They are always abusive with ill manners.I have to apologise to put my mind at rest they have encouraged me to torment myself and behave as though I am at fault more.They are both boorish bullies although I might feel at better if I did.That said I am sick of their wingeing and abusive lies and don't want to meet them again.She said"there was nothing to apologise for" which shows me that my sister doesn't understand that she is in the wrong and won't listen either.Any advice?I will be grateful.
2007-11-12 23:07:39 · 22 answers · asked by godbar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
s angry that he wouldn't do anything to help me and I suspect he put some gang onto me.He/She is the betrayer but won't admit it.
2007-11-13 08:12:16 · update #1
say
im sorry.......................................................................................that u r are such lil bratz :)
2007-11-12 23:10:10 · answer #1 · answered by katie h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yip....
Say hey your a pair of 's***s and dragged me down to your level and I am sorry for that and also sorry I allowed it to happen. And although my outburst at the time felt right, I would like to apologise to you both for what I said. Finally, I am not prepared to put up with the negativity and ill manners I get from you both, so if you are not going to change your attitude and treat me with a level of civility then neither of you will be welcome at my door or seen by me again.
2007-11-13 07:41:30 · answer #2 · answered by TIM M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have done nothing wrong but if it makes u feel better just say, look i'm sorry and walk away, that way no one can say u didn't keep the peace, i would also, if they don't believ how they sound, discreetly record a conversation with them when their being at their worst, ie phone or voice recorded...etc and play it back to them or ur folks.....or just walk away and leave them to it
x
2007-11-13 09:32:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is true here i have 17 brothers and 5 sisters im 3rd from the youngest and just like you most of them are smart asses who think there right and nost of them lie like dogs and i can't stand there stories, in order to keep my sanity i have to keep a distance from the ones that are that way and as far as saying im sorry hell do they ever appoligise to you for being mean to you if not then i wouldn't appolligise to them because as in my case they have hurt me more than they could imagine, so if there bullies and mean just don't give them the saticfaction of hurting your feelings any more
2007-11-13 07:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by joyce_i68 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are family. On a planet of six billion+ how many people really have your back?? It's better to lose your pride than to lose your family. Right!? So how you apologize, or what you say is unimportant...just do it. Life is to short.
No matter what you say, be sure to include "I'm sorry" and "I love you". That's all you really need.
2007-11-13 07:22:43 · answer #5 · answered by Sean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, just say it and get it over with, you dont have to mean it, bullies can do things that are really hurtful but they are not smart, but i reckon you are try and show them up for who they are chat to people and come up with a plan. Dont let them get u down you are better than that, good luck.
2007-11-13 07:15:10 · answer #6 · answered by peopleRpeople 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I don't think any particular set of words are going to cut it. You have to make a decision to go down with them and their junk or you are going somewhere else and try to keep you activities and and mouth (words) clean. Just because they happen to be a blood relative, doesn't mean you have to destroy yourself forever. You decide now.
2007-11-13 07:14:56 · answer #7 · answered by dumb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't apologise to them at all. Don't say anything to them. You have not done anything wrong, they have. Don't demean yourself by apologising for something you never did wrong. The more crap you take, the more you will get.
I would cut them out of my life for good, if i were you.
2007-11-13 07:10:11 · answer #8 · answered by myleslr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can twist the knife like family. If I were you I would make the apology as business-like as possible so as to give them as little satisfaction as possible. You're apologizing to put your mind at ease and not theirs after all.
2007-11-13 07:11:13 · answer #9 · answered by Johnny c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it will put your mind at rest and make you feel better.
Just say....I'm sorry for upsetting you.
then, decide not to meet up with them again and get on with your life.
If they're as bad as you say, it would make sense.
2007-11-13 11:49:21 · answer #10 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say i am sorry for whatever it is that i have done( although personally i dont think you owe them an apology).. they are the ones who are the bullies and are abusive to you...so the real question is why are you apologizing to them???
2007-11-13 07:28:35 · answer #11 · answered by eyesicyblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋