this girl and i are over. finished. no return. she wants me to add her as one of my friends on facebook. what do i do? do i send her a message and tell no and tell i cant think of her ever again and i dont want to see her face again and completely forget about her?
2007-11-12 22:22:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if u feel that way idk i mean mabey later u will want to be friends. So i dont think u should say it that harshly mabey tell her ur not ready to be friends right now but u will contact her when u r. But not until then. See thats the nice but blunt approach. it pretty much says i dont wanna be friends now mabey later and in the mean time f*** off.
Good Luck!
2007-11-12 22:45:40 · answer #1 · answered by Lizzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF IT HURTS YOU SO BAD and you're not ready yet to have her as a friend, just don't answer. Sometimes it's better to disappear for a while to rebuild oneself.
You don't have to answer...It takes time to become good friend with an ex. You don't want to see her face, etc. Just don't . That's it. You don't have to explain your feelings to her anymore, and being silent will do her less harm than telling her what you wrote her, i guess.
2007-11-12 22:34:53 · answer #2 · answered by Tesse Malou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is that shallow you do no longer prefer her. appears like she'd have a venture being ordinary. some women have an interest in undesirable boys. they think of they could get the guy to love them plenty that the guy will exchange purely for them, It do no longer happen. You sound like a outstanding guy. dangle in there and meet somebody else.
2016-11-11 08:45:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, just don't reply to her...and don't accept her "friend request." If you avoid her at all costs, eventually she'll get the hint that you'd rather have nothing to do with her. Just ignore her. I can't stress this enough. Also, for the ladies...this works both ways..so its a useful tool for both sexes.
2007-11-12 22:32:55 · answer #4 · answered by :-) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are completely over someone when you see or think of them you no longer have feelings of hurt, or pain or sadness. If it's still too difficult to see or hear from her, I would just tell her "maybe later"...
2007-11-12 22:30:17 · answer #5 · answered by R B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sho her u r finished off with her by addin her on facebuk !
if u ignore her n tell not to contact u n all shell kno u r still upset ! u dont wanna sho tht u r affected do u ??? jst act completely normal !
2007-11-12 22:27:29 · answer #6 · answered by jovi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are finished and no return add her! As this doesn’t mean you are best friends. If not she will assume you are not over her.
2007-11-12 22:33:09 · answer #7 · answered by Bern 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't answer her, ex's should never be too close, it is a recipe for disaster. Run as fast a you can, finish all ties with her and never speak again.
2007-11-12 22:29:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you are not ready to be friends yet. Tell her to give you some time, and you may change your mind. then just avoid her for a while.
2007-11-12 22:26:16 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not. You can check my facebook. Most friends are met on largesingle.com, and they all have ever been my girlfriends here.
2007-11-12 22:42:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋