out the other day. Its nice to be complimented on being a good person don't get me wrong but a sincere thanks is good enough. I hadn't done anything to need complimenting on, they came from nowhere and went on for about 20mins I was feeling quite uncomfortable. Was It silly of me to feel like that or would anyone feel like that?
2007-11-12 22:50:38 · 8 answers · asked by truth_and_time_tells_all 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hmm. I've probably over-complimented one friend (I don't know that she still is a "friend," but that's a different story). I wonder if she felt the way you do. But anyway, being in your "creepy friend's" shoes, I can tell you...she really likes you. Either she's really grateful for you or she has a crush on you (or both). I wouldn't take it badly. So she really likes you! You may feel like you don't deserve the praise, but she does, so why deny it?
2007-11-13 01:15:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How well do you know your friend? If you know your friend very well, then somehow you can decipher if its a sincere compliment or just flattery.
Benefit of the doubt that your friend admires you or she has high regard for you that - insignificant things mean bigger than what they really seem. If it makes you uncomfortable, then tell her about it. Only she can clarify things.
Another thought: maybe she needs to ask a big favor from you that she couldn't directly ask you. She opted to set you in a "good mood" (unknowing that her compliments were bothersome to you) so she can somehow ask you for something.
2007-11-12 23:01:14 · answer #2 · answered by addicted too 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was not silly at all. I also get the creeps when they are too complimentary. It really seems dishonest.
2007-11-12 23:03:46 · answer #3 · answered by Why sayer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some ppl are. sometimes its actaually good, sometimes annoying...call them when you feel really bad about something and need encouragement.
2007-11-12 22:54:21 · answer #4 · answered by ✿❃❀❁✾ Stef ♐ ✿❃❀❁✾ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soon they will start dressing like you, and try to steal your partner.
2007-11-12 22:56:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It makes me wonder what their real motives are.
2007-11-12 22:53:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just some suck up...obviously someone thinks you are cool(imagine that).
2007-11-12 22:54:56 · answer #7 · answered by berlytea 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He/she fancies you!
2007-11-12 22:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by mrbatfink 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋