he is 12yrs married and still living with his family..
2007-11-12 23:50:52 · 26 answers · asked by blog c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is a dead end. Men never leave their wives and families. Move on, sweety.
2007-11-12 23:53:07 · answer #1 · answered by She She 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take the job and break up with him. remain friends and both of you be free to date others. because, sister, let me explain this to you, he already is. and you are both too young to tie yourselves down. when you are going in different directions. and you are. and this is completely natural. in the olden days, say, 20 or 30 years ago, women stayed behind and men traveled. now, women have exciting things to do and there is the problem. who stays behind.? well, both of you are in far away places and having fun and gaining sophistication and maybe, if you are truly lucky, fame and fortune. if not, then fun times while you are young, which is only once in a lifetime. and, he is just a boyfriend, he is the first person you ever knew. and he is out in the bigger world. dont!!!!!!!!!!! put your life on hold for a vague future with someone who is already moving in another direction, which is natural at your ages. have your own life and if you meet together in the future you meet as equals, and that counts for a lot. i HAVE been in your shoes. and the only things i regret from my fabulous and i mean fabulous youth are the things i didnt do. fly off to london for the weekend? , dang, i cant have to work at my ridiculously glamourous job in new york. . no, i should have taken the days off!!!!! go to europe with a group for a show, no i cant, boyfriend is coming into town. who then broke up with me anyway. taking a leap and doing this will empower you in ways you never imagined. wimping out and holding back will cause you a llifetime of what if and eventual resentment. i speak from perspective. once you have a home and kids, you dont tend to do the travel and glamour. do it now!!!!!! go and make the best of yourself. be smart and successful and have dignity and integrity and morals in all you do. you will make a great girlfriend and wife some other time. with him or someone else. read: how successful people win, by ben stein.
2016-05-22 22:43:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be with him, for as long as you feel you can not do better. He will not ever leave his family. Because he know's you are content with the life you both live. You need to break a way before you forget who you really are. There are so many men out there that could give you what you deserve. The problem is that you need to feel that you deserve more than what you have today. Get moving leave him be and soon you will find the one who will truely want you.
2007-11-12 23:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's easy unless you can talk and explain to him your side or your feelings about being with a married men, it's like an awkward future. If you feel that it's really unfair for you to live with him just walk away and be honest to yourself.... But listen, if you are happy living with him maybe that's your destiny, so live with with, if not, well, things need to sort it out. All the best.
2007-11-13 00:01:34 · answer #4 · answered by hottstuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long do you want to be with him? He is married for 12 years. He is not getting a divorce any time soon. You are a mistress, if even that. He is not your boyfriend. He is a husband to another woman. You are being strung along. He just want sex from you, NOTHING ELSE!!!! Time for you to leave him and find someone single.
2007-11-12 23:55:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first good job at being a sl*t. second he'll never leave her and if he does than what makes you so sure that he won't do the same to you. way to be selfish and not even think about the damage that you are doing to that family. your gonna feel stupid if you give him an ultimatum and he stays with his wife or even if he leaves than you just broke up a family and hurt innocent kids. you both should be ashamed of yourselves.
2007-11-13 00:00:36 · answer #6 · answered by justabitbitter147 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Will I think it time for some one to hit the road.Because if has not left now .It will never happen any day soon.Because he already has the best of both worlds.Thats how I see it,Get the Big Picture
2007-11-12 23:59:04 · answer #7 · answered by Connie h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For as long as you don't realize that you're just the 'other woman' and that he would not ever leave his wife and kids for you....There's so many unattached guys out there, girl! Just look around....Don't you want to be a legal wife someday and not just the 'other woman'?
2007-11-13 02:03:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
his married, i think u should just leave him and continue with ur living. Next time u will find a better person .
2007-11-12 23:55:10 · answer #9 · answered by Millie N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long im gonna be with my married boy friend?
As long as it takes for you to stop being stupid.
2007-11-13 00:32:44 · answer #10 · answered by hexeliebe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋