I was the perfect girlfriend, actually he told me I was the best. I loved him like no one else, I listened to him, I cooked for him, I snuggled with him, I made him laugh, we had a blast when we were together, living together was fun too, so why did he break up with me over 4 hours of distance when he was in love with me too? I am soo sad and can't seem to get over it. Not to mention that he already is dating another girl and having fun while I feel I wasn't good enough.. HELP me.
2007-11-13 19:22:47 · 14 answers · asked by irish_red_93 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh don't get me wrong, he did things for me too, he listened and helped me out alot, gave me attention and gifts. Took me on trips and read to me, watched movies with me and taught me new games. He was my prince. Long distance is not what he wanted but if you are in love it can work.. that is why I feel that I am not good enough or wasn't worth the fight. He doesn't want me to sacrifice anything for him, and his new girl is right down the road.
2007-11-13 19:47:54 · update #1
I'm sorry.
Don't make this about yourself, I am sure your great.
2007-11-13 19:26:37 · answer #1 · answered by rushmore223 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You said you did all this things, but what did he do for you.the thing is the only way for a guy to get over someone that they cared about or that could hurt their ego a little bit they find a replacement,being the perfect gf does not always work coz at times guys dont get it, somehow if you are perfect they think they are entitled to that already so if they can have someone who gives it, then they can take and dont have to give anything back.so the best thing you can do for yourself is to feel sad but then eventually tell yourself that you are moving on too. the problem here was not that you were not good enough but that you were too good enough that he somehow again felt he didnt deserve although he felt he was entitled to have you, i wont say he didnt love at one point coz he did, imean if you ended up leaving together it takes a lot for a relationship to get there.
2007-11-14 03:31:45 · answer #2 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun if he left you, he doesn't care to be around you anymore. If he's far away, it's because he's not mature enough to be in a realationship like yours. And he already moved on, so why should you feel sad? Do you think he feels the same way? Not at all. He's with someone else.
So dry your eyes, and hold your head up high. You learned from this, and i'm sure he will realize that he let something amazing go.
Remember that if he did this to you, you deserve much better.
Hang in there, you will be over him sooner than you think :)
2007-11-14 03:27:01 · answer #3 · answered by Green Eyes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where could i get a gf like you.Anyway i think you're one of the best gf that a bf should ask for.Too bad for you that he doesn't know how to appreciate you.Don't get too down on this and i know how hurt are you presently.Life have to go on and i wish you could find someone better in the future.
2007-11-14 03:31:51 · answer #4 · answered by rootbeer_118 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better to forget him and start with some really good guy who cares for u,He seems to b an opportunist,because he left u hi and dry without any prior warning,or giving u any opportunity to explain any differences u had with him.U will get ur prince charming,who cares for u.GOOD LUCK.
2007-11-14 03:33:04 · answer #5 · answered by prahlad d 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isn't worth it. Period. It doesn't matter why he did what he did. He is ****** up and doesn't deserve you. You deserve someone better that will appreciate you! It is hard to move on, but just think about the bad stuff and find someone else.
2007-11-14 03:25:29 · answer #6 · answered by Midnight61 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are tooooo frikkin' good for him, my friend! Seriously, a jerk like that who doesn't know a good thing when he sees it is NOT worth your time! Go find yourself a real Prince Charming, and be thankful you got out of that toxic relationship as soon as you did! :-)
2007-11-14 03:27:25 · answer #7 · answered by Nata 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG
girl you need to talk to me
you Will survive through this
amm
right
ITS HIS PROBLEM
that he left you
one of the most precious girls ever
he deserves a slap
Hang in there
you will either release
that he did WATS right for him
or you will want to kill him
most go for kill
but me and my ex
i went for forgive
and i know he did it for his own good
but at my expense
just
say cram
good luck
2007-11-14 03:29:03 · answer #8 · answered by LiTtLe MiSs 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is only one posibility and that is he don't really love you from his heart.So i think its time u let him go and find your own new love.As they say the best way to cure a break up is to get into a new relationship.
2007-11-14 03:26:32 · answer #9 · answered by Ryoma E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, he wasn't the right guy for you. You did everything you could, so now it's time to move on. Prayer helps; God has a plan for you :)
2007-11-14 03:26:11 · answer #10 · answered by la-la-lauren 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time will heal your wounds. Try to concentrate on your life and health. Forget him.
2007-11-14 03:34:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋