Im not great at making friends. I have made friends with a guy in work since aug. The thing is i cant tell if he sees me as a mate. Hes not the best at contact. I email him and he does reply and is jokey. The thing is when he wants to do stuff its always can u call/text me. He nagged me to go over his new flat which i did and he said i can go over anytime and we met up for drinks. He says im a cool person. Weve gone to lunch 4 times he asked first so i just returned the favour. The one time i was down he emailed me to make sure it wasnt him who offended me also when i emailed him once he didnt reply he did come to see me in my department to appologise for not replying
2007-11-13 18:58:42 · 9 answers · asked by chinwag 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sounds like a friend....
2007-11-13 19:15:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop asking the same questions over again and again and again and again!
Read through all the questions and answers you've asked, under all your names, and this is what you will see:
* You fancy man. He has fiance.
* He asked you to eat lunch with him once. He never asked again.
* You send him emails. He doesn't send you them.
* You go 11 days without contacting him to see if he contacts you. He doesn't contact you
* Occasionally there might be some tennuous flirting, although he might also fancy you sister, and knows you fancy him, but thats about it.
Its pretty obvious and you know it!
He has a fiance, and another life, and other friends. You are someone he knows at work. He knows you fancy him, beacuse its painfully obvious and you are obsessive, and quite likes having the attention. He still has a fiance.
This is not terrible, or the end of the world; this is certinaly not something to obsess about or keep asking questions about - its just the way it is.
2007-11-13 21:53:50 · answer #2 · answered by simplesimon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure sounds like a friend. Maybe not best buddies as yet but give it time
2007-11-13 19:57:35 · answer #3 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems to b a good guy,he cares for u,but can not come openly and tell u that he loves u,he is a shy guy,so u open ur cards and tell him about ur feelings toward him.
2007-11-13 19:06:33 · answer #4 · answered by prahlad d 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a freind to me
2007-11-13 19:02:58 · answer #5 · answered by footballclubchelsea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should keep him...seems like a friend...FOR NOW... :)
What happens next...you tell us..and I hope we can help ...
Good luck!
2007-11-13 20:01:18 · answer #6 · answered by Aquamarine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can count him as a friend.
2007-11-13 19:40:13 · answer #7 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUND KINDA LIKE A FRIEND
2007-11-13 19:06:52 · answer #8 · answered by Brooke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friend. But you seem to clingy?
2007-11-13 19:08:58 · answer #9 · answered by Mr-Kay 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋