Family & Relationships - 13 November 2007

you reckon i got a chance?

hehe

2007-11-13 19:30:11 · 1 answers · asked by dreammuncher 1 in Singles & Dating

i wanna marry him. he always tells me whenever im ready he wants 2 be married...btw hes 21. the thing is i feel weird to be engaged so young and the first one in my class...i wanna wait till at least one person i know my age is engaged before i get engaged....is that a really bad reason 2 wait. or do u understand?

2007-11-13 19:30:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

... i know it sounds selfish but its only been 12 months since my grandad died and i still find it hard. Everything always has to be worse for them and go on about it all the time - i dont think its helping my partner who has taken it really bad. i dread seeing them as i am finding it all to much to cope with - i am now dreading christmas as my partner will want to spend it with his family andi know it will drive me round the twist. Any advice or anyone been here before?>?

2007-11-13 19:24:19 · 20 answers · asked by Pebbles 2 in Family

I was the perfect girlfriend, actually he told me I was the best. I loved him like no one else, I listened to him, I cooked for him, I snuggled with him, I made him laugh, we had a blast when we were together, living together was fun too, so why did he break up with me over 4 hours of distance when he was in love with me too? I am soo sad and can't seem to get over it. Not to mention that he already is dating another girl and having fun while I feel I wasn't good enough.. HELP me.

2007-11-13 19:22:47 · 14 answers · asked by irish_red_93 2 in Singles & Dating

1. she has just found out that she may not finish her university degree because she has already failed a subject twice and may not be given another chance
2. she recently met a guy ( on the net) within three days met him, and on the first date itself she lost her virginity to him
3. the sex was un-protected. the guy has had 3 - 4 previous sexual partners
4. she has a lot of issues with her body image (she is a bit overweight).

She's a strong Christian & has always said "no sex before marriage" and now she's just lost her virginity to some pretty much 'unknown' guy.

I don't know what I can do to help her. Please give me your comments.

2007-11-13 19:18:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-13 19:16:14 · 10 answers · asked by sherryanne24 1 in Weddings

2007-11-13 19:16:05 · 4 answers · asked by looka 1 in Singles & Dating

how do you make him understand that three wemon is too much

2007-11-13 19:15:16 · 8 answers · asked by docsdreamlover 2 in Singles & Dating

The family isn't close---we only get together at Christmas and rarely talk during the year.

I'd prefer to pay bills or spend the money on my children this year. I'm sure they feel the same.

Tell me what you'd say in a letter. Funniest letter gets 10 points.

2007-11-13 19:15:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

lol i know that sounds stupid. but what is the big issue with teeth? i mean come on girlies, im really fun to be with, just i just wont smile if it offends you so much, lol

trust me i dont bite, well i might .... hehe

2007-11-13 19:13:27 · 19 answers · asked by dreammuncher 1 in Singles & Dating

I have to know! My wife says I should not use "her" towel. I feel if I get a 'clean' towel from the cabinet, it should be up for grabs. She tells me if I were paying attention, I would know the 'peach' colored towels were not for my use?????? I say if it's clean, and in the 'clean' cabinet, I am not wrong to use it.


What????

2007-11-13 19:13:24 · 16 answers · asked by john_r 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I call him at least 4 times in one day. If I dont call, he wont. He says he loves me, I want to believe him but, I've been in a relationship like this, for 2 years, I was playing the same role because of the financial pressure on the guy and the moment I stopped making contacts, the relationship died. I love this guy and believe he loves me so I wouldnt want a repeat of what happened to me last year, neither do I want to waste time in a relationship that is being sustained by me. I am a woman, shouldnt be the one sustaining a relationship, should I? I should be the one receiving attention, not the one paying it. I shouldnt be the one making all the efforts for it to work, should I? I am tired of playing the man's role. I wanna take my place as the woman, but he doesnt seem to understand. How do I go about it?

2007-11-13 19:12:36 · 3 answers · asked by Loved 1 in Singles & Dating

A month ago I met a great guy; we clicked instantly & 1st date lasted hours. It was amazing how comfortable we felt w/each. He told me he wasn't playing games, this could b special & didn't want to jump into anything 2 quickly -he wanted to get 2 know me better. Our 2nd date was as great -we spent all day 2gether The whole time held hands & cuddled. In shops he held me close, held my hand & hugged me. We went back to mine & had a great kissing session but still decided to wait....but he wanted me 2 play w/him. In between our dates we constantly texted each other & chatted on phone. His text 1st flirty; then naughty....on our 3rd, we still had amazing convos & laughs but he seemed distant & reluctant 2 hold my hand or cuddle. After the date he didn't text. I waited a couple days then text him- his reply asked why I was quiet. I replied "I sensed u needed space & stepped back 2 give it 2 u-u r amazing & I don't want 2 crowd you xxx". I haven't heard from him since. What happened?

2007-11-13 19:01:48 · 21 answers · asked by M.Y. 1 in Singles & Dating

i realy like this boy in my schwl we talk alot but im affriad he thinks im only interested in being freind coz we just muck about coz thats all i feel comfortable doin any ideas?

2007-11-13 18:59:57 · 2 answers · asked by emma w 2 in Singles & Dating

Im not great at making friends. I have made friends with a guy in work since aug. The thing is i cant tell if he sees me as a mate. Hes not the best at contact. I email him and he does reply and is jokey. The thing is when he wants to do stuff its always can u call/text me. He nagged me to go over his new flat which i did and he said i can go over anytime and we met up for drinks. He says im a cool person. Weve gone to lunch 4 times he asked first so i just returned the favour. The one time i was down he emailed me to make sure it wasnt him who offended me also when i emailed him once he didnt reply he did come to see me in my department to appologise for not replying

2007-11-13 18:58:42 · 9 answers · asked by chinwag 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just cut my toenails with a pumpkin carving knife and arranged the toenail pieces on the lid of the toilet so that when she goes into the bathroom and lifts up the lid it says "Have a happy barf! Thanks for being my first wife!"
Will she like it? I hope so, because my toes are really bleeding a lot.

2007-11-13 18:55:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What is it about men trying to pretend that they don't like a women when they have already told her that they do. Why do you all do that? What is it with the game playing and the tests that you put us through....is that to see if we are worthy of being your girlfriend?
Why is it that men try to pretend in this situation?

2007-11-13 18:52:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She won't sign those divorce papers.
He had dated this other girl for well over two years and they lived under one roof for a year. She had absolutly no idea that he was still married and he never even told her about his ex. He told me that he had no intention of marrying this other girl, but I saw that he kept going back to her.
When she contacted me recently and told me that she is so lin love with my son, and they are getting married and that they are wearing rings, etc, I wondered if I should be telling her about his fist wife.
Well, long story short, I did.
She broke down and cried and immediately broke up with him calling him a liar, and he hung up on her and of course got mad. She was gracious enough not to say that I was the one to break those news to her?
Was I wrong to tell her?
She is a mess and is very sad but I thought she should be told the truth.
Should I have stood by my son and kept my mouth shut?
Help . . !

2007-11-13 18:47:33 · 23 answers · asked by romantic 2 in Marriage & Divorce

as well always a strict uniform stle dress code enforced by hopefully the two of us is required --call me compulsive,but I live for this stuff-how far "out there " am I really? Aside from that minor detail in my life I'm what's considered a nice guy and wish to be viewed as such. Is there hope? I'm divorced and been through quite a few relations will any woman settle for this stuff??

2007-11-13 18:44:44 · 6 answers · asked by emelio e 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm pretty popular. Blond hair to my eyebrows. Blue eyes. Pretty strong. How do I know if i could be considered cute?

2007-11-13 18:42:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What if.... My sister's friend who lives across the street who I've known for over a year has a hot older sister I just barely started talking to.... She's just turned 16 and is a sophomore and I'm 17 and a half and a senior. Given the fact that my mom calls her little sister (my little sister's friend) "part of the family" and she is a year and a half younger, do you think I should make any moves? Or is it risky....

2007-11-13 18:41:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do I make all the flowers real, all the flowers fake? Or a mix? What should be fake and what shouldn't be?

2007-11-13 18:39:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am grade 12 student attending Killarney secondary. I've offically been kicked out for fooling around, being a smartass to the staff and students for about a year and half now. But i dont belive i should be kickout for fooling around. What broke the straw was telling the librarian to "Blow it out his ***". I said that, just for the laughs to show off and now reliaze its has to be one of dumbiest moves i could ever done. I told them im wanting to change but not at another school. So my question leads me to, Should i have been kickedout or should i get one more chance and prove my self that i can change?... I will print these answeres to show to my prinicpal

2007-11-13 18:39:33 · 19 answers · asked by rawrcanucks 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently turned 27 & he's 51. I've shown my interest in having a baby with him in the 5 months we've been dating. He said he's a little weary in having a baby because last year he got an 18-year old girl pregnant, apparently she told him she was using birth control when she really wasnt. He has older kids from a previous marriage & said having another baby would really take some time to consider. He's been having some problems with kidney stones & has passed 2 since I've been with him & said he passed 4 last year & 3 the year b4 that! After he passed his last stone, we had sex later that night & I quit taking my birth control 2 days prior to that b/c we hadnt had sex in over a week. you think i could be pregnant? do u see any problem in having a baby with a man that age, regardless of his stone problem? my friend said i shouldnt be having a baby with a man that passes stones through his penis because he'll give that gene to the kid when he/she is older, be prone to stones!

2007-11-13 18:32:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ladies you can answer also....

I was on the phone with my love today, and well I was just telling him about how this guy tried to get my number and told the guy no but I would take his. Now I also told my guy that I didn't even have my phone with me and that I was just saying it to get the guy out of my face which is the ABSOLUTE truth. It's not like I told him, "I gave this hot guy my number today", I was just telling him how persistent the guy was. Anyway, now he thinks I go around taking guys numbers and call them, I told him I wasn't and he was just like whatever. my question is this,

Should I just have kept what I thought was casual conversation to myself OR is my guy over-reacting.

We are at a stage where we are trying to avoid conflict, but if I am not wrong I will just let this pass.

2007-11-13 18:30:27 · 20 answers · asked by Tnisha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I went to a concert with a family friend, and I got plastered. He was sober, but we hooked up. Now he will not speak to me, unless he has to. He will only visit if he knows I'm not there. We have known eachother for two years, and always got along pretty good. What can I do to get rid of this awkwardness?

2007-11-13 18:29:45 · 6 answers · asked by yayaquack 4 in Singles & Dating

Ladies you can answer also....

I was on the phone with my love today, and well I was just telling him about how this guy tried to get my number and told the guy no but I would take his. Now I also told my guy that I didn't even have my phone with me and that I was just saying it to get the guy out of my face which is the ABSOLUTE truth. It's not like I told him, "I gave this hot guy my number today", I was just telling him how persistent the guy was. Anyway, now he thinks I go around taking guys numbers and call them, I told him I wasn't and he was just like whatever. my question is this,

Should I just have kept what I thought was casual conversation to myself OR is my guy over-reacting.

We are at a stage where we are trying to avoid conflict, but if I am not wrong I will just let this pass.

2007-11-13 18:29:25 · 30 answers · asked by Tnisha 1 in Singles & Dating

can a recovering Drinker and a practicing make it ?????

2007-11-13 18:28:54 · 6 answers · asked by vmaxrubicon 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in love with my best friend. I can't get her out of my mind, I just want her so bad. It feels like I need her. I have tried to spend time away to let my feelings fade. I have tried spending lots of time with her and our other friends to just soak in the "we are friends" atmosphere. I have tried to find others to take my mind off of her. I have tried telling her how I feel, and getting together with her. I have tried ignoring how I feel hoping it will go away. I have even tried prayers and freakin spells for cripes sake. Nothing I do seems to work. My thoughts keep inevitably returning to her, and I can't stop thinking about her. Why? why is it no matter what I do, I can't get her off my mind? Why do I want her so bad? Why is it even when I'm with another woman, all I can think of is her? Why is it that every day that passes, I feel more and more like she is the one?

please help. I don't know what to do anymore.
What else can I do?

2007-11-13 18:26:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm 28 years old and I Have been with my boyfriend for 4 years, i want to get married and have children and live a happy life. But my mom always says i should never get married..and never have children. She went through 2 divorces so i understand it thats whey she feels like this...and she said that having children was so hard..and she loves us..but that if she could do it again..she never would have done it. I know that sounds like she is a horrible mother but she's not...She is an amazing mother and would do anyting for me..but i just wish she could understand that i want to raise a family and be married...what can i do to get her to be ok with that..and just lay off alittle and let me go live my own life..and not make me feel bad about how it turns out no matter what...Any advice would help!! Please Help??

2007-11-13 18:25:59 · 5 answers · asked by *Juni* 2 in Family