Family & Relationships - 13 November 2007

2007-11-13 17:21:56 · 17 answers · asked by Peace =) 4 in Singles & Dating

this guy asked me out and i said ok but then he told me he wants to have sex with me. And I told him i would like to stay until i get married to have sex. And he was like i don't want to pressure you but i don't want a relationship without sex and seems he lost his interest in me totally. Is this kind of guy a player or what?

2007-11-13 17:20:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I misscarred our baby on 10-28-06, my husband left for Brazil (work sent him) 7 days after I had surgery. My son who was 6 months at the time was what i focused on and I never really delt with the loss. Now with it being over a year later I don't feel like crying helps. My husband never really showed any emotion about the loss. When i try to talk to him about the way i feel, he changes the subject (he is REALLY good at this.) and i would just like to know how to really get him to talk to me about this.
He Never saw the heart beat, He wasn't the one who was carrying the child. he just acts as if it never happend and Doesn't want me to "honor"my baby's life around 10-28. he says he dosnt see the point. "What's in the past, is in the past"

2007-11-13 17:20:41 · 13 answers · asked by avzgurl420 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we talked for 4 hours and had fun but i said we should end the night, he hasn't txt/call me since then so i texted him today and told them that i would like to see him again but still he hasn't respond yet. is he just buying time or not really interested. HELP

2007-11-13 17:19:37 · 17 answers · asked by zigzag1223 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-13 17:18:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex insists she accomplished this feat, but I don't see how it is possible. I think she was just trying to make light of one of men's greatest achievements.

2007-11-13 17:17:48 · 12 answers · asked by Ralishev 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend is going through a divorce & he's been trying to have faith in God thru this whole deal. But tonight he confessed very angry that he's struggling with everything.
How can a man that worked a steady hard working job for 27 years, was a good husband & father to 2 step children & his own, provided a home & love for his wife. Why is the drug addicted mother that ignores her three children, non-working wife, cheating on him with a drug dealer... HOW IS IT SHE IS GETTING THE GOOD END OF THE STICK. She is getting child support, alimony (she is living with the cheatee) he has spent more money in the divorce that he will have. He is going to lose his house, have to sell most of his possessions (which is his work truck & his truck & house.) He is left with no furniture in the house. she took 80% of it. he is getting things donated. HE IS QUESTIONING GOD: Why do good things happen to bad people and bad things to good people???? I need wisdom here poeple... HELP!!!

2007-11-13 17:16:22 · 7 answers · asked by Mitch 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i was at work one night when this nice guy came in and asked for my phone number, we quickly became friends. I did give him my number but i also told him i was in a relationship. we ended up going out for a drink and he kissed me. I later went back to his place were he introduced me to some friends. We ended up having sex. I went home he never called me for 2 days finally i called him and he just said he was busy. Well we went out again he wanted to talk to me, thats when he broke the news that he was moving back home in a week 4hours away, we did sleep together again. the next day he called my friend and left a message that he was torn up about leaving he did not want to go but he had to for work. That day i went to work he dropped off a flower and a letter, he said he would call me when he got home. three days later he called, he said he missed me and so on, he also said he would call me the next day no call, fianlly 3 days later i call him no answer, than he calls me back.

2007-11-13 17:16:16 · 3 answers · asked by Tammy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-13 17:15:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

christmas is coming up and i dont know what to get for my b/f???
i never had a bf over the holidays(christmas for all you not so bright ones) so i never had to deal with this situation
help me please!!

2007-11-13 17:14:57 · 1 answers · asked by sammi-sumskins 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I been with my BF for one year...his Pakistani and I am from north Africa. everything was good until I find out that his a gang member and his stuck with them.I gave up everything my body my soul, my job my Family. my Friends. I even changed just to make him happy I do everything that could do for him. he used to say I love u and I will never give u up .. only u or nobody....he used to say I am a man and I do what I want no body have power over me except god.. then last week he completely changed . he didn't call me for two days. before he used to call me.every five minutes...my parents are making my life hell. they say Ether us or him... I choose him..I didn't have any explanation why did he do that.. I asked him.. he told me he own a lot of money to his people. and he doesn't want to hold me.. and want me to move on... but its hard for me.... I cant do that he wants to be my Friend but I cant... he calls me today telling me that he loved me and his Ganna be with me the whole life..and everything Ganna be okay...I dont know what he want me to do... he give hope again. I love him.. we make out. please help me.. I am lost

2007-11-13 17:14:11 · 8 answers · asked by I_belong_to_me 3 in Singles & Dating

I am attending a wedding next weekend and I need help finding a nice wedding present.
The couple does not have their own home, I believe they are living with parents, so household items are out.
I'm on a budget and was thinking of getting some nice picture frames from Walmart for their wedding pictures. What else could I get that is nice and has thought put into it?
Thanks?

2007-11-13 17:08:58 · 16 answers · asked by Clear 1 in Weddings

when your making out?

(i dont need to know... i know where mine go... ;) but i was just wondering...)

2007-11-13 17:08:00 · 12 answers · asked by pantalonsurlefeu2 1 in Singles & Dating

Please include the following purchases/rentals in your percentage: Centerpieces/candles/candelabras/archways/guestbook supplies/rental cake/knife set/wine glasses/flowergirl basket/ringbearer pillow/cake topper/pew bows/pillars/unity candle holder/moneybox.

2007-11-13 17:07:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my boyfriend is sick, and we usually hang out afterschool behind a building that is secluded and we can talk. if he comes 2 school tomorrow, i wanted 2 do something 2 comfort him, something 2 make him feel better, when just sitting around, something without talking. does any1 have any suggestions on what 2 do 2 make him feel loved, secure, safe, and comfortable? and how do i do them if hard?

2007-11-13 17:06:23 · 8 answers · asked by honey 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years. He is 31, I'm 26. I want to get married soon. How do I approach this without sounding demanding or pushy. I don't want him to ask me to marry him because I made him or because I gave him an ultimatum. Any advice?

2007-11-13 17:05:27 · 15 answers · asked by megs1bq 3 in Weddings

I'm 27. With the Holidays comming up, the part I dread is seeing my extended family. My Dad's side is doable, the only issue there is little kids running everywhere but its alright.

My Mom's side is quite another story, It was ok when my Grandparents were alive but with them gone dealing with My Aunt's family is not easy. I think there full of themselves and I'm pretty much invisible to them. i know I'll get nothing out of going. I get ignored pretty much, I could give a rip about sports and thats all they talk about.

my 2nd option is my friends family, I like them but my friend and his mother get into a fight everytime. Too much drama.

My 3rd choice is, saying screw it and spending a quiet day @ home.

What would you do?

2007-11-13 17:04:58 · 5 answers · asked by BS and thats no BS 1 in Friends

I was losing my underwear for a week and on suspicion, I bust into my teenage bro's room and looked around. I found a drawer full with bras and panties...some were not even mine. So must be buying them/ stealing them from others.

When I threatened to tell mom, he says he will throw it out...but how can i be sure?

What do I do?? Help!
How can he want to look at me like that?

What can he possibly want with female undies?

What do I do with the ones that he gave back? Shld I use them?

2007-11-13 17:04:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

it was early in the morning....everyone was asleep...or so we thought.....we dont know how long our 2 year old was standing there......WHAT DO WE DO? he said "what are you guys doing" we said "mommy and daddy were wrestling" and then he just said "oh, ok im ready for breakfast" Should we drop it???

2007-11-13 17:04:37 · 20 answers · asked by Lonely Turkey 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-13 17:01:49 · 16 answers · asked by hotpinksugar 1 in Weddings

I had this topic debated in my philosophy class and I just wondered what people thought.

2007-11-13 17:00:15 · 11 answers · asked by flatfoot 3 in Singles & Dating

I like a male bartender who works in a very busy bar-how do I get us started?
It's a busy dance bar and I've been in 1-2 X a week the last 3 weeks.The first time we "met" we instantly pressed our heads together over the bar to hear each other...another time I flirted with him and asked what drink does the sexy bartender recommend. He actaully seemed shy, his eyes dropped but there was also another wopman he was serving at the same time. Last few times I didn't order from him purposefully, but I smiled and he waved hi.We defintely are aware of each other It's hard to tell if he is wary or shy or what. I have a lot of attnetion from men in this club and I have defintely demo'ed to him that other men like me,are dancing w me, etc. but not making out or leaving w anyone or anything like that... I don't want to be so crass as to fling my number at him or s

2007-11-13 17:00:10 · 1 answers · asked by violet femme 1 in Singles & Dating

she is getting married in Australia and not the UK so she needed to include a UK bridesmaid(as a compromise for this), as well as her sister of course but I still feel shes doing this due to pressure from his family do you think I can make her see I too should be included in the bridal party?

2007-11-13 16:59:21 · 16 answers · asked by wilo_chick 4 in Weddings

My fiance and I live with my parents, we used to have an apartment, but lost that because he wasn't working and we didn't make enough with my income. Anyways so my parents offered us to move in with them giving us enough time to catch up on some bills and school loans. They didn't want us dipping into any savings that we had. Well its been 7 in a half months and the savings is gone, he finally started working about a month ago, the thing is, I don't trust him. I know he has lied to me before, I mean he has started working a month ago, but not at the same job, the first job he said was something with imports, but he never got paid he kept telling me that they wouldn't pay him, now he works for a collection company and he's supposed to get paid this Friday. My parents can't take it anymore, I know it shouldn't take someone 7 months to find a job, and before that he hadn't worked for a whole year. I don't know what to do. Please if anyone has gone through this any advice would be great.

2007-11-13 16:57:19 · 11 answers · asked by Lovely1 1 in Friends

last year i was super close with this kid danny. but then he started to have feelings and i didnt, and we had a falling out. he got a gf after that and they dated until just a few weeks ago. since then, we've started talking again and are now on good terms (were both jrs in highschool now). we hungout for the first time the weekend after he broke up with his ex, and somehow ended up just being chill and cuddling. for the first time i thought that maybe i could see myself with him.

but okay so this past weekend, he basically ditched me twice. he asked me if i wanted to hangout friday but when friday came he suddenly said that he couldnt.. then the same thing happened on sunday. he apologized and all, but it was weird since he was the one who asked to hangout both times in the first place. then at school today, he didnt even look me in the eye. so weird. whats his deal/why is he acting like this? do you think he genuinely wants to pursue me or is just hoping to use me as a rebound? ...

2007-11-13 16:55:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex has residence for our two children because I cannot afford a home for them.Although no custody order has been made he acts asif I have no say over the children.

2007-11-13 16:55:09 · 4 answers · asked by bitter.blue 2 in Family

2007-11-13 16:54:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My 72 year old father can't take care of himself anymore, so he lives with my husband, my son, and I. My son is 6, and today he walked in on my dad mausterbating in his bedroom. My dad explained to me what happened, and that my son ran out of the room. How do i explain the incident to my son?

2007-11-13 16:52:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have recently filed a petition and had a trial to get supervised visits for my ex husband with our son. My ex is a big alcoholic and had to be taken by ambulance with a blood alcohol level of .4!!! they said if his wife hadnt called he would be dead. Well then I found out he was too drunk to take our son to the hospital to get stitches and the neighbor had to do it. He is very manipulating to my son. He drinks a fifth of Jack daniels every day. Well the judge will make a decision after talking with my son tomorrow. My son loves his dad very much and is very angry with me for taking his dad's overnight vivits away. He want to live with his dad now and has a bad attitude. He doesnt understand and his dad has him convinced that he may drink all the time but doesn't get drunk and i am only doing this to be mean. Which I am not supervised visits mean I have to drive my son 1 hour each way to go visit his dad and I am willing to do it..how do I make him not hate me and see this is best?

2007-11-13 16:52:24 · 15 answers · asked by Mommy to 4 boys :) 7 in Family

I have been asking my husband to move out of the house for several months now, as he is not addressig any of the issues in our marriage. But he blankly refuses, saying he has nowhere to go and he "doesn't want to put his family out by staying with them as the don't have the room". He has asked that I let him stay for 3 months to save to move out!!! I am not cool with this at all, as I know his plan is to live here, save all his money, and let me pay for all the expenses! I doubt he could save any money anyway - he can't keep 5c in his pocket for more than a minute. What does everyone think? Is this the done thing or should he just move out? I also think he doesn't plan to move out fullstop - the 3 month thing is just to buy time to get back in my good books. Also, how do I get him out of the house if he refuses to go??? Advice please!!!

2007-11-13 16:51:21 · 10 answers · asked by Kylie M 1 in Marriage & Divorce