I was losing my underwear for a week and on suspicion, I bust into my teenage bro's room and looked around. I found a drawer full with bras and panties...some were not even mine. So must be buying them/ stealing them from others.
When I threatened to tell mom, he says he will throw it out...but how can i be sure?
What do I do?? Help!
How can he want to look at me like that?
What can he possibly want with female undies?
What do I do with the ones that he gave back? Shld I use them?
2007-11-13 17:04:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Be a loving and caring sister. Talk to him. Let him confide in you. Ask him if he wants to dress for you. Show him that you can see him in panties and a bra and not laugh at him. Offer to take him bra and panty shopping. You will develope a close brother/sister friendship that you both will cherrish for life. He is probably going through a faze. Worst case, he likes to crossdress. Lots of guys do. Be his support now becuase he needs you.
2007-11-14 01:44:20 · answer #1 · answered by GO FOR IT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps your brother is just trying to figure out who he is with all the hormonal changes. You are his sister, be kind and do not judge him. See if he wants to talk or help him find a school counselor or person at church that he can share his confusion with. Let him be ok with who he is... being a teenager is really tough and everyone does strange things. If he is not hurting himself or others let him be. Freaking out or threatening to "tell" on him will not help. The ones he gave back...wash them for goodness sake and wear them, he did not ruin them. If you want to know why he has them...ASK!
2007-11-13 17:19:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know being a teenager he probably show's his friends them saying they are another gurls underwear i'm sure it's not what your'e thinking and as for telling your mum???? Mayb Talk to him about it first like ask him does he wear them and if so fine he can keep them but also ask about what i mentioned above i'm pretty sure it's that.. but tell him not to steal your underwear or anyone elses for that matter anymore...
2007-11-13 17:24:46 · answer #3 · answered by Rosey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wash the ones he gave back with some good bleach... you can wear them if he hasn't stretched them out.
It sounds like your brother is experimenting with cross-dressing or exploring other areas of his gender identity.
2007-11-13 17:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hormones, curiousity, probably not a big deal. Just try to do your best and talk with him, if you are not comfortable with that then bring in an adult or someone who you trust and if possible someone that he knows and trusts as well. Good Luck.
2007-11-13 17:12:24 · answer #5 · answered by jt2002champ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is okies, sort of sibling curiousity, just warn him gently and get over the matter. I think he has got exposed to blue films and porno magazines, so if he gets to see real thing, this fad will vanish
2007-11-13 17:21:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, don't tell on him. He is just growing up and acting strange and this is normal. Be his friend and try to talk to him and keep it a secret. If you tell your friends they will spread all around and your brother will be teased and ridiculed all through his life. Also your Parents do not have to know this. Be nice and help him and you will be happy that you did.
2007-11-13 17:14:07 · answer #7 · answered by islandgirl0521 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No u shouldn't use them. wait and see if they're still there the next time. If they are, then you should tell. Although, your bro is a teenager with crazy hormones.
2007-11-13 17:08:37 · answer #8 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
wash them use them be prepared for your brother to be a crossdresser. He might like wearing womens clothes.
2007-11-13 17:36:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is a cross dresser. Don't worry, if thats the weirdest thing he does in his life then its fine.
2007-11-13 17:11:38 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋